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astrosaz
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posted August 15, 2018 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was just wondering what I could do to help my older brother.

A very private Scorpio moon, he keeps a lot of things to himself although we have many deep conversations as I'm a Scorpio myself.

Lately he's been under a lot of stress... Finishing and studying for his final year of his degree and taking exams, working full time in a stressful job, finishing saving up for his first home, and relationship problems.

I want to know if there's anything I can do to help him? He feels under a lot of stress and confused about many things mainly his relationship and he doesn't know what to do and although we've talked for hours about all these things he still feels lost like he doesn't want to pursure things furhter but at the same time doesn't know if this is just a 'blip' cause many things are going on.

Do you see anything in the stars that will help me point him in any direction or give him some advice or comfort? I know nothing about transits unfortunately, although I've read some things about Saturn Returns.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted August 15, 2018 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving this to Personal Readings.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted August 16, 2018 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your brother has Sun/Moon contra parallel. And this works much a like Sun/Moon opposition.

Currently, trans Sat is contra parallel Sun and parallel Moon i.e Sat opp Sun and Sat conj Moon.

It is likely a trying period at the moment. But it will not last forever

The trick with Saturn transits is to conserve energy because if you don't . You will feel tired.

So what he can do is to try and cut out all the fluff and stress in his life. And avoid overwork.

Take a look at some of the things that he is doing(multiple things) and ask himself :"Do I need to have this thing right this red hot minute?Can it wait?" Etc.

Saturn can be taxing on energy levels and have one feel "hopeless". It is a time to slow down and be thorough with the details than trying to do it all at once.

Some relief emotionally will come when trans Jupiter conjunct Moon. During this time, tell him to put off some things that are not urgent. He may be doing waaay too much and his stamina is being stretched to its limits.

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Astra
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posted August 16, 2018 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn Return or not, your brother is taking on a lot. The good news is he is almost done with college. Finishing his degree will be one less thing off his plate.

He needs to do something fun once per week even if it's just for an hour. Take him out to dinner or relax at your place. Be silly together. Watch a funny movie. Tell each other silly jokes. He needs to find something to give him some stress relief otherwise the pressure will buildup too much.

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