posted December 10, 2018 07:53 PM            

Anyway, IRL I was posting in Interpersonal Astrology about a man I love and will never be with. I was replying back in the early morning so was in and out of sleep.

I then dreamed that I was looking at my thread and someone commented the following:

"The synastry asked you both if you were ready to fall in love"

I was trying too hard to see what the rest read but I woke up!

posted December 10, 2018 09:32 PM            

""The synastry asked you both if you were ready to fall in love"

I was trying too hard to see what the rest read but I woke up!"

So.. Are you READY to fall in love "with the whole person that he is", or continue to use him for more hot sex-capades?

Could you have a relationship with him apart from the sexual?

Can he 'be himself'? How much of an honest friendship outside (no-benefits) have you been able to cultivate?

Hot Lust PLUS really-truly with your soul loving and liking a person for 'who they are' (through-n-through) is some of the highest most-intense expressions of human relating! ….

Thing is, is HE on the same page, or are you 'pressing too hard' and 'going too fast' for HIM?

posted December 11, 2018 10:07 AM            

I'm sooo sorry he "deceived" you!!! THAT is soo cruel, to have 'led you on' (used you), AND that (with bluntness, sorry) he was a piece of scum to have "cheated" on his wife, as well!!

It is NOT RIGHT when a man DECEIVES like that.
{{{{{{ }}}}}}

There's a chemical-psychic (even karmic) thing that happens when a Woman falls in Love!!! The process of backing-out-of-that is like, well, you can't!!

You have to "detox" from him.
Understand that this was a "karmic" coming together.

There have been transits over the past year that have indicated that 'these kinds' of meetings and relationships would be coming forward.

There's an article on Vertex-connections that I'll have to dig up for you later (no promises right now).

Gotta go get ready.

Again, AS a Woman, I'm grieved and pissedoff for you.... THAT should have NEVER happened to your Heart.

Take GOOD Care of yourself.....

posted December 13, 2018 03:06 PM            

I am very protective over women-- especially those who feel hurt {{ }}.

As I had said, when a woman 'falls in love' that bonding is sooo precious. A broken-Heart is soooo unfair!

Hurts for a LONG LONG time.
Even if its been several years for you, and 'during' certain Seasons of the year-- Good memories, good things from former Loves can float back into our senses, remembering our best of times with 'them'.

Me? Been married twice--
Once right-before Thanksgiving;
and the other one I married the Day After Christmas (Dec 26), thinking that THIS was the 'one' that would be Forever.

As an older person now, and without a family, I don't have family to celebrate any Holidays.

(I have a person I share a small apartment with, and most times, they go off to be on vacations with theirs, leaving me behind-- to watch all the Christmas Hallmark movies??? and 'family' programs. oh sheesh.)

It can be really depressing to go through Holidays, and to be Reminded of times-past.

(music) Hurts Like Hell (Aretha Franklin) [4:18] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfJ1X7THwFw

It would be good if you can find more healing this season, and to find a way to bounce back.

Maybe tChiron squaring your Venus Gemini will 'assist' you with that this year.

As the voice of the dream said, to Prepare to Fall In-Love again--

Start WITH that part of 'you' that mourns this relationship and needs to be Cared-For -- 'gather-back-up' that piece of your soul {you gave him} from memories of things that were past.

tChiron in Pisces (in your 5th house of romance) is direct now, and finishing its run in Pisces making a square to your Venus Gemini 29+ in H8 {secret affair}.

I hope that you'll spend time really digging-in, and processing your hurts-- keeping what was good, and, ridding self of pain and eventually cutting the cord of want (a little more).

Heck, -- With t Jupiter in your 1st House now??
This can enhance your personality, and make you shine. Venus will eventually make her way into your 1st House too!!

Anyways.. I apologize for saying scum.. And thankyou for understanding that I said that from my own Protective-Mama energies. It's just not-Right when a girl and a Woman's Heart is Broken.

posted December 13, 2018 09:41 PM            

I know what it feels like to spend the Xmas holidays alone, it's why I try to go away and enjoy myself instead of focusing on the loneliness. Try it someone time! It's so freeing.

I can't believe you know my chart!