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Topic: Sand, lol
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Hera
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posted May 19, 2012 02:54 PM
  
Hey Sandie!  Guess what, I'm going out tomorrow with someone born like 3 days be4 you lol. He even has Scorpio Asc lol. We used to hang out a bit last year, a common friend wanted to play Cupid. I think he might have liked me?  Ofc, with such a set of placements is really diff to tell. I guess I erm sort of rejected him if he did sort of like me (????) because I met teh love of my life the Sag in that period and went totally gaga and forgot all about mr Bull. I was honest with him about it though! (maybe shouldn't have??) He was the one who kept us communicating, he asked to come to my hospital for some tests and I helped him with that, he asked me out as a thank you, but I was in a difficult place then (suicide attempt and all) and said no... Now we sort of reconnected again and plan to go to cultural events together since we have v similar tastes. But it really puzzles me (a bit), coz now I am really friendly and excited and interested in communicating with him, but he kinda blows me off. Is he like punishing me for my lack of interest in the past? Assuming he did like me? Does it seem like he liked me to you??! And then there's the thing of me liking him... not sure about that one. I mean, I do like him as a person but maybe I want to be just friends? I like going out with him, like his company but guess maybe not interested in a rel right now?? I still wanna hang out with him and go to concerts and the theatre and stuff, don't wanna lose thaaat!  I know it's stupid Saturn opp Venus at work with the lack of proper timing and the on/off unrequited aspect of it. Bahhh! The synastry/comp is not all that bad though...  What do u think?  IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 1866
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posted May 20, 2012 12:21 AM
It is funny how Taurus he is lol and how Aries I get because of that lol. I asked him if he wants to go on a road trip for this Roxette concert lol and he said "I'll think about it" hahaha! Last night I found a really nice offer for theatre tickets, he asked me their price OMG, then said he will think about it again  . I got impatient after an hour and a half lol and pressed the matter a bit (the offer was limited). He said yeah, yeah, buy the tickets! Hahaha. I almost forgot how patient I have to be around you Bulls lol.Anyway, this is the synastry. I seem to be the one that messes up for some reason.   IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted May 20, 2012 12:29 AM
Moons opposite is intriguing! How does it play out?  IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 20, 2012 12:33 AM
Oh, I seem to like that one! I have dated Gem Moons before. In fact, everyone I dated had a mutable Moon. No idea why, lol. But he's witty, good sense of humor that I get (which is rare lol) and knows a bit about everything lol. I also like how he always documents before going to an event hahaha! Very Tau/Gem of him lol!IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 20, 2012 12:50 AM
I guess we both sort of send mixed signals. I usually try to not do that, this is why I told him about the Sag. But God only knows how he translated that! Now I guess he thinks my interest is romantic in nature, but I'm really very excited about having a cultural buddy! We like the same things and could talk for hours about that. I would really hate to lose that if things get muddied romantically. So I guess I really hope he doesn't like me that way.
We do have a double-whammy Mars-Venus, I'm very confused why I am not really attracted to him, or maybe it's one of those things that you grow into?! I don't think he's attracted to me either. Bahhh, Saturn!!IP: Logged |
sand
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From: 14.5833° N, 121.0000° E
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posted May 20, 2012 05:36 AM
So u wan me 2 figure out whether he likes u but u hope he doesn't? I'm very hot and cold it's the Venus opp Pluto in our charts. But I suppose he likes u. I don't really hang with women anymore. Something always happens lol! The sag wouldn't really matter as long as u reassure him and not something to punish anyone over LOL! Lately tho iv been thinking of family, my hypothetical future one lol! So strange i guess that's Saturn return-ish for ya!  IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted May 20, 2012 05:59 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
I don't really hang with women anymore. Something always happens lol!
What you mean?! IP: Logged |
sand
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From: 14.5833° N, 121.0000° E
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posted May 20, 2012 06:34 AM
LOL I mean someone always ends up liking someone or developing feelings. Something always happens! IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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posted May 20, 2012 06:42 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
LOL I mean someone always ends up liking someone or developing feelings. Something always happens!
Hehehe... U mean your Cupido on Venus is working overtime attracting ladies? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted May 20, 2012 06:55 AM
No lol it's happened the other way around too! My cupido Venus is on leave for now.  need to get a few things in orda..IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 20, 2012 07:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
No lol it's happened the other way around too! My cupido Venus is on leave for now. need to get a few things in orda..
You mean you have Cupido conj Venus? And he has it too? And my Saturn opposes them? IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 1866
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posted May 20, 2012 07:32 AM
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
So u wan me 2 figure out whether he likes u but u hope he doesn't?
Something like that, yes! lol I don't really know what I hope... Truth be told, I was slightly interested in him in the beginning, but then he said something that really turned me off completely. quote:
Originally posted by sand:
I'm very hot and cold it's the Venus opp Pluto in our charts. But I suppose he likes u. I don't really hang with women anymore. Something always happens lol!
Lol, agreed that something always seems to happen. Yeah, Ven opp Pluto... I thought so too. He's very jealous, I mean VERY. I like some jealous, but I like freedom too. He hasn't been jealous with me, or hasn't shown it, but he told me something about his ex that put me off, how she didn't feel like hanging out with him but then he found her posting on FB and got kinda mad (!!!). I do that too, sometimes I don't even answer the phone or the door if I don't feel like hanging out. I don't feel the need to be joined at the hip, though some jealousy/possessiveness is apreciated by my Tau Venus! That's how he's acting with me now! I asked him to talk on messenger abt the concert and he said no, he was hanging with someone else (did imply non-female lol). He hasn't done this before, say no to me! haha Doesn't bother me lol but I'm just curious what it means lol.
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Originally posted by sand:
Lately tho iv been thinking of family, my hypothetical future one lol! So strange i guess that's Saturn return-ish for ya!
Hmmm... When I met him he was still mourning his lost love (the one he met during t-Pluto trine n-Venus) and was not ready for a family. He was also jobless at that time - he found several jobs afterwards and the one he has now seems more stable and permanent. He does seem like he has matured since I met him, he said he wants a family but later.. Maybe he has changed his mind. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted May 20, 2012 08:44 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Hera:
You mean you have Cupido conj Venus? And he has it too? And my Saturn opposes them?
I have it. He might. My cupido and Venus are at 6 Taurus. Does it? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted May 20, 2012 09:00 AM
I'm jealous too but hopefully with some perspective. LOL @the Facebook haha but were the worst we want to control but try doing it to him and we go bull in a china shop. But maybe he doesn't need as much attention as my moon does. Not at the hip we like to be joined!  Moon in gem, h8 tho I guess it's still obsessive being in that house. Does it oppose Uranus in sag? I dunno wha it means I'm no cbf= chicks before friends lol well maybe I am but if I'm hanging with someone already I won't ditch them. I said I was thinking about it as in it passed my mind lol! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 20, 2012 11:03 AM
Oh, right, you're Leo Moon! That's easy to fix lol, my boss is Cancer Sun, Leo Moon, Tau Asc and it's so simple with him - feed him and pay him compliments hahaha! Oh, but that temper!!! Do you get scary when you get mad? My boss is scary when mad, OMG! But he has Sag Mars, not MIS, more prone to outburst. quote:
Not at the hip we like to be joined!
Where, where? quote:
Moon in gem, h8 tho I guess it's still obsessive being in that house. Does it oppose Uranus in sag?
Nooooo, thank God! Dated a Moon-Uranus, no more pls! Moon is opp Neptune. That I can work with since I have the conjunction. He got disappointed a bit from what I can tell . Has a very close relationship with his Mom. Actually, re: the other thread with harsh aspects... he has a diff rel with his dad too, since he grew up without him. I didn't ask if he died or left him and his Mom because I assumed it was a sensitive subject, just said if he needs to talk about it I can listen. quote:
I dunno wha it means I'm no cbf= chicks before friends lol well maybe I am but if I'm hanging with someone already I won't ditch them.
He didn't ditch me lol, he still is the one who calls and all that. But he didn't say no to me before lol. I'm an Aries = kid of the zodiac, whaddo u want, I sometimes act like dat! quote:
I said I was thinking about it as in it passed my mind lol!
I understand lol. He's a bit of a commitment phobe too. I mean, I get that he wants commitment but perhaps is scared of the big thing - that was my impression. He said he wants to marry after the age of 33-34. I told him Jup is transiting his 7th and is a good period, but he hasn't even dated anyone - not sure if I count lol. OK, I have to go put on a pretty face and shower, I just woke up and have like 15 mins. Lucky I'm Aries - fast heehee. Have to pick him up too. Oh well. Bye Sandie!! 10x so much! XOXO IP: Logged |
sand
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From: 14.5833° N, 121.0000° E
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posted May 20, 2012 11:59 AM
Ah maybe the gem moon wanted communication so got MADD. Me? Lol I'm horrible when angry. Merc in Aries in h6 squares that moon.Ahahaha!! so funny!! Disappointed you mean early on? I guess we are the same. I didn't grow up with mine too but not absentee. It's a weird realization anyway of what u lack and kinda wanting that later on in life. (hence the thought passing my mind lol) no I mean his friend. He wouldn't ditch his friend. I bet he dreams abou it tho LOL with Venus trine Neptune. Ah but then the moon opposes.. I think I'm gonna catch the next Jupiter transit to my 7th then at 40. My peach blossoms come in that year I think! I gonna be a silver fox lol! Haha! Hmm.. Be careful tho Taurus guys can kinda clean ur bank account if u let them.. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 20, 2012 05:39 PM
Well I'm back... The play we saw was awesome, I totally loved it - it was his pick! That's one of the perks of going out with Bulls, you won't be disappointed! Ahhh... I missed that! I was very impressed. Afterwards he asked if I wanna go for drinks (good sign eh?) and I said yes but that I couldn't stay long. We talked for about an hour and a half. Mostly about our work, future plans, life, etc. Maybe it's his Gem Moon but he seems a bit immature sometimes. Other times he leaves me jawdropped with the things he says. *scratches head* He is something though lol.
I did sort of decide it is better to stay friends. I don't really see us together. Even our looks don't quite match lol. He'd be better suited with a petite girl and I am not one. I do love his company and apreciate a lot of things about him but can't for the life of me picture us together. Or maybe it hasn't "hit" me yet, I dunno. He is a great guy though and would hate to lose the friendship too if things go badly.
I guess we'll see how things develop. I'll write more tomorrow, right now I'm yawning like crazy lol. Btw, it is kinda funny, but I don't get the same immature feeling about you. Prolly Gem Moon then. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted May 20, 2012 09:55 PM
I don't exactly have a mature moon either lol! Like when a friend and I messed things up by dating we agreed not to see each other for a bit I took it literally and would hide behind posts if another friend had to get something from her. I not easy to hide of course. Eh maybe I just attention whoring agen but it was a long time ago anyway LOL! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 20, 2012 11:38 PM
LMAO! That's so sweet actually lol. Well my Sag Moon is not that mature either lol! But I don't know, the things he gets mad about lol, I would so let them pass me by you know? He said he has a nasty temper and gets mad easily. Well I guess I am thankful though that he doesn't have a Cancer Moon coz my Aries planets would've hurt his feelings easily. quote:
Disappointed you mean early on?
Yes, I guess. With the Venus-Neptune and Moon-Neptune, I suppose it is to be expected. His views seem to have matured a bit though since I've known him. But I imagine idealistic view of the partner would be hard to resist. quote:
I guess we are the same. I didn't grow up with mine too but not absentee. It's a weird realization anyway of what u lack and kinda wanting that later on in life. (hence the thought passing my mind lol)
I understand. I've got Chiron in the 4th and am sorta the same. Well his dad from what I understand was totally absent (Sat opp Sun I guess in both your cases) and he grew up with his mom and an aunt, I think. He tried to make a joke about being surrounded by women but could tell he really needed a father figure.  quote:
no I mean his friend. He wouldn't ditch his friend.
Oh, I see! Well thats totally cool and I understand and respect that ofc, but he used to make time for me lol, that was why I was confused. But if we stay friends I guess that's nothing but my ego wanting a lil stroke heehee. It's fine, I am pro lots of freedom - mine and others'. quote:
I think I'm gonna catch the next Jupiter transit to my 7th then at 40. My peach blossoms come in that year I think! I gonna be a silver fox lol! Haha!
Lol, you still have a little bit from this one! Ohhh I can't wait for my Jup transiting the 7th! I met the guy I had my longest rel during that transit. Having a wide 7H helps too lol! That transit lasts almost 2 years wooohooo! Silver fox eh? Really think you'll resist that long? quote:
Hmm.. Be careful tho Taurus guys can kinda clean ur bank account if u let them..
OMG lol, and I'd be such an easy pray with Pisces on 2H cusp  lol. I'm quite generous with my loved ones and don't care much about money when I'm spoiling them hehe. But the Tauruses I know have spoiled me too! Ahhh, the perks lol! And with him, we either pay alternatively or each his own. So it's cool. quote:
I have it. He might. My cupido and Venus are at 6 Taurus. Does it?
Yeah, my Saturn is 2 Scorpio... Exactly opp his Venus. I guess that's why I can't feel the love.. Quite a shame, he's a great guy. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
Knowflake Posts: 999
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posted May 21, 2012 07:56 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Whaaaat? lol I guess I'll call you 007 from now on LP. Any Mercury-Pluto aspects there in your chart? heheYup, wouldn't be surprised much if it was. Sandie's a sweetheart! 
 My mercury in Cancer in 10th house square Pluto in Libra in 1st house. 2 degree. Anyway, I remembered wrongly - It was not Eros-Psyche Conjunction but Venus-Mars Conjunction @ Virgo (1 orb) in Davidson Chart. There is also Valentine-Eros Exact conjunction at Leo'28 exact sextile Vesta @ Gemini'28 in Davidson Chart. Ooo... There is Venus conjunct Lust 3 orb n Vesta conjunct Chiron exact in Taurus in u two's Composite.
I dun understand... what is the difference between Davidson Chart and Composite Chart?
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sand
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posted May 21, 2012 08:28 AM
Y do threads always glitch when it's us 3 lol! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 21, 2012 08:59 AM
 Where did my posts go?? omg lol quote:
My mercury in Cancer in 10th house square Pluto in Libra in 1st house. 2 degree.
Hahaha, takes one to know one lol! I have the opposition - though wide. Sandie has it too, right? We could like have our own spy agency lol!  quote:
Anyway, I remembered wrongly - It was not Eros-Psyche Conjunction but Venus-Mars Conjunction @ Virgo (1 orb) in Davidson Chart. There is also Valentine-Eros Exact conjunction at Leo'28 exact sextile Vesta @ Gemini'28 in Davidson Chart. Ooo... There is Venus conjunct Lust 3 orb n Vesta conjunct Chiron exact in Taurus in u two's Composite.
So we not soulmates then? That sounds kinda hot though lol . Ohhh I don't have Sandie's place of birth to check myself. quote:
I dun understand... what is the difference between Davidson Chart and Composite Chart?
I've always read both kinda the same, they usually have a similar theme but different aspects (oppositions instead of conjunctions etc). In some cases they're quite different but I don't know. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted May 21, 2012 09:03 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Y do threads always glitch when it's us 3 lol!
I know!!  wtf?? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted May 21, 2012 09:07 AM
I posted my progressed chart but it went away.. My birth deets r on top..  IP: Logged |
Hera
Knowflake Posts: 1866
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posted May 21, 2012 09:16 AM
Ohhhh goody! I didn't see your progressed chart until now. So you already passed through Venus conj NN, from what I can tell. What happened? Did u meet someone special during that time? (I think about 3-4 years ago?) I thought this was the ultimate soulmate encounter predictor!Philipines?! Now that's ironic for ya. lol One of my attendings is coming to your country and invited me to go with her (and a bunch of other women). This is a bit freaky lol. I'm not coming tho - or don't think I am? lol j/k IP: Logged |
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