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Topic: Venus Pluto Conjunction but also Opposite?
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CyraX007
Newflake Posts: 6
From: ma, boston, usa
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 24, 2010 09:36 PM
  
Her Venus Scorpio 3.19 matches my Pluto Scorpio 2.51 but then my Venus Leo 13.33 is the opposite of her Pluto Scorpio 13.23.There seems to be a lot of that criss crossing as I move down like my Moon Gemini 26.57 is the opposite sign of her Mercury Sagittarius 1.19 and Her Moon Cancer 6.59 is the opposite of my Virgo Mercury 3.01.
When things negate each other, do they still count as good or bad? Do they just not count? It's been 6months since our break up but then she kept making small compliments, like I look good but then when I see her and say "whats' going on?" She gives short answers, "not much", and walks away... Now I want her again and I'm just wondering if we made a mistake. I mean the passion was hot and I think because it was so hot, everyone that is coming after isn't working. I get the feeling when she broke up with me, she wanted me to come back but because she made me feel rejected, I was so angry. Now it's like, is she hinting she wants me to do something? If so... what? What does she want? Any clues? Anyone? IP: Logged |
A_L_F
Knowflake Posts: 124
From:
Registered: Jun 2010
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posted January 05, 2011 07:58 PM
I would say, having experience of this with someone myself, the conjunction between Your Pluto and her Venus is a very powerful indicator of intense attraction. It is no superficial synastry aspect that one, my friend. The opposition between your Venus and her Pluto gives the deep connection a see-saw quality. When it's good it's great, when it's bad it's terrible. It can also indicate different social backgrounds in the two people concerned. I had an exact Venus opposition with a girl i went out with last year and it was exactly like that. A see-saw. Mind you her moods were like a see saw aswell so that hardly helped matters.
I would like to think you could work through whatever it is. Clearly you both like eachother. What is getting in the way? Perhaps your very demonstrative Venus in Leo gets iced over by her Aquarian Pluto sometimes. One thing i know about Venus in Scorpio girls is if they like you they like you forever. Really nice position imo. There's the clue you might want. Also about Gemini Moon. Just an oservation so don't be offended - but they are very hard to pin down, and they change alot, even though they don't realise it in themselves when it's happening. You might think you're the same person every day but i doubt she sees it that way. And opposing her Mercury in Sagittarius i would interpret as she has a vague way of letting you know what she thinks, and expects you to automatically understand, leaving you wondering, and leaving her wondering because of how changeable you can appear to her. My tip would be focus on improving the communication. It could be you're just a sexual attraction, but not compatible in other ways. You need to find out what her needs are, and whether you can fulfil them, and ask yourself if she fulfills yours (apart from just sex). In a relationship there are several levels. Day to day compatability, shared interests, sexlife, social background / family, spiritual / psychic type. And karmic connection. If it's like tryinmg to get blood out of a stone ask her what she wants, and are you it. Get straight to the point. These things can drag on forever otherwise. To please a woman you have to genuinely want to fulfill her needs, and i think sex is secondary to women.
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