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posted November 10, 2011 11:00 PM            

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I got rejected by a good friend whom I've had a sort of "thing" with for a looong time. It feels like there are lead bricks in my stomach. No one saw it coming...at all...

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posted November 10, 2011 11:43 PM            

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Here's a Big Hug of LOve...
people aren't making much
sense these days, if you
ask me...

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posted November 11, 2011 12:53 PM            

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Been there. I know how it feels.

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posted November 11, 2011 02:20 PM            

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posted November 11, 2011 03:49 PM            

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Cancer/Scorpio729...
I think he does like you..
he has an issue with another
woman, is what I'm sensing!
His hands are tied!

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posted November 11, 2011 06:05 PM            

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posted November 11, 2011 07:46 PM            

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she's pregnant,
he really likes you,
but he's obligated to deal with this!

..you probably shouldn't tell him
you know!
..try to be supportive and understanding...
let him open up to you...he's overwhelmed..
Mind in Overload. ...

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posted November 11, 2011 08:12 PM            

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posted November 12, 2011 11:51 AM            

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Just be his friend and see how it develops.

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posted November 12, 2011 01:28 PM            

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posted November 13, 2011 09:08 AM            

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Sorry to hear, CS.

However, if he is having problems/issues with another girl then it's best if he sorts that out first.

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posted November 13, 2011 04:48 PM            

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Sorry to hear, CS.

However, if he is having problems/issues with another girl then it's best if he sorts that out first.

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That's why I'm backing off and letting him do what he needs to for a bit. I hope this stuff with him clears up soon, it's taken a heavy toll on him

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posted November 15, 2011 10:12 AM            

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He will come around.

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posted November 15, 2011 07:22 PM            

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I sure hope so Randall, he's ridiculously good at hiding his feelings so I will never know.

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posted November 15, 2011 08:51 PM            

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As I'm already ranting, I'll rant some more

His best friends (who don't know me) found out and told him he was stupid for saying no...and he sort of agreed. Then he affirmed that it was the right decision. Pfooey

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posted November 16, 2011 12:01 PM            

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How did you find that out?

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posted November 16, 2011 11:28 PM            

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He told me the best friend thing, the rest was directed at me in a conversation.

I have decided to do daily rants about the situation on this thread as an outlet No such rants today, but maybe tomorrow.

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posted November 17, 2011 09:08 AM            

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Rant away.

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posted November 17, 2011 11:09 PM            

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Rant of the day:

I am a desperate girl who is completely unwilling to accept the fact that the extremely strong feeling he had for me last year have disappeared. This getting-over process is long and distracting. I don't like being in denial

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posted November 18, 2011 11:46 AM            

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Oh, I'm sure he's not over you.

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posted November 19, 2011 10:42 AM            

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That's a sure-fire sign he's into you. The playful teasing is the highest form of complimenting. Try withdrawing it for a bit, and he will come around fast.

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posted November 19, 2011 04:12 PM            

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Oh Randall, once again you make me blush

The flirting and compliments came after I withdrew. I gave him kind of bland reactions, and it started This is very fun.

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posted November 20, 2011 12:40 PM            

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No, I meant the insults were actually compliments. Teasing like that is flirting. But if you withdraw and let him chase (as you are doing), he will break down eventually.

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