posted March 20, 2008 09:21 PM            

Aqua woman/Libra man story. He wanted me to be his perfect mate. He wanted me to be the other half to his whole. But... how HE wanted me to be. He was very good at emotional manipulation, and I fell for it for a long time. So, I think it's only fair to really look at the situation and wonder if maybe he felt like I felt... Like I could never give him what he expected and needed from his partner, and that he would never be able to give me the freedom I needed...

posted March 21, 2008 05:47 AM            

While I love the positive attributes Aqua brings to humanity, few can really express.

And when they finally do fall in love with you, become "attached" in their eyes, is when the real hell begins.

The last thing on earth they want for them selves is "love," and certainly not to feel attached to someone!

God, how I wish they would prove me wrong, just one prove me wrong, just one in particular...but that would mean rising above their own ego needs for another, and this is something else they just can not do.

Now, back to my world of..insanity...

posted March 21, 2008 11:00 AM            

Perhaps I could, but 1. I am enjoying my peace and I feel that I have done enough to maintain our relationship/freindship. 2.He already knows when he comes back this way he needs to have his sh1t in order or else don't come back, I have made that very clear, so I will let him come to me, bc he already knows what he has to do..And if he comes back he will be ready,, that is our understanding, oh and of course if I am available..

Maybe he's just scared to call you because he knows he's been a jerk. Well he will figure it out, he is a very intelligent guy..

posted March 21, 2008 04:37 PM            

"I'll keep the radar open, I'll still be gentle, and forgiving, when the time is right"

If I expected anything more of a Libra I would be thinking crazy..I have a girlfriend that is inlove with a Aqua guy who seems to think the same way and the results are always the same, she ends up hurt and confused..They can take a woman for granted, gotta get out of that radar for them to realize they really love you and miss you..Got to deal with them with a iron fist in a velvet glove..One has to figure it out though..

posted March 21, 2008 05:09 PM            

Now do I still love him yes I do and I think of him often and I already know that he is thinking about me, but the hold up for him is getting himself together he does not have to change who he is but he definetly had to change how he treated me. He is not ready and I understand that but that is his problem not mines..There is a sucess story here no matter what, I have become a different woman through this I have grown alot so if he and I never meet in the middle again I have learned alot from this and I am taking it on with me as I continue my journey..And I know that I can love another man..Life lessons, you gotta face them one way or another..

posted March 21, 2008 06:22 PM            

1) Mid 30's, married, baby about 18 mos old. I suppose happily enough married, but he does have a fascination with a particular Pisces lady.

2) Late 40's. Been married to the same lady for a long time. Does not flirt, loyal to his wife, but one day he and I got into a discussion. I was curious as to his activities of his home life, as he is a brilliant nurse. He replied he just sits in his easy chair and blocks everybody out. I asked him about his marriage, he replies it has just become comfortable, no passion left, it has just become comfortable.

3) 46 years Old, a 1962 Aqua so he is one hellaof an Aqua. I have lost his chart and I forget where his moon is but he is just 6 weeks older than me, and with his sun in Aqua also is his Venus and he has a similar stellium that I do, Mars, Merc and Jupiter oppo to Uranus and Saturn in Aqua as well. He is a physician. His first wife, also a physician just up and left him one day, according to him "did not even leave me a coffee cup..." He is a womanizer, a cheater. He now lives with his girlfriend, they have two small boys. He will not marry her, told me once he wanted to make sure he "loved" her before he did that. How comfortable for him, to not be committed, other than the children, how easy it is for him to cohabitate with a woman, he does not love....he has been through most nurses in the downtown area where he works..now I hear he is starting on the unit clerks....silly Pisces gfriend of his...silly, silly woman!

4) 45 yr old, another nurse. Just went through a divorce. He, too goes through alot of women. He dated a good friend of mine when he was separated from his ex. My Saggie gfriend could not put up with his elusiveness, his aloofness, his non-explanations of his whereabouts, etc. He has alluded to me his funky sexual adventures with lady physicians. He is so strange, he goes to the coast and fishes all alone...

5) 57 year old man in a sham of a marriage. A "marriage of convenience" he calls it. Another Aqua inlove with a Pisces, but I repeat "inlove." The sham of a marriage is more comfortable for him. It is more comfortable for him to go home to a wife he barely communicates with, than divorce her to be with the one he loves.

It takes one hellaof a woman to be with an Aqua man, I send blessings to you all.....it takes one hellaof a woman to leave an Aqua man....