posted November 28, 2012 05:40 PM            

We had been really close friends for many years and then liked eachother on and off for over two years (talk about exhausting) but finally I gathered up the guts to tell him how I felt. He said he felt the same way.

As we were dating we had a great time in eachothers company. I felt like I could tell him anything! Things were moving along and we met eachothers parents and I absolutely adored his family. His mom was a sweetheart and his dad was hilarious. I was so happy!

Then suddenly I started getting the cold shoulder, I assumed that you know, maybe he's having an off few days. After a week of this odd behavior I began to get really worried, and asked him several times what's going on? did I upset you? But I just kept getting blown off. I felt really hurt but I didn't want to say anything. I avoided overreacting and tried to not annoy him. This kept happening for the next 4 weeks!

I randomly get a text saying we need to talk. I asked what was going on and he replies with "I want to go back to being just friends" and I love him so much and want him to be happy so that kinda was the end of it.

I feel so badly because I feel like I wasn't good enough or that I messed up and did something wrong. But we never got into a fight and he claims I did nothing wrong. I just really want things to be like they were. Im struggling with this because I've never been rejected before and...I want to fix it with every fiber of my heart.

I know that I can give him what he needs, and I'm more willing than anyone to give him happiness.