posted September 05, 2010 07:23 PM
He's bored. Perhaps he's just looking for a little excitement and is feeling you out to see if you'd be interested. The fact that he's married should be a huge clue to you that ultimately this is a no-no, no good, situation. If it was fate or destiny than he would have been divorced before pursuing you. Your charts, as far as synastry goes (with the info you provided) is no so great. Lots of squares and oppositions. Some good Saturn aspects if you did have a relationship it might last, however, there would likely be tensions due to incompatibilities in general outlooks on life.
Here are a few examples from the chart interpretation I ran with your birthdays:
-379 Square Sun - Mercury
Negative aspect: Lack of understanding between the two persons. They do not have the same intellectual interests, the same tastes, as a result of which they have problems in understanding each other. This could lead to conflicts, lies, etc.
-213 Square Sun - Venus
Negative aspect: The two persons are drawn towards each other, but the union is unstable, because there will inevitably be division, probably through misunderstanding on the sexual level, which may frustrate the partner.
-118 Square Mercury - Neptune
Negative aspect: This relationship can only bring illusions, and therefore also disappointments will follow. These two people can never understand each other and if they insist on living together, it will be with lies and deception.
54 Sextile Jupiter - Pluto
Positive aspect: A possible union. Your belief systems change and evolve as the result of your relationship. Look at the other aspects to interpret exactly.
53 Trine Sun - Neptune
Positive aspect: This aspect shows an attraction to each other beyond the physical. There is a level of forgiveness and mercy in the chemistry between you. You may share your dreams together with a sense of freedom. Tolerance exists between the two of you, which is a very soothing and settling quality.
51 Trine Saturn - Pluto
Positive aspect: Favorable union.
-48 Opposition Jupiter - Saturn
Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.
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Think twice before getting involved with a married man. Not good karma. If he divorces (not because the two of you have an emotional affair, but because his relationship runs it's course on it's own, without interference, directly or indirectly from you) then go for it. But otherwise, tread carefully.