posted July 05, 2006 10:39 PM         

But, one to date. First, how to pique his interest? Captivate? I would like to take it as far as it, uh, goes. (not just there)

I like Leonine energy.

posted July 06, 2006 05:25 PM         

Lioneye has it right.. just be yourself. For some reason when a Leo and Sag are going to hit it off.. it just happens - like WHAM!!!

Sometimes it's kind of a fizzle and other times it is a battle of wills. I have had all three (well 4, like the ones where we just avoid each other as indicated by Linda Goodman).

I never really thought about it when I met Mr. Leo- I hadn't planned on meeting him nor even knew his sign when we met. I started talking to him and to my surprise, after the initial introduction he stayed put. It was as though everything else disappeared and we were along- even though there were another 50 people in the room. We were inseparable the rest of the evening- just talking and laughing.

I teased him a bit (not sexually) but verbally sparring but not in a cutting kind of way- more witty than anything. We exchanged numbers and we didn't talk for a couple of days. Actually, we were supposed to out to dinner the next day, but I got nervous and cancelled. I was shy about talking to him on the phone- yet I had such a blast when we met.

Then we sent a few texts back and forth which led to a phone call. We talked for hours and things just sort of fell into place. He's a bit shy, but not really LOL.... His Pisces moon makes him seem quieter than most Leo's but he's no shy pussycat. Hee hee.... at least not in the areas that count.

I think if you were to ask him, he'd say that he loves how I listen to him and actually care about what is going on in his life. He has told me he loves how he can be having a horrible day and I have the ability to calm him down and make him crack up (he does the same for me). Leo's love to be wanted / needed but not in a clingy way. He loves to spoil me with flowers, gifts (He bought me all 3 seasons of Aqua Teen Hunger Force because he knows I love that cartoon) and with cards. Nothing he does goes unappreciated and I thank him for everything- because I have never been spoiled that way before.

Compliment them, but be genuine- they like honesty not just superficial flattery (unless they just want an ego boost and the person yanking their chain isn't deemed important).

Include him in your life. They like to solve problems and, at least with my guy, he likes to know that he helps me - with my work, problems etc...

One thing too - hold em' in check. By that I mean, sometimes a Leo can fall in love with the idea of falling in love. When you get to that point, make sure you both do a gut check and it's real. He won't run- he may go into his cave a bit, but he won't run.

DRAMA!!! They love being active and going out (but also having quiet nights in). Being able to hold a conversation, talk to people and having a good group of friends (I believe)is a bit of a turn on to them - yet when the relationship evolves, he has to know that HE comes first in your life (but the evolved Leo never makes you choose).

I really never thought I would meet a handsome Leo to fall in love with let alone Marry - but it happens YIPPEEE.... He calls me his queen, he soulmate his everything.. and I call him my King. He knows that my freedom and independance is still very much intact - more importantly, as a Saggie, I know he understands the importance of those two key Saggie traits.

Let it happen.. be your true happy Saggie self. You can be dramatic, funny and even goofy. If he's an evolved Leo or doesn't have too many heavy planets - he'll laugh out loud (it sounds almost like a Lion's roar). He'll also look at you in that way that Linda Goodman describes.. at his clown queen, with a lump in his throat remembering how he promised to never let another soul hurt that vulnerable lady again, as so many did before he found you.....

I see my Leo look at me that way.

Please keep us posted on your date

PS...I should also add - there is a bit of a difference depending on your age. Young fire-signs (under the age of 28) still want to play that battle of wills and pride. If you have both been through a few relationships, good and bad... well- things end up being better as both have more tolerance for how things work.

posted July 08, 2006 06:16 AM         

He is so sweet, very nice and polite (although he's a Airforce pilot, so maybe that has something to do with it...or maybe cuz he's from the midwest...) but he is not as shy as he seems!! Good Lord! He is GORGEOUS, so I have no problem giving real compliments...and he has no problems accepting them... and Man, what a good combo sexually, Sag and Leo.

I dated another Leo for a while who also called me out of the blue last week and we always had such a fun time together. We parted amicably and with both guys, it just seems so friendly. None of that emotional drama like with the neverending Scorps (they seek me out...maybe I should change my perfume or something)

posted July 08, 2006 02:39 PM         

Pid, as usual I love your insight and reading about your experiences, very heartfelt how you share that part of yourself here I am also very happy to see you've married someone you're deeply in love with and make each other so happy

Thank you ~

I'll let you know about Mr. Leo...just dating...you never know, I may be asking you about someone next (I'm not fickle, just dipping my toes in the dating pool)...I also have my eye on an Aries who may be more of whom I am looking for, spiritually & relationship-wise

posted July 10, 2006 03:22 PM         

How's it going? An Aries huh? Yum... I think it's VERY important to find someone that you are compatible with spiritually. I have tried in the past with people that either don't get the metaphysical side of me or they outright harbor contempt for it. Sometimes they even pretend to be okay with it, but the signs start to crop up. The rolling of the eyes, changing subject or in one case the guy said to me "I hate your stupid astrology, I only pretended to be interested so we could start talking!"

Hmmmph!!! Screw that!!! LOL..

I am happy to share my insights with you and others- as long as it helps. Funny, but I have always been very guarded with the exception of on this website. Even my co-workers tease me about how much I withhold - one even said I didn't act as though I loved or missed Mr. Leo enough LOL... Then again, why would I wear my heart on my sleeve at work?

I can't wait to hear how things progress and please feel free to ask anything

posted July 12, 2006 12:04 AM         

Film at eleven

posted May 16, 2010 04:41 AM         

To the top!

posted May 18, 2010 11:06 PM         

So there is this Leo man that is a regular at the bar I work at.
We hit it off right away, I mean, I knew he was a fire sign, it was sooo obvious.
We started talking about bars in the area, and I said, "Oh, you probably don't remember when 'bar X' used to be called 'bar Y' blah blah," because I thought he was about 35 or so.

He threw back his head of long black curls and laugh roared at me.
Sag doesn't ever mind being laughed at, we really just enjoy the laughing so much, we don't care if it's with us, or AT us, anyway..

turns out this man is in his 60's!!!!!!!!!!!! I was dumbfounded, he looks so good!
There was no spark, let me be clear about that, although he does enjoy his flirting, it was clear that this was going to be a friendship from the start.

So on Sunday, he brings this blonde in, and introduces me to her, and I was a little taken aback, because he did say he was single, and all his children were grown....

I was trying to decide whether these two we friends, friends with bennies, or BF & GF..
never did really decide that day, as they both left and went elsewhere.

MONDAY night, he comes in, and orders his usual, and we are talking about children (I notice this is a good topic with Leos) and all of a sudden the blonde from the day before comes in.. SCREAMING like a banshee, obviously WAY intoxicated, and they proceed to play out a drama that would rival Shakespeare.

We all just sort of watched in awe.

I couldn't really make out the story, what with all the screaming, the cussing and the knocking over of chairs and barstools, but something to the effect of.. he left her in another bar because he thought she was flirting with someone (another Leo tip, don't flirt too much in front of them, unless you want this story lol) and He knew darn well that she and the other guy were just friends, but he left her there as an excuse to get rid of her, etc etc etc

After about 40 minutes, they start making out passionately, and leave the bar.

As I am cleaning up their mess, I mutter something about love/hate relationships and drama, and my bar back guy tells me,
"Wait until you see him in here with his wife!!"

I'm like, "WIFE??? He's married??"
Bar back says, "Oh yeah, and she is a MEAN one, she wants to fight everyone in the bar that is female, because she thinks he has slept with them all."

posted May 30, 2010 02:31 AM         

Lots of humor goes a long way also, show him your not easily annoyed, even though he is.

The main thing about us Leo's we are very hard to REALLY get to know, that inner self is well hidden and protected... For the most part you will see. Its a task... If you can break it, he probably make you his queen