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Author Topic:   VENUS AND AFFECTION
ineedlove
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posted December 27, 2004 02:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is your venus sign and how do you express affection

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neptune lady
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posted December 27, 2004 04:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aries...passionate, hot and heavy!

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sweetlibra
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posted December 27, 2004 04:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Scorpio

Very Intense.
Give 100% in a relation.
Only extremes.. either love /hate.
Always feel 'cant get enough of partner'

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maroon_flower
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posted December 27, 2004 07:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Sag : Playful, loving, spontaneous... my bedroom is a funland!

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Morgan Moon
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posted December 27, 2004 08:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aries too! Very affectionate, passionate & spontaneous... and jealous!

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future_uncertain
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posted December 27, 2004 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aquarius-- I show affection by being "buddies." My favorite thing to do with my boyfriend is just hang out and have fun, especially if I can hang out with him and his friends doing "guy" things. I'm not a candlelit dinner/roses kind of girl!

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 27, 2004 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Leo, and I express affection with sentimental cards/gifts, warm hugs, and an attitude of swaggering, yet dignified sensuality....

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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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Plutonian
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posted December 27, 2004 10:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Cappy - I'm cautious in showing affections, usually does it in subtle gestures.

Anyone with Venus in Saggy? Would love to hear from u.

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pixelpixie
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posted December 27, 2004 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Saggitarius.....
I am very expressive.. love to use words to explain my feelings.... very flirty, it is a way of life. I get 'high' on love and sharing it. I love being huggy and affectionate... BUT.
I need my alone time and I need some independence.
Fun to be around, make jokes out of everything. But at the same time, I am empathic and compassionate toward people.
I tend to build the confidence of every man I am involved with. I find the things that are unique to them and make sure they know they are seen.
Come to think of it, I'd probably be a great lover to a Venus in Leo..... because of this....

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ghanima81
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posted December 27, 2004 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cappy Venus... yeah, kinda reserved I think. It's sort of a pain, as I have an Aqua sun, merc and Mars, so I am the epitome of unintentional detatchment.

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Mama Mia
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posted December 27, 2004 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aqua, I too like to hang out with my guy and his boys and do guy things, but yet remain very feminine. I also like to express my passion by lil cards and trinkets pictures just all the small things that you can imagine. The small things means so much to me in my world. I love to hug and rub and kiss too...

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GemStar
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posted December 27, 2004 11:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Taurus here...I tend to show love through showing attention, cooking their favorite foods, lots of physical affection (not just sex!)....verbally I like to make sure the man knows he is special-who doesn't like to hear that they are super special??

However, I am careful and do not give these things so freely in the beginning. It is important that I know I am valued by that person...not just seen as another pretty gal! Once I am comfortable with that...then fire up the coals!! (So to speak...cooking, affection, etc.... )

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scorpbaby
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posted December 27, 2004 12:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Libra in 1st.
I'm also cautious about showing affection, or at least I think I am. One of my Cappy friends told me once that I always grab people's arms or reach out w/ my hands when I talk to them. I didn't even notice I did this! I guess Im more affectionate than I thought.

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moonbaby
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posted December 27, 2004 12:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus in gemini. i just like to hang out together...it doesnt matter what, really....continuously exploring each other through beautiful conversation and laughter.........and a little touching

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GemStar
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posted December 27, 2004 03:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Scorpbaby...I also rest my hand on someone's arm as a gesture of friendship and warmth. I have Scorp Rising and maybe it is our need to connect deeper-even through touch! Either way, this has nothing to do with being cautious...you can be affectionate yet cautious with others when you are deciding whether to let that person in or not. Personally, I think that is a good thing!

See...this just illustrates how so many factors contribute to how we each relate...all the planets combine and influence our actions and thoughts.

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may12tauruslady
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posted December 27, 2004 04:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like to talk and be talked to and then act on it, all the while talking. I also like to bicker and have heated conversations then kiss and make up. I like lots of attention and lots of kisses.

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posted December 27, 2004 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Leo- Demanding, enjoys cat and mouse games unless I'm losing, heh, but when my impossible needs are met, I'm a cuddler, sometimes a rough one, very physical, love recieving gifts as much as giving but I care more about the thought than the monetary value, always thinking of new ways to impress, usually for myself, hehe... sometimes a little selfish like witholding affection because I'm upset... I do that a lot... but I'm beyond loyal which is why I expect soooo much... Overall, affection is like this never ending game I get to play with people I love, there's a child like quality I enjoy...

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OdessaStar
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posted December 28, 2004 02:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus in Cancer makes me behave similarly to what Gemstar was saying about Venus in Taurus: I get this huge, indescribable urge to feed and nurture that person. I show my affection by snuggling with them, without any sexual overtones. I also love being protective of them ... bonus if they come to me for sympathy or support. My driving force here is to make sure that their every comfort is ensured.

I should also add that I am very afraid of rejection and needs lots of attention and reassurance from my mate before going further in a relationship. If I feel threatened, I retreat into my convenient crabshell.

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ineedlove
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posted December 28, 2004 02:59 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"If I feel threatened, I retreat into my convenient crabshell."

Aww thats so sad Odessa Star

And what venus do you have May12TaurusLady

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OdessaStar
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posted December 28, 2004 10:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi ineedlove, (great topic, btw)

I guess it's better than lashing out at the person? =)

Odessa

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ineedlove
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posted December 29, 2004 05:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah it's better I find that my baby does this same thing he has a cancer mercury do you also have that aspect OdessaStar?

I have a cancer rising and I tend to retreat as well when offended

I love your name and thank you for your compliment!

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GemStar
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posted December 29, 2004 10:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey ineedlove...I also have Merc in Cancer...as well as a Cancer Moon....retreating is a favorite self-defense for protecting my soul when I am hurt. That protective shell I guess is a way of self-nurturing when our sensitive feelings get too hurt...a little alone time inside our shells seems to do the trick...does your sweetie then come out of his shell healed (of a sort)??

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MysticScorpio
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posted December 29, 2004 01:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus in virgo & I usually like doing special things for the person I love, like say he saw something he really liked, I'll remember that & get it for them. I love the little things, just personal touches that show that you've been on my mind. For me, I love doing stuff for the person, not necessarily buy things. I'm very affectionate physically but I relate that to my scorpio sun, I dnt know if venus in virgo has something to do with it tho. I'm also a bit reserved about showing my feelings in public, I'm not a big fan of public displays of affection, it's a privacy thing with me. Great topic, Love this site

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OdessaStar
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posted December 30, 2004 03:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ineedlove,

I actually have my Merc in Taurus (which I don't really understand, lol ...). I think it's mainly my Venus in Cancer that does that whole retreating thing. The other water influence is my Moon in Pisces. You'd think that the psychic abilities governed by that aspect would allow me to manage my love life better, but nope! Still so scared of rejection. Sigh. What can you do. =) Right now, I am interested in a man with Venus in Cancer also, so we are at a standstill. Advice anyone?

Gemstar, you are right on about the healing thing. Enough solitude and self-nurturing (plus plenty of Ben & Jerry's icecream) usually does the trick. I'm ready to face the world after that.

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GemStar
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posted December 30, 2004 07:53 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Venus in Cancer: Your feelings are easily hurt, but you hide this behind a dignified exterior. Your reactions are instinctive and emotional and your moods are unpredictable and fluctuate. You're deeply sensitive in your romantic feelings and want your mate to be demonstrative because it makes you feel secure and loved. You value both financial and domestic security and marriage is a means to attain a stable domestic life, although you truly cherish your home and family and you're affectionate towards your children. Your home is a place of beauty and the focus of social activity. Women are very domestic and enjoy cooking and housekeeping for their families. In marriage, you may be more of a mother than a mate, but if afflicted, you may cling to loved ones or your parents may object to your choice of mate. If you're single, you'd rather cook for your date than go out, although you'll unobtrusively take the initiative if you're bored or lonely. You're idealistic, poetic, gentle, sympathetic, charming, kind, receptive, changeable, feminine and very insecure. If afflicted, you can be overly sentimental, sulking and have emotionally unstable reactions. You enjoy the good things in life but may have fluctuations in income. You may be self-indulgent, but rarely wasteful. If your emotional life is frustrated, health problems can occur.

Hope this helps!!
GemStar

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