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Topic: If this is my soul mate, why do I feel like door mat?
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Giggi Knowflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 15, 2010 08:39 AM
Hi! I would like to say hello to everyone since I am new here. I have been trying for a long time to understand what is going on with me and this person so I will ask you for help. This is the person that I met at work and immediately felt some kind of weird connection. As we became good colleagues he started to behave in a strange way, meaning that nobody has ever criticized me so much in my life, my physical appearance, my behavior, my way of life, my partner, friends, etc. What is strange is that I just cannot break ties with him. When we are in good terms, it is like we are the best friends, when we are not it is hell. He told me that he said to himself several times: that is it. I am not going to have anything anymore with her, I don't need this, and I felt the same. However, I still keep coming back, checking to see if he is doing well, worrying about his health etc. I don't feel romantic around him, more like protective and caring. I feel responsible towards him, like I owe him something. It is new and strange feeling for me. Maybe I am trying to find myself a sibling (my sister was killed years ago) or it is something from the past life. Sometimes, I feel like he is my blood relative because I have never been so forgiving to anybody, except my family, when it comes to hurting my feelings. What do you think is the reason for such weird attachment? Maybe its because his Sun and Mercury are in my 12th house, and my Sun, Venus, Saturn and Mercury are in his 12th house. I do not know what to do? Is it karma, did I hurt him in my past lives and now I am paying, was he my brother or what? Our composite planets/asteroids: Sun 24°4216" Leo in 12 house Moon 5°5518" Pisces in 6 house Mercury 1° 529" Virgo in 12 house Venus 16°1258" Leo in 11 house Mars 29°2345" Leo in 12 house Jupiter 0° 110" Pisces in 6 house Saturn 18°4144" Virgo in 1 house Uranus 19°16 6" Scorpio in 3 house Neptune 18°5745" Sagittarius in 4 house Pluto 18°3457" Libra in 2 house True Node 29°5220" Leo in 12 house Chiron 17°2244" Taurus in 9 house P.Fort. 7° 330" Cancer in 10 house Vertex 28°3435" Aquarius in 6 house Lilith 24°40 4" Pisces in 7 house Juno 13°5827" Cancer in 10 house Eros 4°5214" Cancer in 10 house Psyche 26°3335" Virgo in 1 house Karma 16°5937" Virgo in 1 house Destinn 19°5735 Virgo in 1 house Thank you for any help/thoughts...
Live, Love, Laugh...
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Valus Knowflake Posts: 2000 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 15, 2010 08:47 AM
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If this is my soul mate, why do I feel like door mat?
Is this a trick question?
May I suggest that he is not your soul mate? If you have a lesson to learn here, it's probably to get away from him, and not tolerate that treatment. Good luck!
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DD Knowflake Posts: 2846 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 15, 2010 08:49 AM
I agree with Valus.Don`t ever let anyone treat you like a doormat. You deserve much better. IP: Logged |
Giggi Knowflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Jan 2010
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posted January 15, 2010 08:54 AM
Thank you, you are both right.Live,love,laugh... IP: Logged |
MsCandeh Knowflake Posts: 499 From: Australia Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 15, 2010 12:14 PM
I agree with the others But I do understand what it's like being drawn to someone when you know it's possibly not good for you, or you think that they will start treating you right for once. Does your Mercury conjunct his NN or SN .. or vice versa? That can bring sibling-like feeligns into relationships. IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 2875 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 15, 2010 12:40 PM
sounds to me like his saturn and or pluto is squatting on your chart in a heavy way...right on your sun maybe? he is an early scorp saturn and you an early leo sun. this could be good for you but i doubt it!! however the saturn thing is making you both feel you owe the other something??i agree with the others. the lesson here is PROBABLY not to suffer controlling idiots!! though only you can tell for sure... IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2186 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 20, 2010 12:55 AM
I agree with everybody here.Just kick his butt to the curb and be available for somebody that is right for you. Raymond
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