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lisau
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From: New york, NY, USA
Registered: May 2012

posted May 16, 2012 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lisau     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello All! I'm a newbie. And I am looking for some insight. Here my situation. I work with this man who is not at all a type that I would typically be attracted to. But I am helplessly in love (prob more lust - I don't know) with this man. Think of him all the time and I believe he feels the same about me. But I think because of our circumstances we cannot express ourselves. When I am around him there is so much tension. Sometimes I just want to run from him. It's crazy. I yearn to be near him, have a electric buzz when I am in the same area with him and then when confronted by him the energy is so intense I have to get away from him. It's so exhausting. Is this all one sided - in my head? Does he feel the same things? Is this controllable? I think I might even look for another job. Help!
Composite:
Venus conjunct pluto
Sun in the eleventh
Sun sq neptune
Venus in the 12th
Venus sextile Neptune
Mars in the 1st
Mars conjunct Ascendant
Uranus in the 12th
Pluto in the 12th
Synastry:
My sun, mercury & Venus in his 12th house
My venus conjuct his ascendant
My moon square his mars
My venus trine his mars
Mars square mars
My moon in this 8th house
My saturn in his 1st house
His pluto in my 9th
Any feedback is soo appreciated! Thanks!!

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lisau
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From: New york, NY, USA
Registered: May 2012

posted May 16, 2012 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lisau     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cavzfilefsiqOi-u1185085105/astro_621gw_01_06_lisa_xx.68368.22341.gif

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fairy22
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posted May 18, 2012 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairy22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you have all his information do you talk to him!

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missem2003
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From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA
Registered: Feb 2011

posted July 03, 2012 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missem2003     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It sounds to me like he could be your twinflame. Google all about twinflames and see if that gives you some insight.

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Mystic Melody
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posted July 14, 2012 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So many of your planets are in his 12th... so he may not be able to See you as clearly as you See him. The moon in the 8th house is going to add that depth to your emotions and the obsession feelings... on top of the Venus/Pluto stuff.

Oh, this sounds so familiar. It's a karmic thing. A test even. You must love unselfishly and accept wherever the path leads with an open heart. There are experiences here that you are meant to have to learn and grow within your self. It is truly a soul friend here to create an experience in your life... it just isn't always the Disney version of the love story. There are, after all, a LOT of love stories out there. Some don't end well. Some hurt like hell and don't end well other than with whatever is forged from the steel-work you experience. Some are boring and drag on with frilly fru fru that is ultimately unsatisfying. Some become immediately passionate for a moment and then burn out just as quickly. All different. Yours is a slow, dark Gothic romance full of passion, intensity, desperate longing... and possibly unrequited love... or maybe the longing will be fulfilled and then... you know... whatever happens next after that.

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slowpoke
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posted August 05, 2012 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Try here too:

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

http://www.astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/


Slowpoke's Aspects To Live For
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html


Slowpoke's: Synastry Aspects - Void of Planet Linkages
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/214576.html

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jaiellelove
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From: Pluto
Registered: Sep 2011

posted August 05, 2012 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jaiellelove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
So many of your planets are in his 12th... so he may not be able to See you as clearly as you See him. The moon in the 8th house is going to add that depth to your emotions and the obsession feelings... on top of the Venus/Pluto stuff.

Oh, this sounds so familiar. It's a karmic thing. A test even. You must love unselfishly and accept wherever the path leads with an open heart. There are experiences here that you are meant to have to learn and grow within your self. It is truly a soul friend here to create an experience in your life... it just isn't always the Disney version of the love story. There are, after all, a LOT of love stories out there. Some don't end well. Some hurt like hell and don't end well other than with whatever is forged from the steel-work you experience. Some are boring and drag on with frilly fru fru that is ultimately unsatisfying. Some become immediately passionate for a moment and then burn out just as quickly. All different. Yours is a slow, dark Gothic romance full of passion, intensity, desperate longing... and possibly unrequited love... or maybe the longing will be fulfilled and then... you know... whatever happens next after that.



I fully agree with Mystic....

&& Mystic, we must talk...lol

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