posted October 25, 2010 10:25 AM            

I have been trying to find what kind of a match I have with the love of my life and tried many astro reports.

I have been reading your posts in this site and trying to mix and match from the posts.

And now I ve decided that I should write my situation directly and ask for help.

I am a pisces woman with capricorn ascendant and moon+venus in aries. mars in aquarius.

My love is an aquarius with capricorn ascendant and moon in aquarius and venus in capricorn and mars in sagitarius.

I am learning great deal with him. But I have been thru a lot specially in the begining. Even now I am scared to be with him because I have very strong emotions and do not want to overwhelm him with my feelings. He is not a scorpio, I got that.

So I do give him space, we are not in the same country anyway at this time, but we keep in touch in the mean time. And I even like this space for now.

Aquarius should be detached and not show emotions but I am confused with him because he has lot of emotions and he does not seem to handle them well sometimes. And copies whatever I do. He listens to my advice that I give casually and surprises me with how he is succeeding doing what I told him to do.

I do not fall in love easily and I adore him. He just makes my heart smile ) So I really want to build something lasting with him. Even if it takes time.

He even told me he loves me. But I have a skeptical side with him. I just can not trust him somehow.

Can anyone help me with this?

It will be greatly appreciated

Love and light to you all.

Blissful

P.S I could not copy the charts here so I am copying what I found below. I hope it helps:

Composite Horoscope midpoint method

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Aquarius 23°17'39 end of house 1
Moon Pisces 9°43'41 in house 2
Mercury Aquarius 16°31'35 in house 1
Venus Pisces 6°51'08 in house 2
Mars Capricorn 16°20'54 in house 1
Jupiter Pisces 24°27'09 in house 2
Saturn Cancer 12°50'49 in house 7
Uranus Scorpio 2°24'17 in house 9
Neptune Sagittarius 11°32'16 in house 11
Pluto Libra 9°01'16 end of house 8
True Node Sagittarius 6°04'57 in house 11
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

posted October 31, 2010 08:27 AM            

Well unfortunatelly the picture is not so pink as I ve presented on my first post. I guess I am an optimistic person and always have faith in people and situations. But also there are facts and now is one of those times that I feel he is out-of love with me. He seems very confused and I don't know what to do with him. I am feeling him, but now I feel sad and hurt. So I can not be very objective

he does not seem to have any other water sign in his chart

thank you for your help. may you be happy

here are his details:
Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Aquarius 14°14'10 in house 1 direct
Moon Aquarius 12°05'56 in house 1 direct
Mercury Aquarius 18°08'24 in house 1 direct
Venus Capricorn 28°02'01 in house 1 direct
Mars Sagittarius 23°43'05 in house 12 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 25°32'01 in house 1 direct
Saturn Gemini 13°44'04 in house 5 retrograde
Uranus Libra 23°02'24 in house 9 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 7°06'27 in house 11 direct
Pluto Libra 4°12'35 in house 8 retrograde
True Node Capricorn 16°41'13 in house 1 retrograde

posted November 03, 2010 09:25 AM            

You are right, it may be my perception of the situation and of him. So I am trying to get a clearer view in this fog Thank you for your help.

Here is my chart:

posted November 04, 2010 12:03 PM            

I am an Aquarian-coloured Pisces lady...I have enough Aqua in me to bring them to their knees and I do. My Pisces sun keeps me sweet, tho.

Anyway you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned fog...sometimes we forget about the pure elemental aspect of astrology. When water and air come together..what does it make? FOG!

I too have Mars in Aqua, conj Jup and Merc, oppo Uranus, sq my bull moon and sq my Scorp asc and I attract Aquas like flies to you know what...

There is always hope, just know what you are dealing with, with the Aqua and never, ever think they will be anything else..than an Aqua.

posted November 05, 2010 11:18 AM            

Thank you for your insights.

I gave a break with him for a while tending to my own world. So I get fresh air a bit. Especially after what I experienced as a non-trustworthy situation (work related, but he did not take me seriously or misunderstood me). Whatever the case too much emotionality causes this between us.

He was not expecting that I withdraw this way/fast, I guess so he is a bit shaky at the moment, which I get from his message.

I will keep with this detachment and directing my energy elsewhere at this time.

This feels good. I can love him without him knowing it, anyway

I truly like your replies, such a wonderful thing to give insight like this. Appreciated.

Blessings

posted November 05, 2010 05:44 PM            

I am glad to hear you are looking after you for a while. Your post freaked me a bit cos when I say 'exact' same placements I mean exact...So either we dated the same guy or they were born the same day I expect (03/02/73)

I dated my ex for 5 months but he did not want 'a relationship' so I broke up with him. He comes back here and there (it has been one year now) and he was recently txting thru late sep/oct wanting to meet up. I agreed but he said he was traveling and have not heard from him since.

I do hope its not the same guy! (gulp)

If those are his placements then he has venus square uranus like my ex which I think means unconventional love life. I have tried hard to move on and still trying. But it has not been easy. I have never been affected by a breakup like this.

posted November 06, 2010 12:36 PM            

Dear Libran lady,

Very funny, coincidence. Does his name begin with "A"?

I am sure he is not the same guy, but lets see

posted November 06, 2010 12:57 PM            

Dear Libran Lady,

I am sure it is not the same guy but, lets see: does his name start with "A"?

posted November 06, 2010 01:15 PM            

No, it starts with "J"...(phew).. so we have us a pair of cosmic twins eh...lol

posted November 10, 2010 02:35 AM            

You just could not be more right! he now sent me a very emotional poem. This is from an Aquarius who just sent smiles or one word as a reply to my e-mails.

This is incredible that he is opening up like this. Even though the poem is sad and says that I should keep my distance (as I wished to do in the beginning), I really feel he loves me, deeply.

His poem really resembles my poetry that I have sent him.

So what do you girls suggest at this point? I feel I should sooth him.

Love and light.
B.

posted November 10, 2010 02:35 AM            

You just could not be more right! he now sent me a very emotional poem. This is from an Aquarius who just sent smiles or one word as a reply to my e-mails.

This is incredible that he is opening up like this. Even though the poem is sad and says that I should keep my distance (as I wished to do in the beginning), I really feel he loves me, deeply.

His poem really resembles my poetry that I have sent him.

So what do you girls suggest at this point? I feel I should sooth him.

posted November 10, 2010 11:01 AM            

aquas are all about the game, they are MENTAL! lord knows (with my astro placements) i have experienced them, not to mention i have an 18 yr old aqua daughter, still at home...

texted an old aqua flame last eve, well, my first aqua flame...turned out he is married, horrible sham of a marriage, (we wont go there), but we remain friends,,,,i texted him something to the likeness of "are you dead? gunna have to teach you something about ladydom...."

and he responded in spades!

we work together, kindof, both in the medical field and his lack of response just plain ****** me off, so i decided to play his mind.

yea, aquas, they live in the head. they are trippy, nonseinical, forgetfull, to mention a few, so the lady who is in the space of the aqua man must play their game, and we, ofcourse, being ladies, espeically water ladies..

well...

the more you let him GO, the more he will come back!!!

just learn to cherish the moments you have with him, cause that is all it will ever be!

blessings

posted November 10, 2010 12:58 PM            

they are most usually great moments..

few

and

far

posted November 11, 2010 03:00 PM            

I'm looking at the pSynastry and nothing stands out that indicates a blossoming relationship.

There is a pMoon-pMoon conjunction, though I believe his is months ahead of yours and may have already progressed into the next sign. This is the most significant aspect in the pSynastry. Not strong enough to bring about a romantic relationship on its own, it adds flavor and warmth to stronger contacts. In platonic relationships, it denotes a strong emotional bond.

This progressed aspect ignites your natal Mars/Sun conjunction. Often with this conjunction Mars, representing the sexual active impulse is the most attracted. However, given the Sun's glare, Mars cant see clearly, and often over projects unto the Sun. Add this to his 7 lifepath and this over projection is increased.

Diagnosis - Typical Aquarian mindscrew, with heavy Neptunian fog. But, he likes you.

posted November 11, 2010 03:49 PM            

I have to respectfully disagree. If this lady feels a pull then she has to experience the Aqua energy for herself.

Personally, I have found that Aquas are quite suited for me, needing all of the time alone that I do.

Different strokes for different folks.

They are friends, firstly, lastly and always.

There are many genuine lessons to be learned from the Aqua, many.

blessings

posted November 12, 2010 10:39 AM            

That was my advice to her, if she takes it or not is up to her..But I can almost bet you the end result is not what she is gonna want..Oh yes they make the best friends I never doubted that. But us Pisces women when looking for a MAN we like/need a man that we can feel safe with emotionally. Very few Aqua men if any at all provides this..Yeah if she waits it out pretends she likes the frienship connection yada,yada she may win him over, but by then she will be so worn out. If nothing else its a lesson that she needs to learn like I did and lots of other women that have dealt with Aqua me. I hope she gets what she is looking for and if she doesnt the best that will happen is that she will have a good friend and learned somethings about herself..

@Blissfull

posted November 12, 2010 12:58 PM            

are you asking blissful how other experienced aqua-pisces relationship? or do you want to talk about yours?

posted November 12, 2010 03:56 PM            

"blissful, are you asking how other experienced aqua-pisces relationship? or do you want to talk about yours?"

instead of:

"are you asking blissful how other experienced aqua-pisces relationship? or do you want to talk about yours?"

my apologies for the misunderstanding.