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HappyCap
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From: The Moon
Registered: May 2010

posted May 25, 2010 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyCap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello all, I am just curious about the kind of connection I have with this person. When we are together, everything is fun and we enjoy each other a lot, but we hardly keep in touch. I am bad with the phone and she is bad with texting (or at least replying). We don't communicate as much when we are not together but when we are, it's like we're best friends. Can someone give me a little more insight on what we have?

My charts:

Hers:

Synastry:
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pretty_uglybefore
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From: scotland
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posted May 25, 2010 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pretty_uglybefore     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha, i'm always replying to your posts HappyCap. my Asc is Capricorn like i told you before and my boyfriend's is Virgo. i often found this with him.... that he was useless at keeping in touch in a regular, what i perceived as 'normal' way/amount... but i know that is just his personality. but when we were together it was always great. it began to get on my nerves. but now we are properly together, he is still naturally a bit useless, but we speak a lot every day, and is much better... i just have to take his aloof ways with a pinch of salt!

concentrate on the good x

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HappyCap
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From: The Moon
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posted May 25, 2010 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyCap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha thank you for following me! yes her ways of keeping in touch does kind of irk me because here I am trying to give her attention and she's aloof about it... I mean, I'm the aloof one here! lol but the opposite happens when we're together in person, she is actually the initiator and I am kind of stand offish because I do not want to take signs the wrong way! I guess the next best thing is to sit down together and have a serious talk, but I don't foresee that anytime soon because I enjoy my independence right now and just hanging out is fun enough for me Please tell me what you had to go through to push the envelops of your relationship. I'm happy to listen

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mermaid26
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From: Adyton
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posted May 26, 2010 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mermaid26     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gee HappyCap,
Here's my two cents. I'm seeing some mutable/comminicators (Gem/Vir/Sag/Pic) aspects that highlight major areas of communications, so you seem right on with your feelings.

My husband is an Aug. 25th. The 25 gives a 7 or Pis. vibe in numerology (which should be viewed as secondary/backup to Astrology according to Linda Goodman's teachings.) We Pisces can be evasive and don't like to be pinned down or committed. We like spontaneity and answer with a lot of Maybe's. Doesn't mean we aren't interested or don't care or are really busy. We just have a lot swimming through our minds to focus on. I personally am more an Arts and Letters type, a bit more old fashioned and do rely on good old ESP. I rarely use a cell phone and am not that into modern tech communications. I don't even call my husband during the while he is working. I may call him on his ride home in traffic but don't do it religiously. (Your girls Aqua Moon may make her seem aloof or cold yet this just really means she is "independent" just as a Leo likes independence and freedom to roam the jungle. Aquarians like to be free to serve and pour the waters out to ALL their friends (translation, just about everyone) My family hates this about me. Gemini's although good writers are great at procrastinating communication. So mutuable have a down side to their communicative gifts. Go figure? So you are right, you should try to be direct and don't be afraid to communicate your feelings. I think overall she'll be naturally compassionate, responsive, and reasonable, etc...
I like your Cancer ascendants' conjunction too...this will give you understanding why she may like to retreat emotionally into her shell, experience rapidly changing moods, and reflect/mirror your moods right back at you.

Her merc in Virgo squares your venus in Sag. I'll get back to you on this aspect.
You also have moon oppositions which are not a negative either.


First impression, Virgo and Capricorn are a lovely trine and that's pretty smooth sailing right from the start.

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AscTaurus
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From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
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posted May 28, 2010 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You both have same Ascendants, this could explain why when you are physically together, you both feel a strong conncetion but when apart, not so strong. This is typical of asc-asc connections.

You have opposing moon signs and this means that you both have difrent motivations in how you approach life. You may be more focused in yourself and be self-confident and self-aware whilst she focuses more on other people and how she relates with them. She can be insightful when dealing with impersonal stuff but can be shy when it comes to things that are closer to home.

You have venus in Sag whilst hers is in Cancer. She wants to be persued and made to feel secure when connecting with someone whilst you are more secure in yourself when relating to others and may expect people who interact with you to be confident in themselves(in a fact, you may be repelled by excessive shyness).

You are both, however, reasobale and down to earth people(or at least strive as far as possible to remain so).

You both may lean towards similar life goals and oulooks due to your earthy natures but at the same time, may have very different priorities that may conflict from time to time.

Although she has Virgo as her sun, with moon in Aqurius, she'll always strive to be more than just "another one in the crowd" and will place peronal individuality(branding) above all else.

You, on the other hand, may have your Sun in Cap, but with moon in Leo, you don't like working behind the scenes. If it should happen that you find that you do, you may also strive for adulation and praise from those who don't know the part that you play. You are always convinced of your own "power" (so to speak) and are not shy in letting others know just what your worth is.

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HappyCap
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posted May 28, 2010 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyCap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW! Thank you AscTaurus! This is exactly how it is. Well I didn't know that part about her, but now I do. You're right sometimes when someone isn't trying hard enough back I feel like I'm wasting my time because I have no idea if I am making a difference in the first place.

Do you have any suggestions on how I should go about communicating at a distance? I usually just send random texts and there's a 40% chance she'll respond back lol :\ But when I roleplay she seems to enjoy that and play it right back at me...

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AscTaurus
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posted May 31, 2010 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Text messages may do it, but you have to be specifically tactfull of when you send them. During bithdays, valentines and "sentimantal" days that you know will matter to her.

It is also a good idea to alwys listen and refrain from dominating any conversations that you may have on the phone.

good luck!

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HappyCap
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posted August 19, 2012 12:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyCap     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys, thought I should update this 2 years later lol.

So continuing where I left off, I couldn't tell her how I felt and I think at the time she was dating around and had plenty of suitors. I was in no mood to compete for her attention. Strange events happened and she started dating my Taurus friend whom I championed the idea onto him since it seemed like she had a crush on him. It was my loss, but I was happy because these were two good friends whom I thought would work well together. Long story short they didn't last very long lol. Eventually this Virgo and I fell out of touch because I had made it clear in my own head she had no interest in me and decided to cut my losses. I continued on life and dated others, but they were nothing more than flings. A year goes by and the Virgo reaches out to see how I was doing. I'm cynical so I thought it was weird. I just replied in a friendly manner. She continued texting me short messages during holidays and new years, but I didn't respond to these because I thought they were mass messages (and impersonal).

Fast forward to earlier this year we decided to hang out and catch up on each other's lives. It was a great conversation where we shared things about ourselves we didn't know about and it was as if we just picked up where things left off. I thanked her because she made the effort to stick around (I've cut off ties with some people because they did not make an effort in keeping a friendship) and told her I became more selfish and did not care for those who made me an option. Also admit I was confused as to why she kept reaching out to me and decided to call me (I'm a bit of a hermit). She couldn't explained it other than saying I was an important person in her life. I was confused as I really don't know what I did. We had such a great time talking she wanted to see me again that weekend or sometime soon, but my busy schedule kept me from doing that until about a month later...

Fast forward a couple more weeks I reached out first to set up date to an amusement park. I did not tell her it was just going to be us nor did she question me on anything about it. We had a blast and she hinted to me things like "Oh my parents would love to have a son like you" or that we should take future trips together and there I am questioning if she knew what she was saying or unintentionally saying it because of how she felt. I took it as it is and didn't think much of it.

Now here comes the juicy part... a couple days later we went out on another date, but it was more a friend's house warming gathering. And we had a little to drink. I was not drunk, but when I dropped her off at home we went inside and talked. I got handsy and embraced her. We continued talking and I thought in my head 'this is it' and made my move for a kiss... which she ultimately rejected She ushered me out to my car and wished me a good night. I felt so ashamed. The next day she was the first to text to see how I was feeling (maybe she thought I was drunk?) and I told her I was ashamed, but she told me I shouldn't be and I'm fine just being myself. It left me in a state of confusion, but I let her know I'll improve myself because I want her by my side.

Fast forward again, I've been sending her sweet good morning messages (which I never do because I dislike the idea of showing myself off as being sweet) after she told me she likes corny things and she's okay with me being cheesy. I've never felt this way about a girl who's accepting of me and pushes me to show my more emotional side. I've never portrayed any androgynous traits because I am a man and do not want to be viewed as someone vulnerable. It has been a rollercoaster ride for me with this Virgo because she keeps giving me the green light, but never takes the initiative in following up on her words. Oh I almost forgot an important part. I finally managed to confess to her and tell her I love her. I do not know the reason really, it was just what I felt. She returned it, but we got distracted and talked about something else lol. I never felt this way about any girl. Someone I can see myself living with and growing old together with. It's weird.

Sorry for the long story, it was hard trying to cram 2 years worth of stuff in. It is her birthday next week and I have this intricate plan on how I am going to take her out. My girl friends tell me I might be going over the top, and trust me, I do not like being irrational and I would also think I'm a little crazy in doing this, but after hearing my story they agree that this Virgo deserves to be lavished and pampered which is exactly why I want to go through with this. I do believe she is undervalued and I want to make her feel special, especially on her birthday.

Like I mentioned before I would never do this to any other girl, but this Virgo drives me up a wall. I just wish she realizes we could be good together someday. I have not told her this exactly yet because I don't feel worthy quite right now. But she is indeed in my sights. I feel as though I've found my twin soul and I will slowly keep trying... even if it takes another 2 years...

If anyone has any insights to our synastry charts or how I should be approaching this, any advice is gratefully welcomed.

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