posted January 21, 2012 03:39 PM
I am in this stage with my aqua friend right now:Stage 5: Surrender
Characteristics of Stage 5:
The direction and outcome of the relationship is surrendered to God in full faith and trust that the Union is under Divine Protection. It is accepted that what is best and destined for the final physical harmonizing will transpire in its own time. (Both Twins must reach Illumination in order to harmonize in the physical)
The “Runner” Twin is allowed the space and freedom to choose to evolve at their own pace in their own way. At this stage, the frequency of compassion returns and maintains itself. The Surrendered Twin holds a heart space for their beloved while fully exploring life on the way to becoming an Illuminated human. This may be a time of channeling Unconditional Love into art, music, writing, teaching, active service or some other creative outlet.
Purpose of the Surrender stage:
To help each soul release the ego, develop regular communication with God and demonstrate their full trust in God to do what is best and when.
We flew through the first 4 in less than a year.
I have surrender so my focus isn't "ohh he is my twin flame" is more on just been there for him unconditionally and continuing to grow as a person. He suffers from manic depression his whole life and will not feel ready for a relationship until he overcomes this which is fine bc twin souls don't need to be in the conventional committed relationship as it isn't about that, that is what the companion soulmate is for and I am married working out karma with someone so we will be in this stage I imagine for a long time .