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blessed39
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posted August 04, 2013 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have heard VERY mixed reviews about Pisces men...

Can anyone give me some insight? Is this one I need to allow to chase me? Not really be too available?

He has been in pretty constant contact with me since we met a few weeks ago, even got some of his friends to help me move two days ago. But today I only spoke to him once via text and he did not respond to the second text I sent...

Some additional placement info:

Sun: Pisces
Moon Virgo
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Sag

Any insight would be greatly appreciated!

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Randall
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posted August 04, 2013 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Try asking in Astrology For Beginners also.

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blessed39
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posted August 04, 2013 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Try asking in Astrology For Beginners also.

Will do, thanks!

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Mystic Melody
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posted August 08, 2013 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not a Pisces expert but I dated one very briefly about 5 years ago and I was in love with one the summer after high school. The two men/boys I knew really were "wishy-washy" in that they were not focused and had no real goals... which I don't consider a bad thing at all, though these two took it to an extreme. A Virgo moon would probably fix that right up. His Mars in Sag is what got him to organize the moving crew for you (his Pisces heart told him to and Mars put it into action) so at that point I would guess he had some interest. It is hard to say if his Virgo moon decided you were not "lady-like" enough (or something) or if it is just his swimming into deeper psychological waters and forgetting the people on dry land thing.

You wrote this 4 days ago... any updates?? Did you make sure to thank him for his help?

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GypseeWind
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posted August 10, 2013 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love Pisces men. They are the best at the kind of vibey-you-were-in-my-dreams-I-can-read-your-mind-I-know-what-you-want kinda love. But they take off. They can't seem to stand what normal people do (like, call me when you get home from work, K?) To a Pisces that's like you are pressuring them and trying to fence them in and make them adhere to a schedule, and they just get freaked out. That's been my experience.
I still talk to my first love who is a Pisces and he is awesome sauce at long distance relationships because he can have lots of days off. >.<

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FireFish
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posted August 10, 2013 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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FireFish
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posted August 10, 2013 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm gonna go out on a limb here - but, as a fellow pisces, remember: all of us fish secretly don't want to have to work. At least not most steady jobs. Don't you want a man that will work hard to support you?

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MetalAphrodite
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posted August 11, 2013 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MetalAphrodite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Some of the Sun Pisces men I've known, they were kind of grouchy on the outside but very gentle when I got to know them. I have one very hardworking Pisces Sun friend who has a lot of Capricorn in his chart and an Aquarius Venus; he's so gentle and beautiful . I would like to think he emanates the tender beauty of Pisces very well.

With the Virgo Moon and Pisces Venus, seems like he may be very self critical and somewhat secretive of how he feels. I wonder with the Pisces Venus and Sag Mars that he's generally very friendly with anyone anyway? Adding in the Virgo Moon again, likes to be helpful in general.

I want to say headstrong idealist dreamers who are very positive and enthusiastic are what are attractive to him, but couldn't say for sure.

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hippichick
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posted August 12, 2013 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Am one, dated one.

I will always say this, Pisces the most femanine sign of the Zodiac, the Pisces men I have known, especially the one I dated seem to have a problem with self-identity.

Not comfortable with their "femanine" side.

There is an old song:

a lyric: "Pisces, Virgo rising is a very good sign, strong and kind...."

With all of the issues with Virgos I have in my life, I have pondered lately how it must be to be the opposite within self...sun vs moon.

I dunno, the dreamy Pisces, again especially for a man, just might be a bit sublimated by that Virgo moon to really let go.

hmmmmm


still pondering.

t~

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Kalilak
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posted August 15, 2013 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kalilak     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by FireFish:
I'm gonna go out on a limb here - but, as a fellow pisces, remember: all of us fish secretly don't want to have to work. At least not most steady jobs. Don't you want a man that will work hard to support you?


Yeah as a fish I kind of agree. Pisces tend to want to be wooed and swept off their feet... women AND men alike. Especially with his Venus in Pisces as well. Also, Pisces do like their space...they like to retreat and hide a bit sometimes. It's nothing personal. Give them a little space but don't stop trying completely, or they will think that you are no longer interested.

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16Queen
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posted August 19, 2013 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 16Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hopefully you read this message in time. Seeing as I have the same Venus/Mars placements as your Pisces man, I will let you know what it means when I act that way..

First I'm Jan 16 so born on a Pisces day

Cap Sun
Sag Moon
Pisces Venus
Sag Mars

Its very hard to keep me interested for very long. I am always very sweet, gentle, loving (pisces), enthusiastic & whole-heartedly interested (sag) in the beginning and then as soon as I *get them* my Sag mars loses interest. I have a Venus Square Mars so I do a lot of back and forth, craving lots of affection then needing lots of space. That Pisces Venus & Pisces Sun can be very romantic and intuitive. If I don't feel you to be *the one* I will float away. And trust me, I usually know the 1st second I meet someone whether I will be in love or not. We are very hopeful (sag) that we will find the one (pisces) so we keep looking. There is no point in staying somewhere that doesn't have that *perfect* feeling. I have been in long relationships but that is the exception rather than the norm. My 2 serious boyfriends were both Pisces. My Venus in Pisces needs to MERGE (I have lost my sense of self before b/c I merged so deeply with another Venus Pisces ex) with alot of attention and consistent affection. (If you're still around after the initial Sag hesitancy & I've decided I love you) I will want to show my love at every moment and will literally bend over backwards. I will never get tired of giving to you. But if I'm not in love, I go through people pretty quickly. I am extremely romantic but it takes ALOT of LOVE, devotion, and excitement to keep me interested. If he is anything like me, once he falls in love he will be very devoted (pisces) and he will channel that energy to planning lots and lots of activities together (sag) <3

You pretty much have to read his mind lol! If you don't show enough initiative his Venus in Pisces will feel rejected like you don't like him, if you show too much his Mars in Sag will feel fenced in and may run away. I have this and I am at times confused by the way my emotions play out:P

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Brendan34
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posted August 21, 2013 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Some of the Sun Pisces men I've known, they were kind of grouchy on the outside but very gentle when I got to know them. I have one very hardworking Pisces Sun friend who has a lot of Capricorn in his chart and an Aquarius Venus; he's so gentle and beautiful . I would like to think he emanates the tender beauty of Pisces very well. With the Virgo Moon and Pisces Venus, seems like he may be very self critical and somewhat secretive of how he feels. I wonder with the Pisces Venus and Sag Mars that he's generally very friendly with anyone anyway? Adding in the Virgo Moon again, likes to be helpful in general.

I want to say headstrong idealist dreamers who are very positive and enthusiastic are what are attractive to him, but couldn't say for sure.


This is very well said, I am a male, Pisces Sun, Capricorn Moon, Pisces Venus, Mars in Sagittarius. So, not that different from the man that was listed in this thread as far as signs go. Knowing where I come from, and how I can be perceived as, is gentle, idealistic, romantic, escapist, sometimes avoiding people, things when I am upset.

With a Pisces, I'd say you have to be willing to be flexible and also not too obvious in your behavior. I like strong women, but not overbearing or domineering people. I think Pisces are very individualistic, but ironically have the ability to blend in easily. Also, I am not a fan of drama, and when people cause anxiety in situations where there doesn't need to be.

A Pisces man generally isn't going to be the one to approach you very obviously, yet he may imply in a subtle way that he wants to talk with you more, get to know you better.

With an earth moon (Capricorn for me) I am very self-critical, and not even intentionally so. I have always been told I am very hard on myself, yet very accepting of other people. With the placements you listed, I think you would be looking at a rather modest, unique, understanding, compassionate, yet self-critical, vague, and sometimes overly sensitive individual. Socially I think the placements you listed, this person would come across as very likeable but may above all, value his independence and individuality. I think most Pisces are not big on ostentatious people, demanding, controlling or materialistic people either. Pisces may seem weak at times, but generally have an inherently strong set of values that may not fit with society's. If you like someone unique, sensitive, and easy going (not your "typical male"), but can put up with someone who may need to disappear from time to time, then that may work for you. It all depends where you're coming from.

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Brendan34
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posted August 21, 2013 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:
Some of the Sun Pisces men I've known, they were kind of grouchy on the outside but very gentle when I got to know them. I have one very hardworking Pisces Sun friend who has a lot of Capricorn in his chart and an Aquarius Venus; he's so gentle and beautiful . I would like to think he emanates the tender beauty of Pisces very well. With the Virgo Moon and Pisces Venus, seems like he may be very self critical and somewhat secretive of how he feels. I wonder with the Pisces Venus and Sag Mars that he's generally very friendly with anyone anyway? Adding in the Virgo Moon again, likes to be helpful in general.

I want to say headstrong idealist dreamers who are very positive and enthusiastic are what are attractive to him, but couldn't say for sure.


This is very well said, I am a male, Pisces Sun, Capricorn Moon, Pisces Venus, Mars in Sagittarius. So, not that different from the man that was listed in this thread as far as signs go. Knowing where I come from, and how I can be perceived as, is gentle, idealistic, romantic, escapist, sometimes avoiding people, things when I am upset.

With a Pisces, I'd say you have to be willing to be flexible and also not too obvious in your behavior. I like strong women, but not overbearing or domineering people. I think Pisces are very individualistic, but ironically have the ability to blend in easily. Also, I am not a fan of drama, and when people cause anxiety in situations where there doesn't need to be.

A Pisces man generally isn't going to be the one to approach you very obviously, yet he may imply in a subtle way that he wants to talk with you more, get to know you better.

With an earth moon (Capricorn for me) I am very self-critical, and not even intentionally so. I have always been told I am very hard on myself, yet very accepting of other people.

With the placements you listed, I think you would be looking at a rather modest, unique, understanding, compassionate, yet self-critical, vague, and sometimes overly sensitive individual. Socially I think the placements you listed, this person would come across as very likeable, but he may above all, value his independence and individuality. I think most Pisces are not big on ostentatious people, demanding, controlling or materialistic people either. Pisces may seem weak at times, but generally have an inherently strong set of values that may not fit with society's. If you like someone unique, sensitive, and easy going (not your "typical male"), but can put up with someone who may need to disappear from time to time, then that may work for you. It all depends where you're coming from.

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Hera
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posted August 21, 2013 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome to Lindaland, Brendan34! Hope you enjoy your stay!

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LOVE, because what else is worth living for, and dying for?!

Sandpaper kisses on a cheek or a chin
That is the way for a day to begin.
Sandpaper kisses, a cuddle and a purr
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Brendan34
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posted August 21, 2013 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Welcome to Lindaland, Brendan34! Hope you enjoy your stay!


Hey, thank you very much. I dig the balloons, what a sweet way to welcome someone.

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Hera
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posted August 21, 2013 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh yeah? Glad to hear that! Have some fireworks too, I'm feeling extra-welcoming today!

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