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Topic: stay away from these people.
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DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 04:48 PM
if you know anyone who is a venus in aquarius and mars in taurus with a libra moon conjunct libra risging then stay away from any of these combos. i have never been so disrepected to by anyone the way i have with this person. make me feel incredibly bad about myself always making me feel down. im tired and im sick of it i was actually considering hurting myself because of this person and im done i dont need this i am good hearted person. i am not taking this anymore.i am sorry i am generalizing you guys and im sorry to all of you mars and taurus and venus aqarians and libra moons and asc.not all of you are like this but my dear sweet lord in heaven i am just soo ****** off. i am clearly staying away from any venus mars conjunction opposition and square. no thank you if you have your problems deal with it dont take it out on me im soooooooo done with this s h i t. that is it i have released some much needed stress and im slowly going to get over this. what this person has done to me i will never again fall into this crap. thats it i am back to being untrutsful of anyone else ever again. i will never forgive this person for what he has done to me. IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 04:52 PM
Lmao!!!!(not at you, im very sorry to hear you are going through this pal, hang in there!) any of those combo's wanna speak up? .. lOl p.s. Dep, wanna elaborate on what happened? maybe we can learn from this astrologically. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 04:59 PM
first off i am so sorry for generalizing those types mentioned please my deepest apologizes.ok well i have been emotionally manipulated by who i thought was one of my good friends and he turned out to be a complete loser. everytime hes always in a bad mood. always calling me vulgar names. and its disgusting calling me stupid or loser making me feel incredibly low as if you could not have picked a better time to just kick me in the balsac. everyday is nothing but drama and guess what he has moon square uranus and neptune. talk about your real neurotic. just basically blames everything on me i got in s h i t because of him by my parents and his. he made me cry one day he said i was completly worthless and that if i wasnt his friend that no one else would be and that i should kill myself. and i got home and almsot did something completly out of hand when i am trying to stop doing it. it was hard to fight it but i did. i have never been so hurt by some one i really feel like i am a huge nothing. and it always seems to hold true. i am just so tired of all of him and his stupid words. IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:03 PM
Dep, this sounds like it runs deep.can i just get an understanding here, are both of you best guy friends? this emotionally seems quite deep for a pair of friends! or maybe im mistaken, i believe you are a guy? anyway, not that it matters, this guy sounds like he has issues. what im not sure i understand, is why you are allowing him this power to control you, and why you are letting what he says have such emotional impact on you? if he's just a B!tch, then you need to cut him off, if he's not a real friend, Don't chat to him anymore. cut out. do not hurt yourself, just move on from the bad, and try and meet new people? and don't let this experience destroy your trust completely in others. there are people with hearts, that are good minded, we are out here, we just all need to find one another! IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 385 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:04 PM
I am sorry for you. I have a venus/mars conj and I don't think I am difficult. My exhusband who I lived togheter with have his mars in taurus and venus in limit aquarius/pisces but it was not in square. He was wonderful in his way.I think you just meet wrong man.. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:08 PM
letram i am a guy.but its not a gay relationship hes been my friend for like since kidergarden. and we were like best best friends and he was never like this i mean he was alaways cheerful and nice. but all this stuff happened to him last year he has no friends anymore except me and some girl he knows katie. and hes just gotten really messed and i tryed helping but the guy has just gone overboard. i told him he could go straight to hell. and its true the interpreation of libra asc conjunct moon is right they will charm there way into your lifes and charm you into thinking and doing anything. he has mars at 27 degrees conjunct my sun and ist that near that algol star. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:12 PM
and i usually do not come on here with problems ahhhh but i just need a place to go to get this anger out because i am so madd right now. i just want to go over there and knock him.i just need a place to get this stress out and move on.IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:18 PM
Dep, its great you want to help and be there for a friend. thats what friends should do for one another if they are good friends.but you know what, if this guy is trouble, and he's not appreciating you and your help, cut him off. especially if this is how he is making you feel. you can't help the helpless, and you can only help people if they want to be helped. do you think its possible he might have a mental issue? how old is he? your age? 18/19? might have bipolar if he's got out of control aggression simultaneously with 'mood swings'. (you said he'd been through things recently, big stresses?)
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Cheshire Kat Knowflake Posts: 372 From: Wonderland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:19 PM
You will make wonderful and better new friends in London, I think I came across that thread in LLC not to long ago X_X.Anyways, good riddance to the sour grape. Astrology wise, maybe he can't handle his own energy..might need to work on that anger of his.. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:24 PM
oh letram i have the guy is done not even one chance to redeem himself he can go f himself up. he is 18 turning 19thanks for the support letram popcorn cheshire kat oh iw ish i was moving ther CK but unfotuanlty its just a two week visit next summer. i wish it was permanet IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:27 PM
dont worry letram just know hes just been threw some messed up stuff.plus its not my style to talk bout anothers problems i just focus on my own and move on. and i dont really want to talk about him and what he is going threw what about me. IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:28 PM
ah ok, well good on you for handling it correctly.just give it a bit of time, and move on / continue life as normal don't let fother muckers mess up our lives.. Let them mess up there own. [trust me, their days are numbered] IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:29 PM
aint that the truthwere you libralove before letram IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 646 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:31 PM
:[[[[Maybe it's not really the person's natal placements, but how they relate to your chart. What do you have going on synastrically? Every personal interaction is different and unique. My ex has Venus in Aqua/Mars in Taurus (Leo Moon, Cancer Rising) and he'd always make me feel worthless. His Saturn is exactly conjunct my Mars and his Venus is square my Pluto by 1 degree and his Mars is opposed it by 2. In our composite we have Moon square Saturn and Uranus. Lots of problems. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 05:38 PM
well he has libra moon conjunct asc squaring my uranus neptune and jupiter.his mars sits on my sun at 27 taurus my moon square his pluto and hes a capricorn sun how weriod which is also squaring my uranus and neptune. but he has a venus in aquarius i think he has the trine its at an early degree in aquarius thought which would trine his mars in taurus. he has jupiter in leo squaring my mercury in taurus. thats all i know for now. how did you deal with your ex amowls IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 09:16 PM
That moon square uranus and neptune seems to be the culprit. I had a friend with just the moon opposition neptune and she did not handle this energy well at all. She would be sweet as sugar one minute and a complete manipulative ***** the next minute. Your friend does not sound like a true friend at all. No real friend would call you worthless! Seriously, end this friendship now, cut your losses and move on. I know it's hard to end a friendship with someone who you've known since kindergarten, but you have to do it. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Moderator Posts: 806 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2009 09:54 PM
Dep, I'm sad to hear about your troubles with this person This is a toxic relationship. I'm glad you told him to get lost -- now I hope you can end it inside yourself, and not get all compassionate tomorrow and try to mend the friendship just because you've been friends for so long This person is taking out all his anger and frustration with *his* life on you. You trusted him, so your barriers were down and your boundaries blurred. In my opinion, he said some pretty sadistic things to you, and probably had an idea what would happen as a result of that. The term "toxic" can certainly be applied to your association with this person -- he is dangerous to your wellbeing. Toxic ~ 1 : containing or being poisonous material especially when capable of causing death or serious debilitation <toxic waste> <a toxic radioactive gas> <an insecticide highly toxic to birds> 2 : exhibiting symptoms of infection or toxicosis <the patient became toxic two days later> 3 : extremely harsh, malicious, or harmful <toxic sarcasm> Hang in there Dep -- you have friends here who care about what's going on with you -- coming here to vent was an excellent plan, but were I you, I maybe wouldn't blame astrological placements for someone's emotional immaturity IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 22 From: melbourne/victoria/australia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 12:28 AM
I got my venus in taurus & my moon in libra and im not like that at all, i hurt myself trying to make everyone else's lives better and happierIP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1080 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 02:38 AM
Oh, please don't avoid me, DepT, just because I was born with Venus/Mars Square. *pouting face*Tense aspects like this take some working with, this reflecting the emotional maturity we hopefully gain as we go through life. Just as Zala implies. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 943 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 05:44 AM
thank you for your kind words Astra it means alot especiallly at such a hard time now. And i am sorry to hear about you and your friends she shoudl not have doen that to you.thank you Zala for your kind words and yes he is very dangerous to my well being.And dont worry i wont blame astrological influences on people anymore and i am sorry to all who have those placements.i know when was wrong. diablo thats nice that you try to make everyones lifes happier. but of course you have venus in taurus most of thse people are great i get along with them. i nwo couple of people with that aspect. i apologize again to you. blue moon dont worry i wont avoid you. i actually find you intertaining and you a really nice person whos always been there. my apologizes to you too. IP: Logged |
Mannequin Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 07:14 AM
just change that ASC to Capricorn, and they're still ******** .IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 22 From: melbourne/victoria/australia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 07:24 AM
its all good We've all had bad experiences with different aspects and planet placements, for instance there's a recent post saying Please Dont Date Anyone With...Moon aspecting uranus...my moon trines uranus and is a significant aspect for me, rather than a negative one. If everything in astrology was written in stone, then id be the most horrible person according to your experiences.I honestly believe its many factors that interconnect with aspect and planet placements as well as events and people that bring certain qualities out. It not good or bad, i dont really believe in dualism, its just as it should be and everything that is happening is right for your journey and learning experience. Be well xoxoxo IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1080 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 07:52 AM
DepT, don't worry my friend, you are quite right that the Venus/Mars energy is not the easiest to contain. It takes effort, and I hope this person takes something away from this situation to learn from, I hope you have let him know what he has done. IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 302 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 08:31 AM
I was born with a Venus/Mars square (Scorpio/Leo). Blue Moon is right, everything I have read about that aspect says that it takes a lot of growing into. Rough aspects like that, especially with those 2 planets, will wreak havoc on one's emotional maturity and those who are close to the individual (interpersonal relationships). That has definitely been the case in my life and I'm still learning to work with mine.In no way am I making excuses for your friend's cruelty. I wouldn't expect you to continue to participate in a friendship that is obviously hurting you so much, just saying that your friend is probably struggling with a lot of inner demons. (((DepTaurus))) IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 646 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2009 09:13 AM
It took me forever but I was able to somewhat cut him out of my life. He still calls and he still tries to see me (he even hangs out with my parents??). He tells me that he still loves me and misses me and he's only with the girl he's with to make me JEALOUS... absurd. Mind you, he was the one that broke up with me. He claims he's changed blah blah blah but it's clear he hasn't whatsoever.But yeah, it is emotional immaturity. There's nothing you really can do with these people except avoid them at all costs. Let them work on their issues themselves, it's not your job to fix them. IP: Logged |