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Topic: help with virgo male -___-! aaaaaall replies welcome lol
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lentrice0908
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posted August 21, 2012 02:41 PM
  
So my Virgo friend told me he wants me he his future he just doesn't know if as a friend or wife. O.o. ? 2 totally different spectrums right? Lol wth does that mean? And his bday is coming up I'm taking him to see a musical since he's into theatre and then bringing him a gift the actually day of his bday then I'm going to fall back and give him time to think and analyze ya know Virgo stuff. Give me all of your input please. Imma cancer dame btw. One of the more edgier ones lol I have a Scorpio mother.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted August 21, 2012 02:57 PM
Welcome Lentrice  ------------------
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juniperb
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posted August 21, 2012 02:59 PM
Welcome!Moving to Soul Unions  ------------------
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ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted August 21, 2012 05:34 PM
It means he really likes ya  Welcome!  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 21, 2012 07:52 PM
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lentrice0908
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posted August 21, 2012 07:54 PM
quote:
Originally posted by juniperb:
Welcome!
Thaaanks!Moving to Soul Unions
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lentrice0908
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posted August 21, 2012 07:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!
Thaaankkkkssss!
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Junethird
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posted August 22, 2012 05:43 PM
Whats his moon? Venus? Rising?IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted August 22, 2012 06:36 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Junethird:
Whats his moon? Venus? Rising?
Not sure
He's born August 28 1991
I'm June 27 1990 IP: Logged |
heartstrings
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posted August 25, 2012 11:21 AM
that means you are somehow special to him! weather it be a friend or a wife.. either way, he wants you to be in his life in the future. Think of it as a good thing. Why do you think he hasn't cut all your connections with him? virgos like myself choose people that can enter my inner circle, they are only the CHOSEN ONE that I allowed to see the real me..and judging by the info that you posted..I think he likes you somehow. There's a high chance of that happening  good luck!!IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
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posted August 25, 2012 11:39 AM
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Originally posted by heartstrings:
that means you are somehow special to him! weather it be a friend or a wife.. either way, he wants you to be in his life in the future. Think of it as a good thing. Why do you think he hasn't cut all your connections with him? virgos like myself choose people that can enter my inner circle, they are only the CHOSEN ONE that I allowed to see the real me..and judging by the info that you posted..I think he likes you somehow. There's a high chance of that happening good luck!!
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lentrice0908
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posted August 25, 2012 12:08 PM
Yea I'm starting to see that he loved the show and party I threw for him!!! Like really he said it was perfect. Coming from a Virgo I feel like that's freakin great for myself haha. But yea I tried to show him how attentive I could be while we were out and acted as if we were together so he could catch a glimpse of my gf tendencies and he appreciates that I am understandinv in his wanting to explore himself. We were courting for some months and decided he needed to work on himself and asked if we could chill a little but remain friends. Its been months since then and then about a month since he made that friend wide comment then after his birthday and how great it was for him I think I'm in a good standing for a POSSIBLE relationship with him. Though were opposites we truly mesh and balance each other out. And actually he's learned to accept my emotions and evoke them a LITTLE better while Ive learned to understand his logic and and tame my unnecessary emotional impulses.IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted August 27, 2012 09:30 AM
He just told me he's not ready for a relationship and just wants to be friends now. So now what I love him and don't know if I should let him go until he's ready or forget him all together. IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 27, 2012 10:47 AM
Dont wait for any man, ever, especially the Virgo man.They are SLOW~ and this young man had the deccency to tell you he is not ready for a relationship, and when a man says he just wants to be "friends" that is exactly what he means, and highly unlikely he will ever be anything else to a lady. Virgo is black and white, no grey anywhere. They are simple, no frills, no fluff. But I will tell you something else about men: energetically, when a woman truely lets a man go, he often finds his mind wandering to the one who let him go. It is a law of physics and a universal law, energetically, nature/universe dislikes a vaccum, and where there once was something it will be quickly filled with something. Blessins and luck! terri~ IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 27, 2012 10:48 AM
PS (Pisces lady here dealing with a Virgo man for 18 months )IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted August 27, 2012 02:50 PM
Hippiechick
When I let a man go I do completely but if he were to come back and be serious I can't deny that I wouldn't take him IF he wasn't on any BS
With that being said would that be a good idea? I do love him and if he does come doesn't that mean its worth it?
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hippichick
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posted August 27, 2012 03:12 PM
IF he comes back with full intentions..absolutely, go for it!IF a lady can "tolerate" the Virgo man, which I am still tryin, (long distance relationship, per him) a water lady will surely be blessed. However, it is from my experience, dont rely on them for emotional anything. Men are "fixers" Virgo is the ultimate fixer~ Yep! If he comes back, get him....and care for your heart~ t~~~ IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted August 27, 2012 03:50 PM
HippieChick
Okay thank you! Because I have a feeling when he is ready hell come running since I helped him through so much and tolerated his critical nature. But til then I shall move forward as if I never knew the lad. IP: Logged |
lentrice0908
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posted September 15, 2012 01:31 PM
Okay I think I need a forum for conversation between myself and you hippiechick lol you're very knowledgeable. Anyways as before I said this virguy told me he didn't like me anymore and saw me as a friend which he was telling me "prematurely"in his words but I still stayed cordial and he was supposed to help me move this past Saturday but did not. I called a lot that morning I guess he was asleep so I found someone else to help (on the 8th). Now I know him and he had not texted me to see what happened or to apologize but he told someone I've been on his mind and he's pretty sure I haven't been having him on mine (that was the 10th while he was at work I believe) and now I'm wondering what that means. Does he feel guilty or is he actually realizing he has deeper feelings than what he thought. Especially since I decided to let him see everything for himself like without me being there to help or talk to like before I figured he'd learn or see for himself how I actually played something bigger than what he logically believes. I guess let his heart see instead of his brain or for him to use both instead of analyzing and planning based of what he already thought he knew as I see Virgos do. Anyways I'm just curious because I still love him and will of course take him in of course but with guards up I've also been seeing a Capricorn and Pisces and neither really do it for me.IP: Logged |
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