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Emsie
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posted November 08, 2016 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am very curious what these dreams might mean. My "adult" dreams began earlier this year, but now they are much more frequent. There are time periods when I have these kind of dreams nearly every day!

I suspect there is something my unconscious mind wants to let me now about, but I just can't figure it out yet. What do you think?

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Novabronte
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posted November 08, 2016 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Novabronte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know, eat more greens ?

Ok, I'm sorry , this may be a genuine question.
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GeminiKarat
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posted November 09, 2016 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiKarat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please read it as an opinion:
A sexual dream depends on various factors like age and real life. I am aware that it is sometimes difficult to point to the direction and to write such a story down as there are minors reading here. A dream like that brings something to the consciousness or wants to be integrated.
I follow some questions. Maybe they help you to find your connection.

Where did the scene happen?
In the bedroom: an important aspect
In the kitchen: an nurturing aspect
…...........

Was there another person?
The person can be symbolic on its own.
A color that surrounds the person can be symbolic
…............


What kind of ***?
Bisexuality: This can be a symbol of the conflict between the inner and outer world
Fetishism: This can symbolize fear, immaturity and lack of performance.
…...........

Some say: Kundalini awakening.

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GeminiKarat
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posted November 09, 2016 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiKarat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess that are more waiting for this and I do not think it is for the purpose of an analyse.

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posted November 09, 2016 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Novabronte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
I guess that are more waiting for this and I do not think it is for the purpose of an analyse.


I had a feeling it wasn't a legit question...can you delete the thread?

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GeminiKarat
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posted November 10, 2016 03:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiKarat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did unquote you. The question is legit in my opinion and I it was asked several times in my life.
I was referring to other people that might want to read the deepest desires. Personally I do not mind about the symbol and try to analyse the dream.

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Randall
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posted November 10, 2016 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mods should never delete threads--just close them.

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posted November 11, 2016 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it a legit question?

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Emsie
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posted November 11, 2016 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry for my late reply, I've had a very busy few days lately. I've had various dreams like this - mainly with strangers I don't know in waking life, but also with myself (if you know what I mean), even with members of my family. Regarding this latter, most of the time I felt disgusted when I woke up. It felt so surreal. :/ I've had only one dream with a woman, the rest was with men.

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posted November 11, 2016 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Novabronte:
I had a feeling it wasn't a legit question...can you delete the thread?

Well, I don't know what your initial answer which you edited was, but thanks anyway. Very kind and nice of you... I'd be so curious what you'd have to say, if I asked Randall to delete/close a thread you've started just because I'd think any of your Q's would not seem as "genuine" to me. C:

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posted November 12, 2016 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We were just making sure it was genuine.

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GeminiKarat
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posted November 12, 2016 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiKarat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
May I ask:

Can your dream(s) point to a protective direction? Do you give other people a chance to protect you?

I mean: Male energy/family as a symbol of protection/aggression.

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Emsie
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posted November 12, 2016 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
We were just making sure it was genuine.

Of course, but that doesn't mean that people must make fun of anything I write. In my opinion it's pretty obvious that if I write something like this here it's not for mere joking, but for asking help because it bothers me for a while... And I'm also so sorry for not having enough time to check back asap. I have other stuff to do and cope with day by day.

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posted November 12, 2016 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
May I ask:

Can your dream(s) point to a protective direction? Do you give other people a chance to protect you?

I mean: Male energy/family as a symbol of protection/aggression.


I remember one dream with my biological father. After that I felt the most disgusted. In real life I've never had a good connection with him, he used to hurt me and my mom very badly (emotional and physical abuse) - I certainly didn't feel protected, but very vulnerable. It's almost the same with "stranger-dreams", it's either not feeling protected and/or feeling very alienated/neutral.

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posted November 12, 2016 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiKarat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe here is your starting point and the topic that wants to come up by this sort of dreams. The way to the solution of true forgiveness is a difficult one in my personal experience. On my personal journey I had support from outside and I did help myself with some journeys of Peter Orban.

I do not know what your personal journey looks like. I only know that what you have done up to know made you a beautiful soul.

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posted November 12, 2016 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
These are odd and can mean many things. I've had dreams that while on the surface weren't erotic at all, they FELT erotic. Others could be pornographic and yet didn't feel the least bit erotic. And pornographic dreams didn't necessarily reflect my fantasies and desires.

Last night I had a dream with violent sexual aspects, but I think it deals with my fears of the nasty side of people hidden just beneath the surface that can hide a monster rather than anything sexual. It also tied a bit into my past, and I think it drew on what I learned of the world then, such as how many "respectable" people were hiring prostitutes (many of them underage kids) because they people they really were was quite different from the people they pretended to be in the light of day.

Interesting enough, I did have the strangest erotic dream to wake up to a horny partner. I found out my partner had been staring at me sleeping (not so much in a creepy way, but debating on whether to wake me up or not), and I believe that the lust focused on me was picked up in a psychic way and transferred into my dreams, especially as it would make sense that it was a fantasy of my partner than myself (with some dream weirdness thrown in).

But most of the time I think sexual dreams, especially when common, represent one of two things for me: one is vulnerability and intense sharing at an emotional level, and the other is inner-alchemy. As someone who used a lot of shamanistic and pagan techniques with Jungian and Taoist flavor, and that included sexual symbolism, that's no surprise. If I were raised to feel my sexuality was filthy, however, then my dreams about that would probably instead represent that which I don't want to acknowledge in myself or someone else.

I understand why you don't want to share details, and think it's best you don't (because not everyone here is the type you should share those details with), so I'm sharing this in the hopes that it might help you understand your own dreams better.

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posted November 13, 2016 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never have these kinds of dreams, dang it!

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posted November 14, 2016 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My dreams are vanilla.

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posted November 15, 2016 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GeminiKarat and PixieJane ...

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Emsie
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posted November 15, 2016 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
I never have these kinds of dreams, dang it!

Right now I envy you! Sometimes they can be really burdensome.

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Emsie
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posted November 15, 2016 08:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
Maybe here is your starting point and the topic that wants to come up by this sort of dreams. The way to the solution of true forgiveness is a difficult one in my personal experience. On my personal journey I had support from outside and I did help myself with some journeys of Peter Orban.

I do not know what your personal journey looks like. I only know that what you have done up to know made you a beautiful soul.


I agree as I've always felt some degree of disgust towards my dad and his behaviour. I think these dreams supposed to bring these feelings up again for purpose of cleansing.

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posted November 15, 2016 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PixieJane:
These are odd and can mean many things. I've had dreams that while on the surface weren't erotic at all, they FELT erotic. Others could be pornographic and yet didn't feel the least bit erotic. And pornographic dreams didn't necessarily reflect my fantasies and desires.

Last night I had a dream with violent sexual aspects, but I think it deals with my fears of the nasty side of people hidden just beneath the surface that can hide a monster rather than anything sexual. It also tied a bit into my past, and I think it drew on what I learned of the world then, such as how many "respectable" people were hiring prostitutes (many of them underage kids) because they people they really were was quite different from the people they pretended to be in the light of day.

Interesting enough, I did have the strangest erotic dream to wake up to a horny partner. I found out my partner had been staring at me sleeping (not so much in a creepy way, but debating on whether to wake me up or not), and I believe that the lust focused on me was picked up in a psychic way and transferred into my dreams, especially as it would make sense that it was a fantasy of my partner than myself (with some dream weirdness thrown in).

But most of the time I think sexual dreams, especially when common, represent one of two things for me: one is vulnerability and intense sharing at an emotional level, and the other is inner-alchemy. As someone who used a lot of shamanistic and pagan techniques with Jungian and Taoist flavor, and that included sexual symbolism, that's no surprise. If I were raised to feel my sexuality was filthy, however, then my dreams about that would probably instead represent that which I don't want to acknowledge in myself or someone else.

I understand why you don't want to share details, and think it's best you don't (because not everyone here is the type you should share those details with), so I'm sharing this in the hopes that it might help you understand your own dreams better.


Thank you PixieJane! I've also had a very mixed bag of dreams so far. Most of the time when strangers are involved, they don't feel erotic at all, it's just a neutral experience. Coincidentally, in real life my attitude towards strangers is the same neutral thing, because I can't feel any sexual attraction towards (physical and also soul level) 'strangers'. This is why I refuse any sexual contact with these kind of people, because I know it isn't good for me.

I find your experiences very interesting. For me it happens for a few times every year now that when I have an intense dream and on the way of reaching O, then I suddenly wake up in the middle of it and feel it physically, too. At first I used to be very stunned, but now I don't feel it's anything 'unnatural'

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posted November 16, 2016 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Emsie:
Right now I envy you! Sometimes they can be really burdensome.

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posted November 17, 2016 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Understatement alert!

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posted November 18, 2016 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I'm lucky then.

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