posted September 15, 2013 07:52 PM            

He is a pisces sun and also Venus in pisces, mars in pisces and cancer rising.

I am taurus sun, taurus moon, gemini Venus, libra rising, mars in Leo.

I met this pisces man online. Our first date didn't go too well, mainly because he was quite shy and nervous and he made me shy.

The next time we met was much better, lovely date, drinks, dinner and I ended up going home with him as I warmed up to him and it felt right.

He blew hot and cold with a lot. He never called,most of the time I had to initiate contact by text to which he would reply quite quickly. I had to take the.lead and.suggest things. He was flaky, saying he'd want to do something and not get round to it.

But he was very sweet, gentle and caring when we were together. I felt well looked after and special to him. He asked questions about my leave and was I taking vacations as he may want to come.

He aired his dirty laundry quite early on. Told me of his ex who left him a few months ago when they were together 4 years. She wasn't right for him, years older and clinically depressed. He said he doesn't like being single either.

He had job problems: he was in a bad job that made him depressed and he left it. He was between jobs when we met. He got another job when we were together. the new job was bad too. His mood declined badly when he started his new job.

I noticed he has very dark moods. He couldn't switch off and leave work behind, he let it affect everything, most of all, us. I was caring and sympathetic and listened to him and tried to make.him feel better.

We had a lovely date about 3 weeks ago. He'd been having a rough time at work with long hours. He stayed in touch by text for days afterwards. Then he vanished for nearly a week. I finally asked what was wrong and he text me back and said work was awful not in the right frame of mind for dating anyone.

I was upset so probed further and he then said I'm a great person but we've got nothing in common for long term. I pointed out its only been 6 dates and too early to assess as all we did was.have dinner and talk about work. He didn't know me well enough to.tell and he had said no one falls for.him until.they know him well.

I gave him a hard time slightly as I was hurt but I made it clear I liked him. I apologised a few days later on text but its now 2 weeks since I heard from him.

So my question is: we got on well, we had amazing sex, he didn't take the time to get to know me as he was always.busy at work. He has very black moods and takes life and work stress very hard, he is very sensitive and can't seem to shrug things off.
If / when he sorts his mess out is it likely he will change his.mind and contact me?

What should I do? Leave him alone or stay in contact with him and what should I say?

I've been.reading lots that pisces men always.come back. how true Is that?

posted September 16, 2013 02:25 AM            

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Originally posted by sugarflapjacks:
AngelicTaurus, I'm not a pisces man, but a pisces woman with venus in pisces as well (with progressed chart I'm Aries 24deg). I can not relate to his behavior other than to say he is either not over the Ex or he is just not that into you. If you were kind to him and whatnot, he probably will swim back into your life, but you should NOT let him back into your life. If you are weakened by your love for him when he comes back, you MUST NOT give in to it. He is NOT ready. You are on the rebound. Please don't be offended. But it is TOO soon after his breakup and it seems like you let him get at you too quickly and he thinks he can have you whenever he wants you. Just my 2 cents.

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I was kind, thoughtful and sweet to him. I didn't show him any unkindness whatsoever.

He was on the lookout from before we met for reasons why it wouldn't work. we met online and he was texting me before we met saying I'll bring us something to eat that'll blow your mind, if not we're not right for eachother. he went funny after the sex as I was nervous, and wasn't sure again, then we have good dates and great sex and he goes funny on me still. he was having a rough time at work, working 12 hour days nearly every day and he'd just got out of another bad job in May. so that is two bad jobs back to back.

posted September 16, 2013 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by AngelicTaurus:
I was kind, thoughtful and sweet to him. I didn't show him any unkindness whatsoever.

He was on the lookout from before we met for reasons why it wouldn't work. we met online and he was texting me before we met saying I'll bring us something to eat that'll blow your mind, if not we're not right for eachother. he went funny after the sex as I was nervous, and wasn't sure again, then we have good dates and great sex and he goes funny on me still. he was having a rough time at work, working 12 hour days nearly every day and he'd just got out of another bad job in May. so that is two bad jobs back to back.

Shall I stay well away or send the odd text now and then?

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I would stay away. Ok, first, he's had some bad breaks. So has the majority of us. He is not unique in that sense. Second, he's had two 'bad' jobs. Do you realize how many of us don't have a job at all? He seems ungrateful to me. That's bad energy. Also not liking the meal is a dealbreaker??? He is playing with you. Bad energy. The things he is experiencing could be a result of what he has put out. He is, after all, the common denominator in all of his "troubles". You are not the answer for him. Don't bring yourself down.

posted September 16, 2013 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by sugarflapjacks:
I would stay away. Ok, first, he's had some bad breaks. So has the majority of us. He is not unique in that sense. Second, he's had two 'bad' jobs. Do you realize how many of us don't have a job at all? He seems ungrateful to me. That's bad energy. Also not liking the meal is a dealbreaker??? He is playing with you. Bad energy. The things he is experiencing could be a result of what he has put out. He is, after all, the common denominator in all of his "troubles". You are not the answer for him. Don't bring yourself down.

He seems like a spoiled brat to me. Again, no offense. I think you are sweet lady and can WORLDS better.

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thank you for your kind message. that made me feel better. yes he is the common denominator, you are right.

He told me his ex.left him because of his moods over his.last.job now his.new.one is worse.

He had a job a couple of years ago that was fine.and he he left it.as he wanted a new challenge. He actually told.me that all of his old colleagues unfriended him on Facebook when he.left.so.his behaviour must have left a lot to be desired.

I was a nice.kind happy stable.lady and he didn't treat.me.well either.

I can see potential though. he was.very.gentle to me.when we were alone. stroking my hands.and.face.and being lovely to me.

When he sorts himself.out I.hope.he comes back. but my general question is: do.pisces men have a tendency.to come.back?

posted September 16, 2013 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by AngelicTaurus:
but my general question is: do.pisces men have a tendency.to come.back?

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posted September 16, 2013 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by sugarflapjacks:
This is only my opinion and I'm sure there are others here who will help you with their advice.
[QUOTE]Originally posted by AngelicTaurus:
[b] but my general question is: do.pisces men have a tendency.to come.back?

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posted September 16, 2013 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by AngelicTaurus:
No I won't wait for him. but I hope he sees what he lost.

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posted September 17, 2013 04:02 AM            

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Originally posted by sugarflapjacks:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by AngelicTaurus:
[b] No I won't wait for him. but I hope he sees what he lost.

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because I really like him.