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Gabby
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posted October 27, 2013 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cant find alot it so i thought maybe we could help each other....
I have a Chiron conjunct anothers Karma exact and his Chiron conjunct my Descendant...
I definitely feel exposed around them but they also make me want to be a better person. I find myself turning to them and they dont even have to talk just their energy alone is enough, opening up to them open me up to my deepest pains and i see things in a new light.
Im not sure how this feels to him, weve never openly discussed this but he always calls me his 'soothe sayer' or says nobody else can talk him off his ledge when he wants to jump. lol
But i know there is a downside, if someones not ready to face their fears, a chiron relationship will feel to overwhelming and scary....our relationship has this aspect also!
My opinion is with Chiron if you dont tread lightly and slowly your going to rip off the band aid and leave the someone standing there bleeding....
What is your opinions on this?
If anyone else experienced Chiron conjunct Descendant in synastry, i'd love to hear how it played out?

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Randall
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posted October 28, 2013 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrology-based questions would get more responses in Astrology 2.0 if you want to also ask there.

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Doux Rêve
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posted November 05, 2013 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually Chiron feels magnetic in a quiet way, not crazy like the other planets, but more subtle.

At first it may feel like there's a connection with the other person and you get your hopes up, thinking that maybe they can actually care for you, love you, and heal some broken parts in you. It's not necessarily delusional, but quite transcendental in a way.

Unfortunately, in my experience (probably because my Chiron conjuncts my Moon, which is very afflicted), the attraction quickly turns into anxiety and fear, because the other person isn't aware of my sensitivity and consequently, they often walk all over my insecurities without even knowing it... and that hurts, a lot.

And I can't stand being reminded of my insecurities. It hurts too much, so I usually break off the "relationship" (it can be friendship by the way) and move on, even if it hurts to lose the other person.

I am sure there are some positive stories with Chiron out there, but the natal position is very important - if someone is naturally very "Chironic", they may find it too painful to stay in contact with someone who awakens their Chiron.
And conversely, if someone's Chiron isn't prominent / afflicted, it may be easier for them to handle the energy (unless the synastry has some hard aspects, which I think would still be felt).

Hope this helps.

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Gabby
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posted November 06, 2013 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Astrology-based questions would get more responses in Astrology 2.0 if you want to also ask there.

Oops, I was wondering why I couldn't find this question over there! Posted in the wrong area!

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Gabby
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posted November 06, 2013 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes it does help! Thank you!

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Gabby
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posted November 06, 2013 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Astrology-based questions would get more responses in Astrology 2.0 if you want to also ask there.

Oops, I was wondering why I couldn't find this question over there! Posted in the wrong area!

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