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Topic: Am I the only one...?
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alcheme
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: Phoenix, AZ
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 08:34 PM
 
Am I the only one not foaming at the bit looking for their soulmate? Venus is even transiting my 7th house and I am just enjoying my life and all the beautiful things in it. I am not really interested in find that perfect someone right now. But, it seems like everyone else in the world is...? Doesn't bother me, just seems odd to me and I was wondering if there we any other like me right now out there.------------------
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Gemini
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Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 442
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 08:50 PM
Yes  Finding a "soulmate" is not the be-all, end-all of my existence. Spending my waking hours searching for "The One," becoming a couple, and living Happily Ever After is *NOT* my mission on Earth. If an Earth-Mate comes along who's a suitable companion, that would be the icing on my cake  -- NOT the cake. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 195
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 09:16 PM
Hello and welcome to LL alcheme 
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Alia
Knowflake Posts: 322
From: az
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 09:18 PM
yay Alcheme welcome to LL!
im in phx too!IP: Logged |
Plutonian Persona
Knowflake Posts: 82
From: Denver, CO, USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 09:35 PM
I have been through numerous karmic relationships and this is one of those things that I just take the approach, "It will happen when it happens."I like your attitude of enjoying life and all the beautiful things in it! It's much more positive and less stressful than straining yourself over "the One."  IP: Logged |
downtomars
Knowflake Posts: 336
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 09:50 PM
I am with Plutonian - I believe in "soul-mating", which I think it is different from have A.Soul.Mate., but I am always spouting these sayings when it comes to finding love (which were annoying when I was younger but so relevant now!):If something it meant to happen it will happen...
Everything happens for a reason...
When you least expect it...
All in due time...
Be careful what you wish for... In other words, I don't dwell on it because it is supposed to come naturally! IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 291
From: Formerly Missneptune
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 13, 2009 10:55 PM
This sounds really pessimistic, but everyone thinks their relationship is supposedly "fated," there are billions of people in this world and there is a pretty good chance that 500,000 of them could be your soul mate! And I've noticed a lot in Astrology that there are some things that look fated but are really just coincidence... IP: Logged |
alcheme
Knowflake Posts: 6
From: Phoenix, AZ
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 05:04 AM
Interesting responses... I always like to hear varying ideas and perspectives. Perhaps there aren't so many people looking for soulmates, the ones that aren't just get missed in the on-slaught... LOL!Thanks for all the welcomes! I have been around for a while. I was here, then took a break and it seems I got accidentally deleted in the interim, so I am back fresh and new (which kind of fits anyway). IP: Logged |
Deliverance
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: The real world
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 06:55 AM
No you're not the only one.I'm not going to waste my time or energy looking for a romantic relationship (soul mate or otherwise). IMO it creates too much drama & unnecessary headache. IP: Logged |
MsCandeh
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: Australia
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 08:21 AM
I believe that whatever is meant to be, will be. If you are actively searching for The One.. Soul Mate.. whatever, nothing usually happens (or u just kiss a lot of frogs lol) But just being your normal self and enjoying life... is when these things happen - when you least expect it. At least from my experience anyway There's a lot to be said for letting go and just enjoying life, whether you have a soul mate or not! IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
Knowflake Posts: 964
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 14, 2009 12:10 PM
Blechhh, "Are you my soul mate?" "Are you?"
"how about you?" Too much pressure, I just have fun and like DTM said it, when you least expect it, that's when it comes.IP: Logged |
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