posted August 13, 2013 07:41 PM            

His nodes at 16 sag/gem

My n.n. at 23 pisces
My POF at 28 pisces
His vertex at 28 pisces
His dc at 29 pisces

His juno retrograde at 0 taurus
My jupiter at 29 aries
My venus at 2 taurus
My south vertex conj uranus and saturn at 0 capricorn.

His saturn at 6 scorpio
My moon at 8 scorpio

His moon at 17 taurus
My dc at 19 taurus

posted August 15, 2013 11:11 PM            

Oh boy.....it so hard to say! It seems like the perfect relationship for me. I didn't think it was possible for me to to both feel as comfortable as I do and yet so admiring as I am. The comfortable aspect is potent! His touch (no matter what it is...hug etc) just feels 'right.' And I love how I can say any weird nonsensical thing around him and he'll either get it or try. He doesn't make me feel like my brain is an alien I also have more trust and faith in him then with anyone.

The thing is love is kind of scary to me. I'm afraid I've finally found it and am scared to loose it someday. I'm sure most people can relate. And I know sometimes this train of thinking can set us up to fail. Now I'm getting off topic.

Anyway when it comes to the aspects and our charts I have so many questions. When it comes to relating what we feel and experience, I have no idea which aspect its associated with.

I know I've contemplated marriage a lot more since I met him then I'm sure I've ever had in my life time. Which is a little frustrating to me. The juno aspects? Early on he said he felt as if he's met me before (and my friends). Vertex?There are many events in our past were we couldve crossed paths. I don't necessarily feel a past life connection with him, but it does feel 'ment to be'.

I could probably right a whole list of questions.

posted August 15, 2013 11:39 PM            

Then there's the issue of his moon in 8th, his juno in 8th in retrograde at zero degrees. And venus and mars conj in his 12th. Sounds like he has some emphases on relationships. But weather good or bad I can't tell.

Is vertex the same as the ascendant? If so he has his AC conjunct the dc vertex. Isnt that confusing?

Neither of us have very good house/planet placements or good relationships with house rulers in their perspective houses. We both have strong 12 house placements too.

Even Saturn still boggles me. Some people consider it to be a very challenging aspect.

And since his vertex and DC are at the end of pisces...and all his 7th house placements are in aries, I can't figure out what his needs are (specially with neptune square in sag).

I like that our pof and juno are conjunct and also conjunct our sun and moon midpoint, but I always hear about aries being bad for these kinds of things. I also don't really have any understanding of what a pif conj juno could mean or a pof conj vertex for that matter.

Or how about my vertexs in zero degrees. Is this a stronger influence or should it be ignored? What aspect do they make to his angles of 29 degrees?

Is vertex conj uranus negative? Am I destined to live a life of constant change and flux ...or is that just my relationships because ita the south vertex. Then there's saturn also conj the vertex. And the south vertex trines his juno.

posted August 24, 2013 03:24 AM            

http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43

posted August 25, 2013 07:40 AM            

My point is, TRUST how you feel. Always. I am not saying astrology cannot help you, but it shouldn't be used as validation for how you feel, rather the other way around.

Oh, and if you still want an opinion, post the charts in Personal Readings (but post charts, not placements/aspects, everyone is more comfortable with them) and keep on bumping until you get responses.

You seem to have a good thing going on, trust that!

posted August 28, 2013 07:43 PM            

I agree with you completely!

Its not so much I need astrology to tell me how to feel or what choices to make, but rather I like looking at the aspects of my relationships or self to see if it correlates to astrology and sort of validate astrology in a way.

I mean its nice when you see what your going through reflect itself via transits, composites or what have you. I also like to keep informed on what interprations are out there. Take node conjunct angle for example, some say it indicates a fated encounter or soul mate relationship but that doesn't tell us if its a good or bad relationship. The way I see it, every chart synstry or otherwise shows very positive and negative ways a relationship or life course can play out.

In our composite we actually do have a grand cross, and his nodes square my Sun, theres probably a number of other not-so-good aspects.

Saturn conjunct moon makes me wonder too. This hasn't happened lately but I have felt uneasy at times because he always knows how I'm feeling ..and then I wonder if what I'm feeling has to do with saturn conjunct moon or moon opposite moon, etc.

Or the fact that I have marriage on my mind more in this relationship when I never used to think about it. So I wonder to myself 'is it my age? His libra/taurus qualities, or some aspect we have.

Lately I've just been trying to understand vertex, nodes and angles better. For better or worse.

But you have a point; I can get pretty obssessive delving into aspects when I should be focusing on just having more fun with it apart of ny inquiry too, is that I told my boyfriend "I just found all these aspects" and he was like so what does that nean what does this mean, and I go "I dunno, its just cool!" Lol.

His chart in particular really fascinates me which is probably how I got all obsessive about it in the first place. I mean all angles in mutual signs starting with virgo at 29 degrees. Plus sun pluto at 29 virgo and somethung conjunct every angle. Its the most complicated chart I've seen.

Anyways, thanks again for responding