posted October 06, 2010 07:49 PM         

We met June 2001 via internet, I was 21, so was he. We met in person January 2002, got engaged February 2003, married December 2004.

Separated October 2009. Divorced March 2010.

Yes, this sounds like love gone wrong. I am still devastated. I miss him, like crazy. I love him just as much. We are strangers now. He does not call anymore. Seems like a different person. Says hes been thinking about dating again. It broke my heart. I am the one dealing with the emotional baggage. I always felt he was my soul mate.

There's something in my heart that won't give up hope.

I need to know if there will be any chance of reconciliation or if this is truly done.

The Synestry chart:
I put midnight for his birth chart because I did not know his birth time.

Any replies will be greatly appropriated

XOXO

posted October 06, 2010 11:55 PM         

I fell for a Sag man who destroyed my heart by just packing up and leaving one day while I was at college. He still never got it years later. I read what Linda said when I began the second Sag male relationship and I thought, aww no, we are too much in love.

I should have listened to Linda.

He's not coming back is my guess.
That being said, the best way to get any man back is to completely drop him and go on having a fabulous life...

how does that lyric go...

"turn your head now spit me out"

Why drink the water
from my hand?
Contagious as you think I am
Just tilt my sun towards
your domain.
Your cup runneth over again.

Don't scream about
Don't think aloud
Turn your head now baby
Just spit me out
Don't worry about
Don't speak of doubt
Turn your head now baby
Just spit me out

Why follow me to higher ground?
Lost as you swear I am.
Don't throw away your basic needs,
Ambiance and vanity.

posted October 07, 2010 12:20 AM         

Your birth #'s, 3 & 9 are in harmony, plus their respective rulers are conjunct in Virgo.

I don't know what to say.

At the time of your marriage I see you had pVenus @ 0 Cancer, and he with pSun in an applying conjunction to his nVenus. Both are indicators of marriage. However I did not see a replaying of these aspects in the inter-chart relationship.

Are you truly meant to be together...?

Um, with your pMoon in Leo in conjunction to his nMoon should've worked to bring you closer. Although personal experience have revealed this aspect common in unrequited love scenarios.

posted October 07, 2010 07:45 AM         

After transiting and mastering the path of darkness, Sagittarius is challenged to find a target upon which to direct its powerful energies. Part of the challenge here is between objectives based upon second-hand beliefs, or conditionings, and those founded upon direct experience, or what is “good, luminous and beautiful in life” according to your truth.

The flight of the Sagittarius’s arrow illustrates the emergence from the darkness of the underworld and the greyness of the ordinary world, into the realms of inconceivable light that exist beyond. Yet, this journey is intimately based on the luminous appreciation of all aspects of life, low and high, so that as we transit through the earthy landscape all that is found is thoroughly enjoyed and celebrated.

Sagittarius is the senior leader of the fiery signs. These signs represent the invigorating and vital power of the whole astrological circle. They embody pure energy and life force, capable of directly and instantly transforming whatever they touch. The cardinal fire of Aries reveals the primal spark and the ignition power, fast and passionately burning itself so as to nourish the steady flames of the fixed fire of Leo, which is fire at its peak of grandiosity, visibility and strength.

The mutable fire of Sagittarius is the flame beneath the ashes, the glowing hot embers, which radiate huge amount of heat when the fire is extinguished, and yet can turn into flames with a sudden gust of air. Embers represent fire in its full maturity, glowing with a constant heat, ideal for roasting delicious food, as well as energising all that is good, luminous and beautiful."

posted October 31, 2010 11:37 PM         

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Read what Linda Goodman says about Sagittarian males. She says something like they can just get up and leave you some day out of the blue with insulting ease. or something like that.

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Ouch. Is that just about Sag males or females too?

posted November 07, 2010 06:40 PM         

I use to love and leave them too.

I realize that you were married, and that is different, a committment like that should be entered and exited with much forethought.

But, what alot of people don't realize is that when a Sagittarius comes into your life it is either to teach or to learn.
We have to do one or the other.

If the process is not ongoing, we do leave, because we feel like our job is done.
It's not meant out of cruelty, but more like we feel that staying for the sake of staying does everyone a disservice on their journey.

Having said that, I wouldn't date a Sagittarius man. I know what they are thinking before they think it! Because I am thinking the same thing.

posted November 07, 2010 10:26 PM         

I guess I don't have any answers, though I am curious how your marriage/relationship was. Were you happy? Was it good? When did things begin falling apart? were you aware or did he just suddenly take off, out of nowhere? I ask because I am interested.

I will say that he has a Neptune/Sun conjunction and on the plus side it will make him 'feel' Pisces like and totally attuned, take off the Sagittarius stuff. On the negative side: he can be an escapist. And you know, despite all this Sagittarius sun talk, it's the Sun/Neptune conjunction i am looking at right off the bat.