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kpop123
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posted June 23, 2013 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kpop123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
About him: EXTREMELY reserved, nice to EVERYONE, has girls chasing after him (he has venus in gemini) and classy

This taurus guy likes/liked me, and he pursued me....the bull he is chased after me like i was some kinda prize. During the chase he didnt budge at all. Like he was blinded or something CUZ i have annoyed him to the point of him blowing up at me in a calm way ofcourse. After 2 mins he would go back to his kind-calm way. Once his friends came up and asked me if i like him or not and i replied "i hate him" cuz b4 falling for me he used to harmlessly annoy me, hes moon libra. And obnoxious guys get on my nerves.

Then he ignored me for 3 days and came right back, he gets mad if im with a guy friend-once i greeted a guy-friend with a simple "hi" he said hi back then i walked away and the taurean guy got mad at me JUST FOR THAT. Hes protective of me. He didnt give up NO MATTER WHAT i was indifferent to the point of coming off as a bi+ch.

i've been hurt in the past more than 3 times so i couldnt just trust him. Like honestly the entire time i was oblivious of his affection (im a gemini) then the next yr i confessed to him....even then he adored me....long story short i fell for him so i confessed to him he blushed and said "alright" then ignored me for 4 months then came back to me and he saw me talking to my 2 guy-friends then i see his profile pic on facebook.

And its his girl-bestfriend this was a first...he only put his pic as his profile pic but he still looks at me as if he adores me (after the confession) i still catch him staring at me...wht am i to make of this pls help and i see them talking in the hallways and hes at ease but with me....nervous but he's been ignoring me

His placements:
Sun taurus
Venus Gemini
Moon Libra
Rising Capricorn
Mercury taurus
Mars Virgo

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Nine
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posted June 23, 2013 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus with Venus in Gemini? #hore! #hore! #hore!

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kpop123
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posted June 24, 2013 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kpop123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Nine:
Taurus with Venus in Gemini? #hore! #hore! #hore!

U mind elaborating on tht????

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11nahyt
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posted June 24, 2013 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 11nahyt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are his placements and aspects?

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Mystic Melody
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posted July 12, 2013 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus men are the best with the long non-stop slow romantic thing. The Venus in Gemini doesn't go away though. A Taurus will be faithful for life "technically" as in staying in the same marriage even if you are both miserable, but doesn't mind getting other satisfaction outside the marriage in a discreet way if necessary. A Taurus with Venus in Gemini not only won't mind that, but could go as far as keeping another on the side so he effectively has "two" wives, though only one is legally acknowledged. He will continue to confuse you and string you along as long as you stay in the game and play with him. I know a couple guys with the Taurus/Gemini energy and both are taken and both have been mercilessly flirting with me and stringing me along for years. I'm single so it gives me something to do. Also, I initially fell for both of them when they were single so I don't have to feel bad for encouraging their psychological and/or emotional "cheating" on their spouses since my relationship with them (no physical sex ever never) was already going strong before these women came along, but I still do of course because I care for people and women in general. It is just their nature.

Determine how you feel about THAT.

I also had a best friend Taurus man who had been my best friend since high school and he kept things from his crazy Scorpionic wives all of the time. He would get yanked into these relationships by these powerful and aggressive women and then when old gf's tried to interfere in his current thing he would deal with their stuff on the down low to avoid the wrath of either crazy woman. He had a lot of Virgo (not Gemini) and no fire, so he never did it in the open like the Taurus/Gemini (usually with some Aries) do.
Taurus is just REALLY practical and not too "deep" with the emotions until a lot of time has passed. Earth love goes deep when it has grown roots. Water love sinks in deep immediately. Air love is sort of all encompassing but also blows this way and that. Fire love consumes.

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