posted June 20, 2017 08:32 AM            

A couple things happened before but I will narrate the part that I remember the most and that had a sequence,was more connected.

One old lady stole my clothes she said she didn't but I saw my clothes on her clothesline.I was searching for the thief but when I was on a street I saw a lot of guys (on the dream I knew them) and one started to hold me preventing me to go.The woman
disappeared! I managed to go away from him but then another guy held my arm,I was very irritated and I used all my strenght to unleash myself but I couldn't,I was obviously a lot weaker.He didn't need to use much force and he wasn't hurting me!Only annoying me.

After some time I ran away and one guy chased me.Suddenly I saw the entrance of a farm all decorated with white flowers and something were written there.I was like omg I can't believe it!" Seems like the whole thing was a surprise.Then I saw my "fiance" (I'm single lol) and I didn't like him very much.A priest started the wedding and I was a little nervous with the situation.I asked my fiance if he was comfortable with that.He said he would move and should paint his house and marrying now sounded like a good idea We married but the ceremony was a little WEIRD.On the party the barman said something to me that I didn't like and I threw beer on him and on another sir but I think the second one was accidentally.I thought my now husband would be angry but I didn't mind too much! I saw him coming on my direction (He seems another man now amd I liked him) we started to walk and I asked if he knew about what happened and he said Yes I'm aware and smirked.He said something like this is not a big deal,that we resolved other issues before and his family would understand.After the walk we were on a cliff looking to the town below and was raining there.He said he was worried about the town and I agreed.We were coming back when
something happened on my house and I woke up.

posted June 20, 2017 10:50 AM            

Sometimes we can think that we have life all figured out, then, shifts come along that we can't really understand the source of.

There's an energy shift in the sky this week, astrologically. We are heading into energies of the zodiac sign of Cancer.

Cancer has to do with the way we feel.
It's about Home, safety, security.
Wanting to settle down, to nest.
Have a family, be a part of Other's life, versus being the maverick on the road.

Maybe a part of you is becoming more aware of that?

You hadn't considered being with a partner.
Your 'old' idea was that of just belonging to yourself.

I have read cultural stories that for the wedding, the groom-to-be comes along to 'steal' the intended-bride away. It's part of a cultural tradition and dream for some young women?

In some cultures, the girl isn't told anything about her designated mate. I'm sure there were a lot of fears and resisting that thought of not-knowing what 'others' were getting her into. And, she had to 'flow' with it...

The last part of what you wrote, about being on the cliff, and it was raining, and 'something' was going on affecting the town... had a compelling foreboding kind of energy to it.

Notice, that you had a Companion by your side with which to go through this ~whatever-- whatever would befall?

If you've been on a single trajectory, maybe a part of you wants the 'traditional' (old) safety and security that represents having someone beside you to go through it all.

{{I smile when I see your name!! ...}}

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Generally--- wrestling, with

Beautiful aspects of Venus sextile Neptune

Beautiful Illusions?....
to throw away, or Keep?

Are you Beautiful because I Love you?
Or, Do I Love you because you're Beautiful?

(music) Julie Andrews in Rodgers & Hammerstein's Cinderella - CBS-TV Special (1957) [8:52] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhGdav5_t7M

posted June 20, 2017 06:25 PM            

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You hadn't considered being with a partner.
Your 'old' idea was that of just belonging to yourself

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Do you mean on the dream?Every since I remember I wanted to have a mate,I'm very romantic! I've been a loner though lol so this part of being belonging to myself is true.I want someone to support me but I don't let them offer their shoulder.

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If you've been on a single trajectory, maybe a part of you wants the 'traditional' (old) safety and security that represents having someone beside you to go through it all

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Yes I totally want that! I want all these things Security,safety,settle down all things you said when you have mentioned the energy from the sky this week but they say we should rely on ourselves right? and I don't understand where is the line between loving yourself and having the desire to feel "protected" and secure with someone else.

I don't know if is because I'm not comfortable with myself or if that is just a common wish!

Thank you very much for the help Mirage and I'm glad you like my name

posted June 24, 2017 12:03 PM            

Being stolen from suggests feelings of being cheated or of inadequacy.

Clothing can represent your identity, outer expression, or persona.

The unknown thief likely represents an unacknowledged/unrecognized aspect of self that is stealing some portion of your energy and must be addressed.

The guys represent something in your life, or some aspect of self, that is holding you back.

The dream could suggest that you must acknowledge that restrictive, limiting part of yourself which holds you back and free yourself from it so that you can discover new (white flowers) areas of growth (farm). It is then that you will find a greater unity and balance (marriage) within self.

It could also be suggested that this new balance/inner strength could give you a greater perspective (on cliff) over your life (town) and thus the ability to deal with other personal issues (something happened to your house), perhaps emotional in nature (rain).

I think the dream suggests you are battling with yourself in a search for identity and inner balance.

We have offered a few different possibilities on your dream. What do you think?

posted July 01, 2017 07:57 PM            

Sorry I took so much time coming back.
Tying loose ends now.

You said--
"I don't understand where is the line between loving yourself and having the desire to feel "protected" and secure with someone else."

To allow someone into your life and love can add sooo many blessings. So nice to be affectionately taken care of and cherished unconditionally for 'who you are'...

Sometimes, if you don't already have a level of self-security and love, then the love and protection that another pours into you might not be felt at the fullest level you can have, because, it can feel as though you have holes that leak out all the attention the partner can give. Then you might start mistaking 'clues' that you misinterpret as rejection, or rejecting-behavior, even reacting through a dark sense of abandonment... which might unconsciously 'set up' that relationship FOR perpetuating and *proving* lack of love.

Having a wonderful Understanding partner can go far to help heal any wounds you might have from your past.

And you'll be able to more-fully enjoy a relaxed and reciprocal relationship when you yourself are full of Love. Dry periods can come. You need to be able to maintain a fortified sense of your own self during those times. (That would go for your partner too. Self-Love, self-care, allows love to enjoy a freedom.)

Give and take. Love deepens, and matures. Many life-struggles, of course. You knock each other's corners off (ego). But when you come back to yourselves and practice seeing each other through the eyes of Kindness and grace and forgiveness-- you find you have Grown, and Deepened, and Widened.

RE ~arranged marriages....

I only mentioned that because it reminded me of some fun and entertaining cultural Traditions around some marriage-ceremonies.

There are families of people who do an 'enactment' where the spouse, or the spouse's friends, come to "steal the bride."

This can happen at the engagement, or before the ceremony; some pull these pranks after the vows are officiated.

In the passage of time where the bride might be changing into another dress or out refreshing herself, they will block her entrance into the Wedding reception hall. In the mean while, the new groom, who awaits her appearance, is approached and told he has to perform (silly) tasks, in order to 'earn' the right to be with his new bride. ...

Maybe (being whimsical here) your Future-Beaux might come from a cultural background like this? (Just playing a bit with the idea here!)

Oh. The other reason I 'waited' a bit before coming back.. is a bit surreal (for me). I was shocked reading your dream. I had had a dream almost identical to the one you posted, just before I met a person whom I married.

Does NOT mean that what happened to me, will happen to you---- (I used to have precognitive type dreams in my past.)

I had typed up the post about my dream, and the circumstances around it, then backed out of posting it because I didn't want you to feel a bad omen.

Just before I had my dream, I had been spending some time communing with God about my life.

I expressed to God how satisfied I was with 'being single'... and that I could stay SATISFIED being that way for the rest of my life!

Then, I had the dream.
Then, a man stepped into my single-world and disrupted what I had seen in my trajectory in life.

With that one, I SHOULD have heeded warning signs-- the intense and excessive nervous signals he gave out were NOT normal engagement and marriage jitters. On the wedding night, and during the next 5 days, then few weeks, I discovered he had been 'hiding' some crucial secrets about him and his life-- that he probably knew would have been deal-breakers for me had I known.

I kept 'overriding' the clues I saw, always giving him respectful 'privacy' and the benefit of the doubt.

And that was just-me---- Now, we'll talk about YOU!

I LOVE the sexiness in your dream. The sassy-passionate tossing or throwing of the beer, and the affections that were present-- The way the groom seemed angry-yet maybe not? LOL.

You could trust in him. The trust grew. He was 'there' for you. You were 'together' in your sense and validating each other's thoughts and premonitions.... no matter what could befall.

*sigh* ..... That's a great Dream.

We are BOTH Romantic Hearts!
I HOPE you 'find' the Quality of LOVE you wish-- one that will Grow and Flourish, and Be EVER-Lasting and True.