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posted July 03, 2014 06:53 AM            

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I have a couple of questions about my sister and a friend we will call M. Nothing love related just confused by their actions. Anyone... I can pull tarot or if you give me details I can read a chart but I use my own system as I really have a hard time with the free one... as how it is laid out.
Thanks!

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posted July 03, 2014 08:21 AM            

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I can if ur still up

we do a chart reading want to know when I love long lasting love is going to come into my life.... and anything else you might have about it.

Sept 5 1978 at 8:36 p.m. In Winfield Illinois

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posted July 03, 2014 10:28 AM            

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You have an opportunity starting a few weeks from now but since you are having a mars return as we speak, you really want a little shall we say action. Whether you address that on your own or with a casual mate, you should address that before you meet someone. Saturn is trining your Saturn which gives extras longevity to persons you meet. You should be careful because everyone wants to meet someone in the two years of Saturn conjunct Scorpio and this is really more like a merger than a love interest. You are about to have a Jupiter return. This means you will be going out a lot and more wanting a bit more freedom but I also see this (since it occurs a little later) as being in a relationship. Who wants freedom when they are NOT in a relationship? So this would indicate you are in a relationship… and want a little free time for yourself. So, in months … a couple .. if you have not already meet this person… they are on their way… just take some time for yourself because soon you will have more than enough RELATIONSHIP… as we always tell ourselves and others … Careful what you wish for!

Find your nicest duds and get ready

You have a LOT of air in your chart. This means you live in your head, I am sure you have been told this before. You are very intelligent .... what I would caution you is not to over analyze everything. You know what they say about virgos... most people can not see the forest for the trees... A Virgo cannot see the tree for the leaf.

Let me know if this rings true and I will ask my questions. Mine is NOT love...

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posted July 03, 2014 01:13 PM            

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yeah I would say that's true I hope it's true that I meet someone

did it give any indication on who like his character or anything and if it would be long lasting

what's your question

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posted July 03, 2014 01:59 PM            

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if you're still reading Phoenix, I'd like to know why CB will communicate with me via text if he doesn't want to see each other in person?

Leave your Q! xo

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posted July 03, 2014 02:07 PM            

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I have a two part question and I will look forward into the "man" of your dreams questions as soon as I ask these.. Please...

L - why is she being so uh, edgy, although the word that rhythmes with witch would be more correct. IS it me... otherwise I do not care.

M- why is he acting so standoffish.

These are just two of my very good friends. I do not have a love interest and my friends are important to me.

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posted July 03, 2014 02:30 PM            

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Moonstruck:

I drew the following cards:
3 of Pentacles
Queen of Wands
The Devil
and for clarification I got 7 of Pentacles.

He is trying to learn all he can about the Queen of Wands (if that is you ... well texting is a good way)... he is afraid and possibly drinking or I get the feeling something minor smoking... but clarification says... he does not want to repeat past mistakes... 7 of pents.

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posted July 03, 2014 02:50 PM            

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Thanks phoenix!

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posted July 03, 2014 02:56 PM            

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Cherful,
I don’t usually do in depth readings. I have been out of the biz for probably almost as long as you alive.. but lets dish. You are a new phase personality. That means you constantly wanting to get into something. Now, mind you that this does not mean trouble (although it could), it just means you are like a Jack Russell terrier. They bore easily. I live with a new phase person and their favorite saying is… I am DONE with this activity. And they move on to something next. You have a stellium in the 7th house in libra… that says until I start a relationship I cannot be whole. Psychology would tell you this is not healthy … I say pish posh… its what you came into this life to do. This relationship is coming. You want a pretty man… (not gay pretty) but he has to be attractive to you. He could look like the elephant man to the rest of the whole but if he is attractive to you…… Whoa hold the phone…….He will be a nice dresser… no slob … that is just OUT>>>>>> you have such a hard time knowing your own feelings you are sure you will miss him when he arrives… YOU WILL NOT… just know that… K?

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posted July 03, 2014 03:07 PM            

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Moonstruck... Did i get anything right.. Sometimes when I have to stop and do things for the person I live with... I cannot come back and just read. I used to be able to but then I did it for a living... too much water under the bridge.... if I get it wrong.. TELL ME... if I get it right tell me and I will (lots of virgo in my chart) try to figure out when I read better and when I do NOT!!

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posted July 03, 2014 05:15 PM            

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Lol so very true especially about the new phase person and me being in a relationship

did you have a question for me?

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posted July 03, 2014 05:21 PM            

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Cherful... question PLEASE...

I just had a fight with L. Should I move out? If I do... well I will be living in my car again... I am trying with all my heart and soul to get along... but she gets mad and does not see her anger. She says I just want to be put upon as a helpless thing and that is NOT true... PLEASE HELP me... I sit here in tears.. and I really dont care for the drama and HERE IT IS>.>

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posted July 03, 2014 05:27 PM            

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oh gosh,

I am so sorry Phoenix (( I think when we were doing the reading I picked up fights and arguments, well within the work place if you chose to work with L. I hope things get better for you sending positive vibes your way!

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posted July 03, 2014 05:30 PM            

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Probably and I am trying so hard not to fight with her. She used to take some calming meds and she does not anymore and she is very curt. I have tried to tell her but she wants exact words of how she said things incorrectly because I am just trying to be a poor pitiful soul. I am not. I do feel repressed because my own family kicked me out and not because I did anything wrong but because I could not pay them the moneys they wanted for me to care for my mom.. They have money.. lots of it!... anyone care to read and tell me stay or go!

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posted July 03, 2014 05:32 PM            

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I don't see you living out of your car again I don't know if you'll stay if you leave and have another place to go.... but I really think that you'll stay.

no it will never be a peaceful roommate situation but I don't think that this was supposed to be a long term stay correct? do what you need to do to scrape up saying find a job Exedra and get another place probably with someone else is what I'm guessing but you'll stay there for now is what I'm feeling

... keep yourself busy that's all I can reccomend to get out of there

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posted July 03, 2014 05:34 PM            

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stay there and just stop trying to quote unquote help. she's looking at it as if you're interfering so just mind your own business don't bother her be pleasant and polite but don't medal

things will go easier

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posted July 03, 2014 05:36 PM            

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Well my room and board are part of me fixing and doing things around the house. She says its my home too but as soon as I hang a picture ... she is upset. I will stay and but since i stay in my room she says I am pouting... I am trying with all my heart to be positive but I positively do not know what Spirit wants me to do. Thank you Cherful.

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posted July 03, 2014 05:39 PM            

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It was supposed to be long term.... YES.. at least in her mind. In my mind, it was until I get on my feet again. A court date hangs in the balance. I feel as though she is truly upset with herself and I am the one see can vent it with. I just do not know. If she gives me a list and I have to wait a day to do a thing... she is upset.... reminds me of my dad... and not in a good way. So, its two scorpios and that can be a fight in any game.

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posted July 03, 2014 05:42 PM            

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Thank you for allowing me to vent. As I have stated many times. I have few friends and because I do not understand people as much as animals... I probably should keep it that way. Not feeling sorry for myself... I am grateful... very grateful. For today... I do have a place to stay and had a bath... tomorrow is a different situation. PS the court thing is about a house... not criminal.

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posted July 03, 2014 05:44 PM            

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Phoenix:

Ten of Swords - Sadness, defeat, collapsed plans. I don't like this card I think this is how you are feeling and also how L is feeling.

Death - This is obviously unexpected turn of events and is concluding end of a cycle

Judgement - I think that there MIGHT be a reconciliation - this is card of 2nd chances if one deserves it.

Overall, I feel like right now, things are heated, tempers are flared, this is a surprise that things took this turn. I think based on the cards, that you two should give each other some space to cool off and visit this at a later time, when both of you can speak your feelings, thoughts in a manner that doesn't rile the other up. I think based off your living situation and hardship, a place to stay is vital and its tough I know but right now, I feel this situation will cool down. I think you should stay.

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posted July 03, 2014 05:52 PM            

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Thank you ... When we sat down and figured my hourly pay for fixing up, cutting grass, shopping, cooking, cleaning... She would actually owe me money. I have fixed her car, setup two different ISPs since she was not happy with the first one... etc. I am not taking advantage... but after what my family did... I am willing to live in my car if necessary... not to be the fall gal. I thank you. I do need to cool down and I am trying. We are really the only family each of us have. I do want a place of my own... for just this reason.... Both of us can go from zero to 360 in a hot minute. Again Thank YOU!

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posted July 03, 2014 06:43 PM            

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just remember that when someone chooses to go off their meds you can't rationalize with them

it will blow hot and cold and it will be ups and downs. but I would let it be and I wouldn't pressure her to get back on them to have to decide that for herself

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posted July 03, 2014 06:44 PM            

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I have one more question do you speak when it indicated that I'll have a child

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posted July 03, 2014 10:59 PM            

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Cherful,

I will ask a friend to look at your chart. You have Saturn in the 5th. I had an astrologer tell me once (I have it there too) that this meant no children. I could have cried... Well I do not have children and now I am happy about it as my family has not been kind to me and I would hate to burden children with that... But one of my dearest friends who lives at a distance has Saturn in the 5th and she has two children. She, too, is an aries rising... and she is an astrologer... The never and always are the incorrect words.... so... I will look.. I would say that if you do have children, it would be after your saturn return. I had step children then... it was bliss...saturn return is between the ages of 28-30.

And no.. I would not speak of meds to her... it is not my place. She has started smoking again too so... I think she is depressed about that....I know that some of this must be me... having pluto oppose my moon...I know that having a place to stay is hard... as the aspect means homelessness... but ... I am a Taoist. I want homeostatis...harmony, balance and right now I seem to have everything else BUT... That is why I wish to leave...she seems so very unhappy and I do not wish for it to be me... but I know that yesterday the sun was sitting on our moon (my moon) her north node conjunction... if I must move... I will wait until she is away... so no drama.

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posted July 03, 2014 11:12 PM            

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my Saturn is actually the 6th house

... good idea no drama with that lady... people are unpredictable with out taking their meds

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