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Topic: Life is about to change... big time... HELP
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ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 18, 2008 12:49 PM
This is pretty major of a situation. Please help with this synastry if you can. Card readings have been positive, but any feedback would be great. Are all the Neptune influences making this just an illusion? Is there any stabilty or reality here? Help, please, because it's life changing... IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 18, 2008 01:41 PM
I'm not very experienced with this. The first thing that jumps out in regards to what you said is his NN on your Chiron. ♥ I'm not sure what that means but it seems important to your circumstance. ♥ I hope you get a lot of replies.IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 18, 2008 02:46 PM
Thanks, Mel. I hope so too. Ever felt like you were standing on the edge of a cliff? Do you jump, or grab the rope being held out to you, even though you know where the rope leads? Hmm... Oh.. and the other thing... time to be a grown up... IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 18, 2008 03:22 PM
Ok, I'm going to throw something else out. Your Saturn is in Libra and his moon is right there... that must be good, right? His emotional nature being the same as your security needs and longevity? And your expansive Jup is right there combined and there is an easy connection down to his expansive Jup too. I know Saturn is supposed to restrict some, but it isn't supposed to STOP things that are MEANT to happen... just slow them down to a reasonable and cautious pace. A deep and thorough pace filled with learning and wisdom. If the connections weren't meant to happen, they wouldn't be there. And they say Jupiter is never really bad even with stressful aspects and this looks like a trine. The two Neptunes conjunct is not that big of a deal. Everyone born in the same year or so will have conjunct Neptunes, right? All those High School and college sweethearts? I don't think it is an illusion. And again... just poking around... I hope you get some real answers from those in the know. *******edited to say **** I see R is a Cancer with Mars in Cancer and is a Gem Venus. That Gem Venus might be messing with you. Back and forth. And you will have to be sensitive to the crab... lots of work being sensitive. LOTS. The Mars in Cancer is the "girl" and needs to be pursued and woo-ed out of the shell and that Gem is going to be able to do the quick change I just read about in Astrology to protect the Crab whenever it senses danger... which will probably be more than you can tolerate. :^D But I am just speaking from having a family full of crabby types. :^D ♥ That I love, of course.
And I can see the back and forth of my own Saturn in Gemini. For a bit I'm lady Capricorn, PTA super mom and member of the board of directors... bringing home the proverbial bacon and frying it up in the pan... and the then seasons change and I am laid back internet addict and dreamy artist... listening to music all day and writing lyrics and songs in my mind without much of a feeling of responsibility at all. IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 18, 2008 03:42 PM
Thanks again, sweetheart. It means a lot that you are commenting. I have never been so scared in my life.. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 18, 2008 07:15 PM
Well, what on earth is wrong?? Did he ask you to marry him? Are you ok?? IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 9759 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted November 18, 2008 07:29 PM
There are definitely some really good aspects.His moon trine your sun his venus trine your mars/merc and sextile your moon his jupiter conjunct your mars/merc and your planets are mostly in each other's yin houses a few things stand out that may be rough..
his pluto squares your sun and his saturn makes a T-square w/ your moon and mars/merc he may try to change you. and/or have a limiting influence. your venus unaspected... his sun/mars square your pluto and op your sun his venus/uranus opposition could be unreliable, with venus opposing ascendant/uranus being a charmer.. Looks like a lot of potential, and maybe anything's possible. Listen to your gut but try not to make any sudden moves.
i dunno.
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good girl Knowflake Posts: 791 From: ohio Registered: Nov 2008
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posted November 18, 2008 07:36 PM
Hello. I wanted to help, astrology has been my life long hobby. But I don't understand the chart you posted. I did your charts at an on line sighted, then checked with my book ephemeris. The planets for your birthdays don't match the planetary positions in signs to the chart you posted. Why is that? Is your birthdate January 21, 1961? Your moon should be in taurus, for example. Are you an astrologer? Because this doesn't make sense to me.IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 18, 2008 10:15 PM
Well, the thing is... it's not the cancer I had previously posted about. And... besides us basically saying, and knowing, that we are going to spend our lives together... there is this other thing that happened that changes life... so.. um... yeah.. Thank you both, Mel and Steve, for your comments. I honestly can see myself with this person forever.. it's just really REALLY scary...No, good girl, I was born in 1981. Sorry if this is off, but I got it from astro.com. Thanks for your interest. IP: Logged |
writesomething Knowflake Posts: 2666 From: meet me in montauk Registered: May 2006
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posted November 18, 2008 11:16 PM
are you prego?IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 19, 2008 10:20 AM
Cheeky... IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese Knowflake Posts: 1811 From: UK Registered: Jan 2008
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posted November 19, 2008 10:24 AM
Ghani babe, how you doing??? xxxIP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 19, 2008 10:47 AM
Just wrote you a novel in your thread, wheels... finally had time, hope it makes sense.. Thank you all for being here. I love you!! IP: Logged |
bunnies Knowflake Posts: 719 From: U.K Registered: Mar 2007
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posted November 19, 2008 02:28 PM
We are all off to Wheels's house!!!
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LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 317 From: Where there's dancing... Registered: Mar 2006
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posted November 19, 2008 03:31 PM
What's your the thread topic, wheels? IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 19, 2008 06:05 PM
Glad the cavalry finally arrived. Dance, Wonderful World of Wheels of Cheese in the Know Two Are Alike forum. I won't be visiting tonight since I am spending today under covers with junk t.v. and homework. Take care all ghani... if you are over 25... oh, '81... yes, yes you are... then there's never a doubt in my mind when it comes to a baby. The guy... uh well... life is an adventure, right, but a baby is a gift from God. An exhausting one... but nothing to return for a refund. Satisfaction guaranteed, I promise.
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MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 19, 2008 06:08 PM
Oh, and see Steve's thread on his nephew if you need any more convincing. I mean, can a baby BE any cuter than that??? Yes, yes a baby CAN BE... especially if SHE is MY BABY... who is still the most beautiful thing to ever exist in my opinion.
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ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 20, 2008 02:18 PM
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ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 24, 2008 01:29 PM
Mental... but all good. Still trying to work this out with nobody being too hurt... but at least factor #3 is not an issue. Sad, in a way...IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 9759 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted November 24, 2008 05:50 PM
People get hurt; its a fact of life.Its part of growing up and coming to terms with reality. I suggest you dont worry so much about his feelings. Honesty is the best policy. IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted January 26, 2009 01:33 PM
And baby makes three... IP: Logged |
26taurus Knowflake Posts: 15699 From: * Registered: Jun 2004
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posted January 26, 2009 01:41 PM
Congratulations!!! IP: Logged |
ghanima81 Moderator Posts: 1818 From: MAINE! :) Registered: Aug 2003
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posted January 26, 2009 02:31 PM
Thank you!! I can't believe how much it changes your whole view point to have this happen!! And I never thought I could, so it's kind of a miracle at this point!! I'll keep everyone posted!! Ghani IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 26, 2009 02:37 PM
ohhh... I was wondering but didn't want to bump the thread if it wasn't to be... I'm very happy for you. Your life is changing forever and you are ready. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 4885 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 26, 2009 02:38 PM
You just posted at the same time! Yes, an absolute miracle. Yes, keep us posted. IP: Logged |