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ricanbeauty25
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From: miami, fl
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posted August 06, 2013 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ricanbeauty25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a Pisces, he is Scorpio. I've literally never dealt with someone like him and it is honestly a challenge. I would really appreciate a little help. We have been dating for about 7 months now. Im 30, he is 32. We both have had our share of upsets and heartbreaks so we agreed to take it slowly. I honestly am not kept intrigued very long and usually after 2 months most men dont stay around anyway because I dont sleep with them as quickly as they would like. From the moment we met, we talked everyday... texted every day, called everyday. Of course, naturally things slow down. He has done the scoprio thing of going missing. He got mad at me one time from a disagreement we had and he ignored me for a whole week! We have such an amzing connection, I kept reaching out. Until one day I thought to myself, it almost feels like he is trying to punish me! I immediately stopped contacting after I sent a short text that I really do care about him and I believe we can work it out but if he would rather end it, to please give me the respect of knowing and he wont hear from me again. The next day he called me and acted like nothing has happened. Needless to say, I have researched all I can about Scorpio Men and he is 100% on target with the way he is. The thing Im having trouble is this... A month into us dating, he whispered 'I love you'. I take those words very seriously, so I would not dare say them back. I smiled and continued to speak. He mouthed them again, I smiled again. We never brought up the topic. Now, seven months into the dating - we are in the middle of a movie and he whispers 'I love you' parts of the movie into my ear, replacing the name with mine. I giggle the first time and keep watching the movie. The second and third, a giggle as well. The fourth, I looked him in the eyes and smiled, turned back to the movie and hugged him tighter. My confusion lies in this... I do love him - and I haven't wanted to be the first to say it because he is a very traditional male and likes to take the lead. Anytime I have unmistakely led, he backs off. How am I supposed to take this? Is he playing? Is he testing to see how I will react? We haven't even made ourselves official yet and he is poking at the topic of love? Someone please shed some light if at all possible!!!!


***Would telling him I love him make things shaky with him being so traditional???

**Pisces Woman In Love with Scorpio Man***

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Randall
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posted August 06, 2013 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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Bluejay
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posted August 06, 2013 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say that if you really love him you should tell him. It seems like you are feeling guarded, which is understandable, but to hide your true feelings is not going to help anything. If he has already told you that he loves you, he has put himself out there with the possibility of the feelings not being reciprocated. If he thinks that you don't feel the same, he might end up feeling rejected. So don't play games, if you really love him let your guard down and be honest.

Now, that being said...I think it is strange for him to say he loves you and take you out on dates, but the two of you have not discussed being in a committed relationship. Scorpios tend to be very guarded, and typically won't put themselves out there like that unless they know where the relationship stands. I sort of get the impression that he might be a player that tells girls what they want to hear, and throws those words around easily, almost in a playful manner. That could be totally off, but I just felt I needed to mention that. I have always heard about the amazing, magical love between a Scorpio and Pisces, but as a Scorpio sun I have never experienced it in a romantic relationship. I hear it's enchanting though, with the potential to be a deeply spiritual relationship, so good luck.

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ricanbeauty25
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posted August 07, 2013 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ricanbeauty25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Randall!

And Thank you Bluejay, for both points. I do want to tell him and I will. At the very least, its off my chest. When we first met I gave him a rough rundown. I let him know Im not a booty call, not a fling, if he wasn't looking for something serious -- that I would not take offense to it -- that he could just not call me the next morning and I would understand. I remember him telling me "I think I found my future wife" with a huge smile on his face. I smiled, but brushed it off. Several times he tested my points and all of them I stood strong on.

I have also thought about him being a player, but besides month one and now - he has never made mention of 'love'. I am very guarded, he noticed very early on and said it to me.

He is a jokester and this is what sometimes confuses me because I joke, but certain topics are off limits. He once joked about moving away to north carolina... and it took me by surprise. I didnt know he was joiking until he said it laughing later. But about 3 months later, he tells me of a job offer he was thinking of taking. I was excited for him...and then he said its in virginia and he fell silent. Being that he had joked before, I asked are you kidding or serious? Because you played about this before. He said, no that he was serious and gave me the details. Since I had reacted to his joke before, I took this news a lot easier and was able to maneuver better with it. I felt in a way that what he did at the movies, of course he was in his joking manner, but I felt he was testing the waters, to see how I would react.

I've always made it clear that a relationship is what I am looking for and am very honest at where I stand and always give him the open choice that if he does not feel the same to please let me know. He usually takes a day or so to himself, and then will continue on like normal. But he usually will not speak on it.

He is fun loving, but his words are usually very concise. He does not compliment me unless he means it, I can say I miss him but he will not say it back unless he means it, so I am hoping that he is being the same with these words.

And Bluejay, its magnetic, the attraction. It feels like we have known each other forever when in reality its only been 7 months. The understanding, the comfort. Its unlike what ive felt before. The day I met him, I was thrown off-kilter because I knew it was nothing like Ive ever been in and this might be the person I'd open up to. And so far thats been right. Just right now I'm very much afraid.

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ricanbeauty25
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posted October 07, 2013 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ricanbeauty25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I DID IT! I finally worked up the nerves to say it... and he did not say it back at that moment. He was in shock (his face was showing it all... big eyes, huge smile and he didnt know what to say). He kissed me and hugged me but did not say anything at that moment. But it feels sooo much better after saying it

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sugarflapjacks
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posted October 07, 2013 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sugarflapjacks     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mazel Tov!

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