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seeker3030
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posted December 05, 2011 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeker3030     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone done this? Interested to see what experiences people have had. I've just tried it and found it very upsetting, stressful and yet peaceful in an odd way.

Would love to hear the methods people use and their experiences.

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anongrl10
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posted December 05, 2011 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do invocations of Archangel Michael for cutting the ties of karmic relationships that no longer serve a purpose.
It is not for the faint of heart. It can be sad but with powerful visualization and repeated efforts you can liberate yourself.
Do you have a link of awareness with the angelic realm? Last year I had some amazing serendipity I couldn't ignore. It got me straight into everything angelic. Now I use the link when I read the tarot.
The simpler way to explain this is that angels are energies of different types. In my first ever group angelic meditation I kept seeing the colors of their aura even though (at that point) I had read next to nothing about them (and had no clue about their colors etc.). When you tune in to those energies they help you achieve a heart-felt goal. Archangel Michael with this blue sword is a specialist for cutting outlived karmic ties. You can ask his help and be sure he will be there for you.

Good luck!

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Randall
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posted December 06, 2011 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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LEXX
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posted December 07, 2011 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I walk away.
Keeping this thought in mind;
"never stay with anyone who loves you less than you love yourself."
And if you do not love yourself,
at least have respect for yourself and avoid desperate moves in a futile effort to avoid loneliness.
It is never easy.
But when it becomes clear,
it is not working,
no matter how much ones tries to meet other(s)
at least 1/2 way;
then it is time to let go,
for the best of their spiritual and social evolution and yours.
"A man convinced against his will,
is,
in his heart,
of the same opinion still".
The saddest are the could have been, almost were, and of course the omg, wish it was.
I swear the ONLY reason I have relationships is to prepare the other(s) to be able to find themselves, and the right person for each of them.
My long time friend (since 1969)
says that knowing me has always enhanced the life of those folks and helped them to become better people.
Every man I have walked away from,
I have helped in so many ways,
up to including often,
helped to find for or point out to them the potentially right person/male or female for their happiness.
So there they all are, in relationships that have gone on for years, and or, looked/looking towards the potentially better path for them personally in the long run.
And that is OK by me.
A recent example was a fellow I knew from over 43 years ago.
He claimed to desperately want me,
and yes indeed, it was sheer desperation on his part, unrealistic and his being in an unhappy marriage and other woes afflicting his life.
Well,
I counseled him;
basically had him think hard on why he had stayed with his wife for 30+years as it were.
Helped him identify what was good about the two of them, and what the problems were, and got him to open up to her.
Last I knew, they were working at fixing the problems and I think they will work it out and stay together.
Am helping ex to be find what he needs and whom.
So far it looks promising and I truly approve of the latest prospect for his happiness.

Tis better to be hated for what one is, than loved for what one is not.
Tis better to be lonely and alone
than to be lonely whilst in a relationship.
OK.....
rant over.
Good luck to you.


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I must perhaps resign myself to having only stolen and brief tastes of happiness,
for it appears that I may never be invited to the feasts.
~LEXX

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind.
~Henry David Thoreau

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LEXX
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posted December 07, 2011 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
PS.
I am severely jaded,
so maybe I am not the best person to advise folks in such matters.
However those things I said,
are indeed lessons I have learned
and are my personal observations based on hard experience over the decades.


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I must perhaps resign myself to having only stolen and brief tastes of happiness,
for it appears that I may never be invited to the feasts.
~LEXX

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind.
~Henry David Thoreau

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anongrl10
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posted December 07, 2011 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are so strong, Lexxie.

And I think your lessons are valuable to all!

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seeker3030
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posted December 07, 2011 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeker3030     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anongrl10 that’s fascinating about your angel meditations and the auric colours you see! I’d love to know what your moment of serendipity was but completely understand if you’d rather not share it with strangers. And I’d love to know more about the auric colours too. Will do some research re Michael

I don’t know that I have such a gift or such a link unfortunately – I get what I call ‘flashes’... like videos playing of forthcoming events. Almost like watching a scene from a film. Although I can’t seem to have these at will – they only happen randomly. Odd thing is I’m getting one about my present situation re the person I’m trying to cut ties with, which tells me why I’m having problems. There’s definitely very unfinished business between us and these ‘flashes’ tell me there’s another chapter to play out yet. But I’ve no idea when that will be so I felt it was wise to cut ties in the mean time in an effort to move on and do something positive rather than sit, wait and twiddle my thumbs! Oh well, what will be will be

Lexx my heart goes out to you - I recognise what you say to a certain degree; I recently nicknamed myself the Mary Poppins of relationships because I seem to attract men who need ‘nannying’ through a tough time and then I get dismissed to move on to the next ‘charge’!

The situation I find myself in is slightly different to the previous ones I’ve experienced – this time the man does genuinely love me. It’s the first time he’s ever felt these feelings however and he’s completely flawed by it. It comes in the middle of a need for him to relocate to his hometown which is a good 4hr drive away which makes our relationship very difficult to continue. I can’t up sticks because I have a small child and I would feel bad if I moved him away because that would drastically interfere with his contact with his father. So under the weight of all those considerations, our little love story has collapsed it would seem, and I felt it would be wise to try and cut ties in order to stop the longing. The irony is, he’s now in my head even more than he was before I tried the process! Seems he’s on some kind of revolving door in my head and I can’t snip those cords fast enough! So it would seem either I’m not visualising strongly enough or he’s got a stronger hold on me than I realised!

I don’t think you’re jaded at all – just refreshingly honest and very selfless by the sound of it. I wish you whatever you wish for yourself

Thank you both for sharing your thoughts and experiences xx

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anongrl10
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posted December 08, 2011 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Those flashes are your intuition talking. I wouldn't discount them at all.
My serendipitous story with angels is a very long story and a bit convoluted. As I have shared here before it all started one night when I woke up (though not fully awaken still in bed but with eyes open in the dark, completely relaxed and "in the zone") listening to a voice comforting me, and foretelling events that happened in my life.
In any case, if you can't find any Archangel Michael invocations please let me know and I will post one here.

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seeker3030
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posted December 08, 2011 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeker3030     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah can't ignore the flashes
That story sounds amazing! I'll try and find it on the boards. Thanks so much for your help! x

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anongrl10
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posted December 08, 2011 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by seeker3030:
Yeah can't ignore the flashes
That story sounds amazing! I'll try and find it on the boards. Thanks so much for your help! x

Thank you. I might have mentioned it as a side topic so not sure how easy it will be to find it! If you're *really* curious though, I will tell you more. Email me anongrl10 at gmail whenever you like.

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