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Topic: What is a spiritual contract with someone in this incarnation?
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LibraGirl92
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posted December 24, 2018 03:06 AM
  
I'm not sure if this belongs here so any admin can place in the correct forum. I am wondering what does it mean to have a fated relationship with someone and have a spiritual contract with each other in this incarnation? Thank you :-)IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 26, 2018 07:58 PM
Can you give more detail?IP: Logged |
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posted January 03, 2019 04:19 PM
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posted February 28, 2019 02:13 PM
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Randall
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Randall
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posted April 06, 2019 01:32 PM
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Randall
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posted June 19, 2019 10:54 AM
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posted July 07, 2019 09:45 AM
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ariesdragon
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posted July 11, 2019 01:47 AM
It’s basically coming into human form to work on something together, to come together in this lifetime, not necessarily a “forever until we die” relation but to finish or start something for the next lifetime. (If you believe in reincarnation) IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
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posted July 11, 2019 05:31 PM
Thank you for the answer. I had a reading that involved me and my ex had a spiritual contract with each other. I'm just unsure of what business we have with each other to finish or start as we were together for almost a year 10 years ago and haven't had contact with each other for 6 years IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted July 11, 2019 08:12 PM
Do you want to share the story between you? That way we can see if there’s something you might have missed... IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
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posted July 11, 2019 10:43 PM
Okay so back in June 2009 me and my ex whose initials are JAK started dating.I consider him to be my first love and we were both 16 going on 17 at the time and We met through his friend that I dated a for a bit but he then decided to hook me up JAK.so everything was good but during the relationship I ended cheating going back to another ex but me and JAK reconciled and try to make it work but about two months before he broke up with me which was may of 2016 he was telling me that there was possibly this other girl that he was thinking of getting with but didnt know and I started breaking down but we still manage to stay together. During the relationship he was a bit controlling but i thought nothing of it during the time. When he broke up with me he texted me as I was getting ready for school saying I slept on it and I'm breaking up with and I didnt even go to school that day as when I walked out of the living room watching tv my grandmother looked at my face and instantly knew. Then fast forward two years later 2012 and he friend requested me on facebook got to chatting and by now I'm with someone new ill call him CCM and living in a different state he tells me that it was never over but to me when he texted me it sounded as it was as I think when he told me that he wanted a break. We stayed in contact for a bit then poof no contact. Then in 2013 we get in contact again and talking of possibly reconciling but he had other girls in mind including me but didnt know how to go about and I'm still with the man I was with in 2012 and was planning to go back with JAK but ultimately stayed with CCM which then JAK in his mind I was playing games and ceased contact ever since then we have had no contact although i sent him a message through facebook messenger wishing him a happy birthday and called him a nickname that I only I called him when dating. Never got a reply from him and wasn't allow to reply. So I am thinking that he truly never wants to hear from me ever again or I've hurt him so much that he cant bear the thought of having him in life and all I ever want is to get into contact to truly say I am sorry for everything I did to him as I'm not the same person I was all those years ago. I was recently baptized as a catholic on the 20th of april this year and he is also a catholic as well. I just wish one day that we could reconnect put the past behind us and be on good terms. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted July 12, 2019 03:27 PM
Are you still with ccm? So you tried to contact him expecting a response but he might be with someone right now. Guys don’t usually dwell on stuff, they are hunters and usually just go on with their life especially after that much time of not talking and you dating others. You want to be friends but sometimes when a guy really loved you and he felt hurt he doesn’t want to be friends. You’ll only know by waiting but at the same time do your life and don’t obsess on it. He’ll message when he’s ready. You should forgive yourself that’s all you can do for now. IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
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posted July 12, 2019 04:36 PM
No I'm no longer with CCM and thanks for the advice. After awhile messaging him I realised that if he ever wanted to message me that he would on his terms as I left the ball in his court. I guess for me when i expect something from someone i expect it but this is making me learn that it doesnt go that way. I'm actually getting better with putting him in the back of my mind and focusing more on myself ❤IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted July 12, 2019 07:02 PM
Yes you’re right and keep doing you  IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92
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posted July 12, 2019 11:29 PM
Thank you for the advice and support and letting me tell the story as its hard to tell someone as i feel no one would listen nor it's the wrong person to talk about it with❤IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted July 12, 2019 11:43 PM
you’re welcome and thank you for sharing <3IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 18, 2019 09:46 AM
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Randall
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Randall
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posted February 21, 2020 05:25 PM
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Mystic~Melody
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posted February 24, 2020 10:13 AM
May as well not beat ourselves up about choices and mistakes we make when we are young. In the future we see and understand how things almost “had to be” a certain way to fit into God/Universe’s plan for us that “works in mysterious ways” and is basically incomprehensible to us until time has passed and we can look back and see it more clearly.
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Randall
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posted March 15, 2020 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by Mystic~Melody:
May as well not beat ourselves up about choices and mistakes we make when we are young. In the future we see and understand how things almost “had to be” a certain way to fit into God/Universe’s plan for us that “works in mysterious ways” and is basically incomprehensible to us until time has passed and we can look back and see it more clearly.
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