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Topic: Who is it easy for you to be close to?
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Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 10:56 AM
I was thinking about family and Astrology and was wondering if it effects others in their relationships with their family.I am close with everyone in my family, but it is naturally easier for me to get along with my father and brother ... I think this is because we share many planets. My dad's chart is very close to mine ... He has Cancer rising, sun in Pisces and Aquarius in Mercury, as do I. My brother is Capricorn sun with Leo rising, Aquarius moon and mercury. The three of us are very similer and its very, very easy for us to get along. I still get along with my mum and sister, but it takes more work. My mum is Virgo with a Leo moon and my sister is a Sag with a Gemini moon and rising. They are both (paticularaly my sister) very hard for me to understand sometimes. What about all of you? Do the planets play a part in your family relationships??? ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Mercury - Aquarius Venus - Aquarius Mars - Taurus Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
xrâräx unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 11:32 AM
Hello Amber!Like you, I'm very close to ALL my family..love them to death. By the way I'm a Cancer sun LOL I have a great relationship with my mother- she has a Leo Stellium. We are very good friends.. (I have merc and venus in leo) With my father it's been VERY difficult, I really hated him sometimes... but I've come to understand him and worked out our differences. It's one of the BEST things that I achieved these last 2 years- He's a Scorpio Sun, Sagittarius rising. (I have mars and saturn in scorpio) And my brother is an Aquarius Sun- we do get along great, but is more of a mental relationship-we are very different. (I'm an aqua asc) IP: Logged |
alvarella777 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 11:58 AM
Most easy, comforting, interesting, enlightening and fun it is to be with MALE FRIENDS - I'm a woman, certainly not the "tomboy"-type (I hope, haha) - but I know that "platonic friendships" and all kinds of varieties of that ARE possible between males and females.I like especially LEO-guys, I also get along astonishingly well with stormy ARIES- and openminded SAGITTARIAN-folks (-guys). On the other hand, I find PISCES-company extremely draining, always so many vague subtleties, so much touchyness, no "playful approach", too much brooding instead. Pisces-folks seem running to me - but I find them so hard to deal with - just because these folks are not able to "detach" - they take EVRYTHING way too personal!!! Impossible to see beyond their own borders, really. So I am a WATERY WOMAN - getting along best with FIERY MEN, haha! (My Sun, Mars and Vertex in Cancer, ASC in Scorpio.) My Mercury is in Leo though - and my Part of Fortune in (Leo's) fifth house of playful self-expression, in the stormy sign of Aries. Also, my Moon is in 1st in Sagittarius (a playful, adventurous, fiery sign as well.) IP: Logged |
Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 12:53 PM
xrâräx: That's really great that you're close with your dad now! My mum and I also had a very strained relationship when I was in my early teens. Sometimes, I regret to say, I really hated her. But now, like you, after working really hard, I appreciate her so much! Part of that is because of Astrology ... After reading baout her Virgo sun, I started to understand why she was the way she was. It really, really helped.
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Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 12:59 PM
alvarella777: That's funny that you're a water sign and get along with fire so well! That's really cool .... I'm also a water sign (Pisces), but I really only get along with one fire sign, Leos. That's probably because I have a Leo moon. That being said, Aries and Sags always seemed to be atracted to me (friendship wise) and I have a few very close friends of those signs. Air signs and I mesh really well in friendships. I admire their coolness and flighty sense of fun.
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VirgOh Knowflake Posts: 8 From: New Jersey, USA Registered: May 2009
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posted December 28, 2008 01:16 PM
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Chryseis unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 02:15 PM
Heehee VirgOhI understand perfectly, haha from a fellow Virgo IP: Logged |
alvarella777 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 02:15 PM
AMBER, sorry, you're a PISCES-lady ... and I just read my lines again and they sound a bit disrespectful, maybe. I am glad that you didn't get it the wrong way!!!! ;-)I should have added the following: My problems with Pisces are mainly with Pisces-guys! Miraculously they tend to develop a crush on me quickly - but I always find them difficult to deal with and never can feel the same for these guys. And then they get mad and apply some emotional blackmail-techniques and stuff... This is NOT true for Pisces-women. With Leos, it is the other way around: While I count several Leo-guys amongst my dearest friends ... I had several difficulties with Leo-women! To be honest: I don't like Leo-women at all, haha. (OF COURSE there are exceptions to that rule - like the marvelous KOIFLOWER-Leo-lady from that forum;-) Funny thing with Pisces: My own NN is in Pisces!!! And I wonder what exactly it is that makes me feel so uncomfortable with Pisces-men ... IP: Logged |
kaira unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 02:29 PM
people that are born towards the end of the Sign month. like the last ten 10 of the Leo month, and Piscean month, i tend to get along with people born then.but Capricorns born near the beginning, like December-ish, i get along with. am i making any sense? lol IP: Logged |
Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 04:34 PM
alvarella777: Thanks and don't worry about it! Leo men are so easy to get along with I find as well, lol. They are entertainers totally ... I enjoy being with them, but I would never go to one for an importent, deep conversation about me ... However, a deep, importent conversation about them is no problem, haha. I mean that in the best way!
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Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 04:35 PM
kaira: I understand what you're saying! I get along with Aries born later in their month and earlier ... I find they're less agressive. Of course, it also depends on what their moon sign is ...------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Mercury - Aquarius Venus - Aquarius Mars - Taurus Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
emma_duncan Knowflake Posts: 24 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2008 04:53 PM
check out the house overlays as wellpeople whose personal planets fall in 4th....very very close link 11th ...very good firendhip 7th....attraction 2,4,6 and to some extent 8, 10 and 12 houses ...if these receive other person's personal planets...it can make a v deep bond..... ------------------ asc/sun/moon: Capricon/leo/libra venus virgo Mars Taurus IP: Logged |
Libralove09 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 05:03 PM
hmm, the family i circulate with are mostly fire signs, leos in particular.i get along with two people the most: my uncle, and my nan. i won't include my mum. my nan is a virgo sun, my uncle is a sagittarian sun, aries moon, venus scorpio, mars sagittarius. my uncle and are are pretty good friends. i get along best with air signs and earth signs. fire sign girls i get along with easily, especially girls it seems.. unless its a leo girl showing to much pride, or to much ego like aries. < i dont like that same goes for the guys, but i notice guys show this much more than women, hence i don't get along with them as easily as earthy or airy people. water signs, depends, i get along with them if they have some fire signs in them i think. kaira, you get along with leo's in the last 10 degrees because your moon conjuncts there suns? : ) IP: Logged |
kaira unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 05:34 PM
Libralove09, i think so. i feel a warmth around them, like i can be honest about anything and it won't matter. and with Pisceans too.IP: Logged |
Libralove09 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 05:39 PM
oh yeh, you have to mention pisces, that was the sun of ur new love interest isnt it? lol, are you from iran too? IP: Logged |
kaira unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 05:59 PM
no, i'm from London, but i'm Spanish. he's not my new love interest, just a good friend. IP: Logged |
Libralove09 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 06:11 PM
i thought you were something, i didn't realize you were from london eep.. revenge is possible me thinks. yes, call him "good friend" until he shows signs of interests or makes a move, hehe. IP: Logged |
kaira unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 06:28 PM
lol, he wouldn't.. i've known him for many years, and he's never done anything of the sort.and revenge?!?! upon me? what did i do... IP: Logged |
Libralove09 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 06:40 PM
sorry for derailing topic amber!IP: Logged |
Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 07:53 PM
Don't worry about it! lol! ------------------ Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Mercury - Aquarius Venus - Aquarius Mars - Taurus Rising - Cancer IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 07:57 PM
Saturn ties. Links to the fourth house, Sun/Moon connections. Moon on the Nodes. IP: Logged |
Libralove09 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 08:24 PM
thanks amber, its not my fault really.. kaira just doesn't want to communicate any other way with me.IP: Logged |
xrâräx unregistered
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posted December 28, 2008 10:46 PM
Amber! very happy to hear about you and your mom now It's a REAL big deal we could overcome these "parental issues"...I know people that could never "mend" their relationships with their parents and that's very sad Yeah, with my dad it was certainly a love-hate relationship, and now we are so very close, I hug him everyday- for every hour that I had spent (almost 10 years) arguing and fighting with him. IP: Logged |
kaira unregistered
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posted December 29, 2008 09:46 AM
lol Libra Love! that's so cheeky! you've never once asked to speak outside the forum with me, so how would i know you wanted to? well, here's my email address - g_raveriz@hotmail.co.uk add me if you want to loland sorry Amber, for ruining your thread. IP: Logged |
Amber24 unregistered
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posted December 29, 2008 03:14 PM
kaira: haha! Threads are here to talk on so I don't mind at all!IP: Logged | |