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cherful24
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From: chicago, il
Registered: Mar 2012

posted October 09, 2012 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why do I always have to be the "fixer", "helper", the one people (especially boyfriends-Ex's) come to. So know I am expected to be there and support my ex who I was dating on and off for 2 yrs...when he all of a sudden married some girl, which he doesn't want to be in. We talked and it’s a sad situation and I do want to see him out of it. I can say no. I have. But it's like I develop such a deep bond that it's hard to break, and there is always a lot of love flowing over. As much as I love him and I do want to see him end this marriage, I should also be too hurt or too mad to help him and support him, yet I am not. My other ex, I am helping him now too with work/life issues.

WTF? Why? Do I have some transits, karma, I’m I being looked at as a good support person for them or I’m I being used.

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