posted February 07, 2018 06:34 AM            

So there's this shift manager of the evening shift who was by chance the one that took my interview when i applied for the job- and i had been really nervous in the interview. Anyways, I got selected, started working on the morning shifts.

Happened to join in on an evening shift one day, and thought his face looked familiar but stayed quiet. He later started a chat (just a regular office chat), and told me he remembers from the interview day (There were many rounds of interview and I really didn't remember it was him) as he was my interviewer. The conversation ended abruptly as we got busy. Later that day, we interacted in that boss- subordinate conversation when u get irritated by ur boss's questions about work , and he didn't look handsome to me that point onwards-haha (oh, everyone finds him hot/handsome...i find him neither bt really wanna know him, like we get curious into astrological aspects or into personalities of some people-that's it).

So then, he showed up in friend suggestions on fb, i noticed his family and I had some common friends, but ignored. I found him looking at me outside office, when I waited to catch my train one day and i pretended i hdnt noticed him. Later, I jst acknowledged by smiling and nodding (more of a hi, c ya! types).

I called in one day to say am not coming to work, and he happened to be on the other side of the phone. He was really nice and genuine on call. I added up some work people on fb that day and added him up as well.

I suddenly got his message on fb, asking if i was now doing fne and my well being in general. I told him I was havng hard time finding an accomodation, so took a day off. He kept offering me his place, saying he lives alone..and also dat this is jst bw him n me cz he said " u know how people at work might be like..".

I said, I dn't care and dat it is fine and hv got a place to stay. He repeated again...I said thx and cudnt rpl to his last msg for few hours.

In bw we also had a conversation, whe he got to know his family had got common friend with me...and said he thought I was very young like 20s, while I told him nah, am 30s. He even asked how old did I think he would be.

So, cool conversation with normal, equal participation.

then I sent him a picture of his look alike the other day, to which he didnt respond. I finally found it weird and sent him a msg today that probably we should connect c the conversation ended abruptly the other day as i got busy..
He said" what do u mean by "connect" ?

From this point onwards, we had 6 or 7 texts..where I was really ****** off n jst politely hinted that I jst meant the healthy way knowing people and that too coz we had a continuing conversation which i thought ended abruptly. And he kept acting like a boss with short, cautious replies and finally a gudnyt (Exactly at the point i was deciding to say it myself anyways).

He is pisces, i am leo with saggi rising.

I am not having any romantic feelings for him, am mature..above 30, ad do not crush madly on people. But I was getting interested to know him a bit more after that day, and thinking he is cool and mature. But this new behaviour and caution got me v irritated and ask this question : Why the hell would he behave so cautiously now when he was so cool and taking initiative the other day!

posted February 07, 2018 07:04 AM            

Also, the boss is being unprofessional and obviously is trying to hit on you hoping you will have sex with him for more "accommodations".