posted February 02, 2010 09:12 AM
Hello!What is your composite chart like? I always tend to find composites more revealing when it comes to houses, than house overlays in synastry. Because in synastry, even if a bunch of your planets fell into his 11th, they would also be coloured by what house those planets were situated in, in your natal chart. I think composites tend to give more of a flavour of the general "themes" of relationships, such as whether the people consider themselves to be friends. Any chance you could post it?
I would also consider the 4th house in both synastry and composite, whether that person makes you feel "at home", comfortable, secure. This is also a version of "friends" (to me at least).
Sorry to hear you are sad. Hugs to you.