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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted July 30, 2020 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me start this out with the fact that I *know* the best advice is to "wait and see"...LOL, the Aries Rising in me is like

There is this Taurus guy friend of mine whose intentions I'm trying to figure out. We me through the site Meetup.com back in February at a Valentine's Day event I organized, where a group of like 12 of us went to this Urban Air Adventure Park place and did some rock climbing, ropes course, trampolines, etc. I can't say I noticed any more than he was really nice (he's about 3.5 years younger than me, we're both over 30). I had a great time, so I put a post on the group event page that if anyone wanted to do the Urban Air place again, to message me their number (through the website). I didn't hear from him, but did see him within a week at another Meetup event, where he made a point to give me his number in person (in reference to the post I hade made on the group page). I then saw him again at another Meetup event shortly thereafter, but we just said hi in passing. Then the pandemic hit....

So, I had texted a number of my newer Meetup friends and suggested virtual Meetups via video chat. He was one of the ones that replied with interest, so I added him to the group text I started. There ended up being about 9 of us in the group text, and we "met" an average of once or twice a week for game nights through the March-late May timeline. Then, as everything started to lift where I am (MI), I organized a small get-together at my house for whomever was comfortable. He showed, first to arrive (he's super punctual), and has also attended two other gatherings I've had. He invited our group over to his house a couple weeks ago, and it was really fun, I had my first ever Tequila shots (only two, LOL), and four of us stayed til like 1:30am just talking (and thank God I sobered up too). He had mentioned to the group when we all arrived that anyone who felt like they drank too much was welcome to stay over, but I would *never* have stayed over the house of someone I didn't know well, no matter my state of inebriation.

He attended a game night I hosted outdoors, and we've texted back and forth a bit, plus he attended a brunch organized by another friend last weekend, and I'm seeing him again at another game night outdoors I'm hosting tomorrow (this time I directly invited him, last time it was just up on the Meetup group).

He seems a little nervous around me, but did offer to walk me to my car after the last game night, and we talked the whole way, plus another ten minutes outside my car.

I do know his chart because he gave me the info, and I actually did a quick analysis of it for him on one of our group video chats.

What are your thoughts on all of this?? Does he sound interested? I've got a Leo Moon like him, and an Aries Rising :P

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posted July 30, 2020 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think his offering to walk you to your car, means that he is interested. The guy I know, he's long-distance, so I didn't know for sure, until he came out and said something. The nervousness, and this, sound like he does like you.

The guy I know, has said that he isn't that bold, when I asked him about something. He's a Leo rising, and I think he can be bold when he wants to be. I might ask him, but he would probably tell me that he isn't him, so he wouldn't know. He did admit to feeling nervous about talking on the phone (we reconnected last year), when he asked if he could call me in December. This was after I admitted to feeling nervous - I hate talking on the phone, unless it's with someone like my dad.

Having the same moon sign, his being an earth sign too, and his Gem planets should play nicely with your moon and ascendant. All of that sounds good. Fingers crossed for you.

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posted July 30, 2020 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the input, teasel . I really like this guy, which makes it all the more nerve-wracking after being out of the dating scene so long (I moved out of the house with the ex in Nov 18, divorced since June 19, but with ex for 13.5 years). I feel comfortable around Mr. Taurus, so I feel optimistic on love for a change

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posted July 31, 2020 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Remove the "s" for the chart to show.

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posted August 01, 2020 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If it helps, here is my chart:

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posted August 01, 2020 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Conversely, I would like to ask, what does it mean if a woman asks a man to walk her to her car?

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posted August 01, 2020 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Conversely, I would like to ask, what does it mean if a woman asks a man to walk her to her car?

Hmmm, in that scenario, I would say she wanted more time to talk with him quietly, and also an excuse to give him the chance to be the "protector"

The bigger question, is how does a guy see it?? Does he see it the same?

The aforementioned Taurus seemed to smile my way more at game night last night, as well as seemed to pick my card as winner more frequently during his rounds judging Cards Against Humanity...but maybe that was coincidence?

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posted August 01, 2020 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just scheduled another game night for next Friday on our Meetup group and he **instantly** RSVPed...

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posted August 01, 2020 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She was the lawyer for a company that sued me. I represented myself pro se'. This was before our preliminary trial started. She commented on my Answer and Affirmative Defenses (she told me one of them isn't available in Georgia). She gave me some great free advice, and asked me if I would walk her to her car after our court appearance was over. However, I couldn't keep my mouth shut and said some negative things about the company suing me. She got defensive, and that was that. I won, by the way. She dismissed the case against me (dismissal without prejudice). A dismissal with prejudice is better, but I still call a dismissal a win. I wonder what would have come of it had I kept my mouth shut? This was before I started law school.

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posted August 02, 2020 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry if I hijacked your thread.

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posted August 02, 2020 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's OK. I think I'm not meant to get feedback on it at present, since the version I posted in Astro 2.0 got me very little replies, only requests for charts...which then got it bumped to Interpersonal Astrology ::sighs::

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posted August 06, 2020 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted August 10, 2020 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AQUACap88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
She was the lawyer for a company that sued me. I represented myself pro se'. This was before our preliminary trial started. She commented on my Answer and Affirmative Defenses (she told me one of them isn't available in Georgia). She gave me some great free advice, and asked me if I would walk her to her car after our court appearance was over. However, I couldn't keep my mouth shut and said some negative things about the company suing me. She got defensive, and that was that. I won, by the way. She dismissed the case against me (dismissal without prejudice). A dismissal with prejudice is better, but I still call a dismissal a win. I wonder what would have come of it had I kept my mouth shut? This was before I started law school.

I would think she finds the conversation very intriguing and wishes to continue it, at least until her car. I have done it a few times where it was inconvenient to wrap the conversation where I was standing so I end up prolonging it the way she did.

She probably found you really intelligent Randall!

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