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Topic: can i have some Advice please.
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mysticgirl Knowflake Posts: 12 From: uk Registered: Aug 2008
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posted March 06, 2009 05:36 AM
i told my Aqua friend last night when we had been drinking together at his place we were both drunk when i said that im in love with him and he said he does not fancy me or think of me sexually. im confused cause we have been getting closer over the last year and all his friends say he fancys me. so i dont know if i should remain friends with him like he wants to or move on thanks.IP: Logged |
spunknini Knowflake Posts: 1402 From: Sydney NSW, Australia Registered: Mar 2008
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posted March 06, 2009 06:07 AM
With an Aquaman it's anyones guess. He could be being honest with you or he could be testing your friendship to see if you walk away now.Just be his friend for now & see what happens is my guess. You never know what he will do. Sorry I can't be of more help. IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees Knowflake Posts: 5953 From: UK Registered: Jul 2005
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posted March 06, 2009 07:37 AM
If he isn't the right person for you to be with, the universe will provide you with someone who is....when the time is right.... IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 3052 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted March 06, 2009 09:56 AM
All good advice mystic girl.And yes you never know. I was off and on with my Aqua for a couple years. I loved him almos immediately after we met, but he had said he was not where I was. Astrologically through our charts it said this was true love my gut told me it was true love, but his actions was saying he could take me or leave me. But sometimes I could see through him that he loved me he was just to immature and did not know a good woman if she walked up to him and slapped the crap out of him. Last year in June I just told him I loved him after a short hiatus and he was shocked the first time I told him was when we first had gotten together 5 months into our relationship. I had never said it again until this past June..It got crazy between us some distance for about 6 months very minimul contact I thought that he did not love me so I began to let go and move on..But I did remain his friend I said if friendship is all he wants then thats cool with me and yes I felt another will come along.. Finally he has been showing me that he loves me in the best way that he can, I know he does bc he is doing things that he has never done. And I feel like he appreciates me in every way.. So I say all this to say don't stop being who you are let go don't worry about what will happen just keep moving and whats to happen will just happen.. I am a Pisces too... IP: Logged |
mysticgirl Knowflake Posts: 12 From: uk Registered: Aug 2008
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posted March 06, 2009 11:25 AM
Thanks for the replys he text me this morning to say sorry about last night saying he had way too much to drink so i dont know if he ment what he said? last night its soo confusing i guess i will just have to see what happens.IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Where there's dancing... Registered: Mar 2006
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posted March 06, 2009 07:53 PM
mysticgirl,Hmmm, if I were to say to a guy that I was not feeling the same way about him as he feels about me, I'd mean it. The only way I would change would be if somewhere during our association he did something that really impressed me mentally and/or spiritually, not physically though (since I already see his physique and am not romantically attracted to him). So my advice to you would be to find out what he is most interested in and become an expert in the subject/s. If not an expert, at least be able to hold lengthy, intelligent conversations about it with him. He will be impressed with you and just may begin to consider you in the romantic sense. But first in foremost, prove to him that you are his FRIEND. We are BIG on that. IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars Knowflake Posts: 588 From: South Carolina, USA Registered: Apr 2008
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posted March 07, 2009 10:05 AM
MysticGirl:It is hard to give advice in matters of the heart. However I agree with Mama Mia. You have to let go. Love will do its thing. The Energy that you call your Love is like a beautiful Divine pearl that has been given as a gift to us here on this Earth. To either cultivate it and make it grow into a beautiful priceless gem and share with the world, or throw it before swine. ...... Drunk or no drunk when you look another human being in the eye that you have romantic feelings/love for and you tell them how you feel. You have presented your pearl. Based on there actions and words you will know if they are indeed swine or not. Obviously he is in a place where he cannot see or does not want to see how special your love is. You cannot change that. You cannot be pretty enough. Or funny enough. Or smart enough. None of these thing will make someone "love" you. Do you know why? Because he already does. And you know that. That is why you told him you loved him. Because your intuition tells you that he loves you. And your intuition is right, you are connected to emotions. But for whatever reason he cannot connect to the frequency that your mutual love vibrates at. He is not able to love you the way you want to be loved. He cannot love at that frequency. So now you have a choice. You can either stay and throw your pearl before a swine. Or you can protect it as the beautiful Divine gift it is and safeguard it so that it can continue to grow and its Energy will light your pathway in your Ascension process. Life is full of choices right now...... And this is yours. IP: Logged |
winky_winky Knowflake Posts: 602 From: SPAIN Registered: Oct 2007
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posted March 08, 2009 12:24 PM
I agree these Aquas can be tricky...The one I like now, even though it is ages I havenīt seen him, told me not so straightforwardly that he didnīt fancy me and then started sending me emails and passing through my job with his car and blowing the horn... I suppose he just wants to be friends but I can definitely not because I had a really bad experience not long ago and I donīt see him as a friend at all. I havenīt budged. Because I am starting to really believe in a sentence I read once, from a book on synastry by Nance McCullough called "Love-Formulas": "If you have to forcibly push, then the result is not for you." So I suppose in my case it is a mixture of pain from the last one and pride, but I am not making a move. If he is interested, he will come to me. I made it clear I liked him. So I suggest you wait and see what his signals are, because the call after that night might have been just that: he didnīt want to end up badly with you. Donīt risk your heart too much, in my opinion, wiat and be sure and then invest. My take only, Best of Luck anyway, Marie IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 5144 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 08, 2009 04:44 PM
Mars
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oneruledbymars Knowflake Posts: 588 From: South Carolina, USA Registered: Apr 2008
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posted March 09, 2009 02:46 AM
XOXO Mel...IP: Logged |
Aroshi1221 Knowflake Posts: 3 From: NC, USA Registered: Nov 2006
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posted March 17, 2009 04:03 PM
Look at his chart. If he has any sag in him, it's likely he's being blunt. Aquarians don't traditionally lie, so if he's not interested, don't pursue him. Someone better is waiting for you. IP: Logged |