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Topic: Pisces Male & Leo Woman
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sarasue
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 03:48 PM
  
I need a bit of advice! My man (pisces) and I (leo) have been in a long distance relationship for the past 6 months. We started this way and have intentions to move in together at the end of my school term. I found out last week that he has been cheating with 2 ex lovers for the past 3 months of our relationship. Normally I would be OUT of there in a heartbeat but aside from his sign, this man requires a lot of understanding. I don't entirely find cheating to be the worst thing a partner can do either (I understand that from an evolution stand point it makes sense). However, my biggest concern is what that means about HIS desire to be in this relationship. When I found out I broke up with him immediately, told me that he can be single and enjoy sleeping around if thats what he wants (I wasn't being catty, I legitimately meant that). He wouldn't stop crying and did so to the point of sobbing uncontrollably. He told me he loves me, that he will never stop and he doesn't want to lose me. He confessed everything and immediately removed the ex's from his life. He hasn't stopped fighting for me since. He spends each moment talking to me, making sure all of my questions go answered and intends to drive down to see me in a few weeks (9hr drive each way). All of this aside, he doesn't have many friends left as a result (he has no family left and struggles with major anxiety - so I can understand why he kept past relationships). I worry he might just be with me out of loneliness as this is a common pisces trait?The entire course of our relationship has been him taking actions for us to work. He will buy my plane tickets to go see him, drive down to me and talks to me constantly throughout the day. Obviously as leo woman, I have many insecurities and also came out of an abusive relationship just before this. I tell him that I want him to be happy, even if that means I'm not his girlfriend. He tells me I'm what is making him happy, that I am the centre of his world. Do I trust him again? IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 32255
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 09, 2013 04:19 PM
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soulmate777
Newflake Posts: 3
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 10:00 PM
Hmmm my ex boyfriend was a pisces and we broke up due to him hanging out with his psycho ex...however now he's realized that he's lost his gem and best friend (me)lol...and he won't leave my side! They can be quite immature and not sure what they want.
Best bet is your gut feeling, do you think you can trust him again? People make mistakes and sometimes it makes you realize that grass is never greener on the other side!
Also him living so far away, you never know what he's up to! Good luck and maybe if you think it's worth it, give him a second chance.
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Randall
Webmaster Posts: 32255
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 09, 2013 10:35 PM
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sarasue
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 10:44 PM
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Originally posted by soulmate777:
Hmmm my ex boyfriend was a pisces and we broke up due to him hanging out with his psycho ex...however now he's realized that he's lost his gem and best friend (me)lol...and he won't leave my side! They can be quite immature and not sure what they want.
Best bet is your gut feeling, do you think you can trust him again? People make mistakes and sometimes it makes you realize that grass is never greener on the other side!
Also him living so far away, you never know what he's up to! Good luck and maybe if you think it's worth it, give him a second chance.
thats what I feel like is happening here. I don't doubt that he realized he wanted me but now I think he reaaally realizes it. He is very, very adamant on keeping me and doesn't want to let me go. To be honest, I do believe I can trust him again. I do believe he made a mistake that he wants to fix. IP: Logged |
sarasue
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 10:52 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!
thanks! IP: Logged |
soulmate777
Newflake Posts: 3
From:
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 11:07 PM
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Originally posted by sarasue:
thats what I feel like is happening here. I don't doubt that he realized he wanted me but now I think he reaaally realizes it. He is very, very adamant on keeping me and doesn't want to let me go. To be honest, I do believe I can trust him again. I do believe he made a mistake that he wants to fix.
I think you should give him a second chance then! I love pisces men, they really are gentle souls and very caring...obviously depends on other planets too not just sun sign.
Let me tell you with pisces men once they know that it's you they want they won't leave your side and mine is a bit jealous too even though we're not back together, it's been 4 years now...but he thinks I'm his, not in a controlling way, he's too feminine for a guy.
..common for pisces men!
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sugarflapjacks
Newflake Posts: 20
From: southeasternseaboard
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 11, 2013 01:12 PM
I think y'all should live closer. Any plan for this?IP: Logged |
sarasue
Newflake Posts: 4
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 11, 2013 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by soulmate777:
I think you should give him a second chance then! I love pisces men, they really are gentle souls and very caring...obviously depends on other planets too not just sun sign.
Let me tell you with pisces men once they know that it's you they want they won't leave your side and mine is a bit jealous too even though we're not back together, it's been 4 years now...but he thinks I'm his, not in a controlling way, he's too feminine for a guy.
..common for pisces men!
he has been really jealous since all of this happened. actually he admitted to me that he was concerned for awhile that I would break up with him. My guy is also pretty feminine but I don't mind that one bit. He's jealous and protective which are qualities I like (silly, I know). He's made a real change since coming out with the truth. IP: Logged |
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