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Topic: Is this one sided obsession?? Please help
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lisau Newflake Posts: 20 From: New york, NY, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 02:26 PM
Hello All! I'm a newbie. And I am looking for some insight. Here my situation. I work with this man who is not at all a type that I would typically be attracted to. But I am helplessly in love (prob more lust - I don't know) with this man. Think of him all the time and I believe he feels the same about me. But I think because of our circumstances we cannot express ourselves. When I am around him there is so much tension. Sometimes I just want to run from him. It's crazy. I yearn to be near him, have a electric buzz when I am in the same area with him and then when confronted by him the energy is so intense I have to get away from him. It's so exhausting. Is this all one sided - in my head? Does he feel the same things? Is this controllable? I think I might even look for another job. Help! Composite: Venus conjunct pluto Sun in the eleventh Sun sq neptune Venus in the 12th Venus sextile Neptune Mars in the 1st Mars conjunct Ascendant Uranus in the 12th Pluto in the 12th Synastry: My sun, mercury & Venus in his 12th house My venus conjuct his ascendant My moon square his mars My venus trine his mars Mars square mars My moon in this 8th house My saturn in his 1st house His pluto in my 9th Any feedback is soo appreciated! Thanks!!
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lisau Newflake Posts: 20 From: New york, NY, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted May 16, 2012 03:00 PM
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fairy22 Knowflake Posts: 93 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 18, 2012 04:30 PM
How do you have all his information do you talk to him!IP: Logged |
missem2003 Knowflake Posts: 25 From: San Fernando Valley, CA USA Registered: Feb 2011
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posted July 03, 2012 09:01 PM
It sounds to me like he could be your twinflame. Google all about twinflames and see if that gives you some insight.IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody Moderator Posts: 378 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 14, 2012 09:41 PM
So many of your planets are in his 12th... so he may not be able to See you as clearly as you See him. The moon in the 8th house is going to add that depth to your emotions and the obsession feelings... on top of the Venus/Pluto stuff. Oh, this sounds so familiar. It's a karmic thing. A test even. You must love unselfishly and accept wherever the path leads with an open heart. There are experiences here that you are meant to have to learn and grow within your self. It is truly a soul friend here to create an experience in your life... it just isn't always the Disney version of the love story. There are, after all, a LOT of love stories out there. Some don't end well. Some hurt like hell and don't end well other than with whatever is forged from the steel-work you experience. Some are boring and drag on with frilly fru fru that is ultimately unsatisfying. Some become immediately passionate for a moment and then burn out just as quickly. All different. Yours is a slow, dark Gothic romance full of passion, intensity, desperate longing... and possibly unrequited love... or maybe the longing will be fulfilled and then... you know... whatever happens next after that.
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slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 303 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 05, 2012 03:14 PM
Try here too: http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f http://www.astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/ Slowpoke's Aspects To Live For http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html
Slowpoke's: Synastry Aspects - Void of Planet Linkages http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/214576.html
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jaiellelove Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Pluto Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 05, 2012 07:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mystic Melody: So many of your planets are in his 12th... so he may not be able to See you as clearly as you See him. The moon in the 8th house is going to add that depth to your emotions and the obsession feelings... on top of the Venus/Pluto stuff. Oh, this sounds so familiar. It's a karmic thing. A test even. You must love unselfishly and accept wherever the path leads with an open heart. There are experiences here that you are meant to have to learn and grow within your self. It is truly a soul friend here to create an experience in your life... it just isn't always the Disney version of the love story. There are, after all, a LOT of love stories out there. Some don't end well. Some hurt like hell and don't end well other than with whatever is forged from the steel-work you experience. Some are boring and drag on with frilly fru fru that is ultimately unsatisfying. Some become immediately passionate for a moment and then burn out just as quickly. All different. Yours is a slow, dark Gothic romance full of passion, intensity, desperate longing... and possibly unrequited love... or maybe the longing will be fulfilled and then... you know... whatever happens next after that.
I fully agree with Mystic....&& Mystic, we must talk...lol
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