Lindaland
  Soul Unions
  Should I write the leter?

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Should I write the leter?
vesta
Knowflake

Posts: 435
From: Colorado
Registered: May 2009

posted January 16, 2010 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message
DD and others,
I was thinking about writing a leter about my experience(death and rebirth) to a person I know to be a soulmate. I thought about it and drew my angel cards The first card was yes, the second was write, the third was TF. I keep drawing the write card and my Solar return looks positive for writting this year from what little I can tell. Plus his valentine, jennifer and vertex are conjunct in his solar return right where my solar return ASC is falling. then I got back my answer from IQ.

Vesta wrote:
<<
Johnny Has his draconic Venus conjunct my Draconic Pluto (0.03) degree
And his draco Valentine conjunct my draco valentine (1)degree
What could that mean when two draco's are conjunct?
>>
Looks very Twin-Flamish to me.
I have not seen too many Chiron links between Twin Flames or even Relationshipo Soulmates. This is where I disagree the most with the Magi Soceity.

So should I write the letter ?
maybe I just need advice

IP: Logged

DD
Knowflake

Posts: 2783
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted January 16, 2010 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Vesta,


my first instinctual thought was NO.

I donīt know why, but maybe it is because even though you have the awareness, he may not, and he may just think of you as any fan, maybe even a "weird" one.
Then again, maybe he would be impressed. Who knows?

But I feel that it is important to meet first before writing a letter. To let your "auras" interact, if you know what I mean.

Anchor this in physical reality through a meeting, even if it is just the exchange of looks, that would be something he maybe could relate to.

But like it is now, he doesn`t know anything of you. And he might be too overwhelmed.

Sorry, this is just what I thought. Maybe I am wrong though.

EDIT:
Or maybe you COULD write a letter and try initiate a contact this way, but if you do, I personally would refrain from pouring it ALL out on paper. Start slowly and let it develop gradually in its own pace.


Oh and this one time I have to disagree with IQ. From these two aspects alone you certainly can`t tell that you are twinflames. (but it would be a good start to search for more specific interaspects)

IP: Logged

vesta
Knowflake

Posts: 435
From: Colorado
Registered: May 2009

posted January 16, 2010 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vesta     Edit/Delete Message
DD, I think you are right and I agree with what you said. I don't want a face to face meeting because I know what is in the eyes.
That is why I thought a leter would be the best way to make contact. But is is only ment as a thank you leter and nothing more Not telling everything but the important things about how it changed my life and how somethings are beter for me because of it but no face to face Aura to aura I think it would be unhealthy for all involved. But writting the letter would be healthy for me as I would be able to release the burden I feel.

IP: Logged

PeaceAngel
Moderator

Posts: 3495
From: peace.angel@live.com.au
Registered: Apr 2009

posted January 17, 2010 06:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
Reading that, and I think you said it at the end yourself, is that the need is for you to express it rather than for him to hear/know it.

IP: Logged

vapor-lash
Knowflake

Posts: 587
From:
Registered: Nov 2009

posted January 18, 2010 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
Vesta -

I would send the letter if:

1. You were friends and generally had good and flowing communication.

2. He appreciated your ideas and beliefs in conversation and listened to what you had to say.

3. He is either interested in metaphysical matters himself.. OR.. mentally alert and open enough - to be able to play with several ideas in his mind, even if they are quite different to his own beliefs.

4. He is generally a laid-back person.. who doesn't take himself too seriously and isn't an ego-maniac.

5. During the time that you knew him, he was generally able to empathize with another human or with animals.. and understand their experience.


I would not send the letter if:

1. He harmed you in a serious way (specially if he never acknowledged the error of his ways and never apologized).

2. He is too closed-minded and fixated on his own beliefs to take in anything you might have to say.

3. Your conversations always and only revolved around both of you together, your relationship, sex etc.. Basically, if you didn't have other topics or common points of interest to discuss.

4. You see him as "immature".

5. He has an ego-problem. He is self-obsessed.

If PA is right and you are doing this for closure.. it might be a better idea to write the letter and burn it. Someone else can't give you closure. Only you can give *you* closure. If this is the case - writing to him might simply prolong things.. or start something again (which may not be what you need right now - you know best).

IP: Logged

DD
Knowflake

Posts: 2783
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted January 18, 2010 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Vesta,

I can totally understand the need to say thank you as well as the need for closure in some way.

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright Đ 2008

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a