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ash20
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posted October 20, 2013 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

His placements:
Virgo sun
Scorpio moon
Libra mercury
Leo venus *square pluto
Libra mars

Me:
Aquarius sun *sq. pluto
Sag moon
Pisces mercury
Aries venus *sq neptune
Cancer mars *sq. venus

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Mystic Melody
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posted October 21, 2013 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HA. It's not Virgo who is your problem, it's Scorpio moon. Google that. You'll have complete understanding.
Also try "Scorpio Moon Man" and "Virgo Man with Scorpio Moon"

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Mystic Melody
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posted October 21, 2013 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Venus in Leo is PROUD, so if you hurt his pride you are in double trouble with Scorpio moon. See, his Virgo sun can be as critical of YOU as he wants but you won't be able to be critical of HIM. You have to ask yourself if it is worth dealing with that situation and if it is truly possible for you to succeed at that arrangement.

Then, if you want him back, get used to giving it A LOT MORE time and doing a lot of grovelling. You Aqua sun doesn't take that kind of stuff too seriously and Sag is famous for the foot in the mouth problem. His moon was attracted to your mind/Mercury. That's where you can re-establish a connection. His Leo Venus likes your Aries Venus too. He loves your fire but not your detached Aqua analyzing of what went down between the two of you... or if you just forget the hurt that is so powerfully tragic and dramatic to HIM.

Watch out for that Scorpio moon too. He may never speak to you again already... or you might be given one final strike after he feels you have been paid back times 2 or 3 and are genuinely sorry.

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ash20
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posted October 22, 2013 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
His Venus in Leo is PROUD, so if you hurt his pride you are in double trouble with Scorpio moon. See, his Virgo sun can be as critical of YOU as he wants but you won't be able to be critical of HIM. You have to ask yourself if it is worth dealing with that situation and if it is truly possible for you to succeed at that arrangement.

Then, if you want him back, get used to giving it A LOT MORE time and doing a lot of grovelling. You Aqua sun doesn't take that kind of stuff too seriously and Sag is famous for the foot in the mouth problem. His moon was attracted to your mind/Mercury. That's where you can re-establish a connection. His Leo Venus likes your Aries Venus too. He loves your fire but not your detached Aqua analyzing of what went down between the two of you... or if you just forget the hurt that is so powerfully tragic and dramatic to HIM.

Watch out for that Scorpio moon too. He may never speak to you again already... or you might be given one final strike after he feels you have been paid back times 2 or 3 and are genuinely sorry.


Your are dead on. I do find myself having to do alot of grovelling and kissing up to get back on his good side. But if the tables were turned he wouldn't do the same for me. If i was mad at him he would turn it around on me and get upset with me.
I have started to feel like I'm the one putting in most of the effort and i don't feel like it's worth it anymore. It's very tiring emotionally.
Thanks for the response!

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ash20
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posted October 22, 2013 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's not the type to run after the girl when he see's he is losing her, even if he knows he's wrong. I guess that's his prideful leo venus!

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posted October 22, 2013 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sugarflapjacks     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ash20:
Basically he got mad at me over something and now won't speak to me AT ALL.
This isn't his first time doing this and the last time lasted a few months before he got in touch with me again. He blocked my number that time too.

How long have yall been dating?

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ash20
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posted October 22, 2013 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We've been off and on for about 6 months.

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blueskiez06
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posted October 26, 2013 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blueskiez06     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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ash20
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posted October 26, 2013 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by blueskiez06:
can't u just find somebody else ash i mean instead of insisting on somebody that obviously is not worthy of you if u have to bend over backwords... just a thought... hope u dont take it the wrong way

Not taken the wrong way. Everyone has been telling me the same. I'm starting to realize it for myself but i think time is the only thing that will help me completely move on. So thank you )

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Randall
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posted October 29, 2013 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ignore him back.

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posted October 29, 2013 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Quite. Ignore him back.

Be with someone who values you and will treat you with love and respect.

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posted October 29, 2013 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Agreed with all above. I am Saggie (leo moon) and was with Aries with Scorpio Moon. Wow, it was intense, and not pleasant. He will never own up to being wrong...and used control in a subliminal way. Oh yes, he has come back three times to me (third time I did not let him back in), but he cut me off, then wanted me back after some time.

I think my leo moon did not blend with his scorpio moon, combined with my libra venus and mars.

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posted October 29, 2013 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree. Ignore him back. It's not about Scorpio Moon, but he obviously has issues.

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posted October 30, 2013 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charmainec:

Be with someone who values you and will treat you with love and respect.


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Mystic Melody
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posted November 04, 2013 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wanted to mention that there is nothing AT ALL wrong with a man (or woman) with Scorpio moon (or any placement in general). An evolved Scorpio moon would be delicious and deep times a thousand.

A "grey lizard Scorpio" (my impression of the behaviors of the person the original poster initially described in the post that is now deleted other than the placements) moon has a different sort of behavior pattern than a Scorpio "eagle", as our Linda Goodman describes in her books "Sun Signs" and "Relationship Signs".

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