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venuscorpio86
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posted July 01, 2014 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone available for some mid day exchanges? Please post question below.

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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 03:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will.

In Sept is my B-day, and starts a new solar return year...what kinds of things can I expect?

Whats ur Q


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Anyone available for some mid day exchanges? Please post question below.

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venuscorpio86
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posted July 01, 2014 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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venuscorpio86
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posted July 01, 2014 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Seven of cups - I think your going to be faced with a lot of choices, meaning choices that need to be made. Really trying to weigh the pros and cons of things introspection. I am not sure what it is in regards to perhaps work and/or job opportunities.


Ace of Wands - Ok, I want to say new work based on this card. I think that you will start a new position or be promoted or change departments, if you are not working now, I think you will be finding something.

Five of cups - I think your really going to dwell on somebody or something from your past and feel the emotional loss for 1 reason or another. Perhaps because it is going to be your birthday month.

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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes he asked about you...but did not make convo about you. I do think they are still together, she was just off doing her own thing. No, he didn't expect to see you.

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My question is about A - I noticed on FB there was a picture of him with my friends, which are his cousins. I want to know if he asked about me, or expected to see me? If he did ask about me or talk about me what did he say? Where was AH are they still together?

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venuscorpio86
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posted July 01, 2014 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is it that he asked about me?

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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it was only like "how she doing"

I dont feel that he has any yarning to know more. It's like done. He's energy and focus is not on you (sorry). But he's cool with you. Hopes ur doing good...that kind of thing.

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posted July 01, 2014 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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venuscorpio86
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posted July 01, 2014 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You did not hold his interest, is what I am picking up...it just wasn't a match.

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What an ******* ....was he ever even attracted to me or liked me at all?

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posted July 01, 2014 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How does romance look for me starting Sept 2014-Aug 2015

thanks!

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Do you have any additional questions Cherful? Sorry, I feel like I am bombarding you.

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posted July 01, 2014 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand where ur coming from.
I dont know what this girl looks like or what her attitude is, but he feels or looks to her like she's a prize.

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What is wrong with me that I wasn't worth being in a relationship with in his eyes? What does AH have that I don't for him? I think she is just a gold digging user.

10 of cups - Well, I can't say when but you will have a pretty happy love life coming up!

Six of pents - You will be very genrous in giving love and care to whomever you find...but also make sure this is an equal give and take and your being satisfied as well.


The chariot - Well, love life has not always gone as you wanted down your ideal path but I think that this year 2015 you will finally find someone who makes you happy, or will have a very good dating and love life. This period will end soon of sadness and being lonely.


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posted July 01, 2014 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, does he view me as unattractive? What do you see he thinks about me as far as looks go?

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posted July 01, 2014 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, i dont think he looks at u in that way so he's not judging u whether or not ur good looking. But I wouldn't say he thinks ur ugly, no not at all.

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So, does he view me as unattractive? What do you see he thinks about me as far as looks go?

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posted July 01, 2014 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
he doesnt think ur ugly.

But he doesnt see a rel. with u...so, he really doesnt think/care how u look.

if u were ugly he wouldnt hook up with u.

Compare urself to the girl he's with....that's his "catch"

It doesnt seem that u look like her. He is attractive to her, highly. Again, he does not think ur ugly. But yes, he's more attractive to the other girl

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WHat do you mean he is not judging me in that way? We used to see eachother ...well, were intimate but men hook up with anything no matter how it looks...So, I've always wondered if he even thought I was attractive.....

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posted July 01, 2014 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He is such an ******* ....I can't believe he would hook up with me with no intetnion of a relationship. So, why did he ask me to move in with him before? I hate him seriously...I hope they dont' last and I don't like they will...

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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no I did not say that he didn't have any intention of having a relationship with you........ you did not hold his interest so he found someone that was more compatible to him.

I think the moving in part was sincere but it was for more than just romantic..... it was more of a curiosity if it could actually become a roommate situation..... having it be convenient saving money having compatibility they're all were factors into him asking.... I do see he was sincere.... at the same time it seem so very premeditated like you guys really know each other well enough to decide if you guys should move in...... and when he thought about it really wasn't going to be the right move and he knew not to do it.

I don't think he ever had any plans to put to put you to the side it's just one of those situations were the girl of a very good catch walking to his life and he took a chance

and his mind and in the reality is you dated and it just wasn't a great match and he found somebody else that was a better match for him...... I don't see him leading you on in the slightest. now If he couldn't be friends with you or keep up contact because you were taking it the wrong way then you needed to cut off ties with him because he wasn't thinking you were taking it the wrong way.

if you want to be his friend I still see he'll be in your life but right now I just have to say you're the only one concentrating on that energy and if you keep forcing it, it'll be like stagnant energy.....he'll keep on sticking around but it's never going to be awesome.

you have to decide that this relationship whatever means it is, it has to end.... and then maybe you can move on past it

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posted July 01, 2014 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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cherful24
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posted July 01, 2014 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No there not. it was more of her dumping him because he was not a man he needed to step up and he needed to have something to offer and he needed to be quality.

and he has that now. I would have left someone to who didn't have any of that at my age. I don't know how old he is.... but then four years later to see that he finally has stepped up and taking responsibility for himself then I would consider going back out with him. I don't feel she has any wrong intentions.

I think the connection is deeper than what you realize.

he does seem to really like her and value her

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posted July 01, 2014 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 01, 2014 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well I can shine some light on it for you but it might hurt but its not meant to but it really boils down to like attracts like , you are who you attract. if you want a good guy of quality you have to be that in return. start assessing your strengths know what you have to value and act on those things.

first of all don't think like that because that's not going to be constructive. look at this as an opportunity to grow and be the woman you want to be.

I think from what I can sense you don't seem to have a lot going on in your life . I know you got cut off from your job but that's just it you have a job what about a career? ask yourself what about u that makes u interesting to men, anything? if you had a conversation with a guy and told him about yourself would they be all wowed and starry eyed in floored because you have amazing qualities and you're engaged in hobbies and passions...... I don't truly since this coming from you..... and this is where you lose out because there are other women who are your age or around your age that have it together.

it seems that you meet men who are in the same boat as you. now it just happens that this particular guy had a good thing that walked into his life and just like anybody else they're going to take a risk and go for what they deem is a higher quality..... and from what you said he seems to have his s*** together too so he's going to go with his match..... and yes he's leaving you behind you a part of this past when he was in the same state that you were in..... he remet someone who believed in him and saw his better quality and he is now believing it too.... so again if he is now gravitating to what he deems is his quality, his equal

your gravitating towards people who don't have much going on and at the same time these people are gravitating towards you its like attracts.

.... so I ak you to let this be an experience. don't get down because of it, truly change your life

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Thank you cherful,

It just hurts me so much: ( that I've never had a man in my life to value me or care about me on top of the fact I am a failure at life just more reasons to hate myself. ..


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