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Topic: Abrasive energy in synastry
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scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 274
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2009 04:49 PM
 
I met this person recently and he really liked me, but everything he said and did got on my nerves severly. It was a one sided attraction, I just couldn't stand him and he really did nothing wronge. The energy between us felt very abrasive to me.
My mars was conjunct his saturn and square his mars pluto conj. Yuck Yuck Yuck! Anyone else have this experience with mars conj saturn, mars square mars, or mars square pluto?IP: Logged |
Diana
Knowflake Posts: 882
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2009 05:01 PM
mars/saturn is known for being very destructive in synastry. IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 653
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2009 07:05 PM
I had my Mars conjunct his Saturn and his Mars opposite my Pluto with my ex. We also had DW Sun square Mars (but also DW Sun conjunct Venus and Sun conj Venus exactly in the Composite to make things not totally terrible). He treated me like crap.IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo
Knowflake Posts: 21
From:
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 06, 2009 10:27 PM
So the leo i was really into and babbling about for awhile, we has some really intense synastry. Too intense, I think. It had no chance of working out, but we had great sex. His Saturn sat along a major focal point of my chart. I have the Sun and Mars conjunct in the 5th house, opposed Jupiter. His Saturn was conjunct my Jupiter and opposed my Sun & Mars. His Mars was also square my Venus/Neptune conjunction, his Pluto was conjunct my ASC and his Uranus was square my Jupiter/Sun/Mars configuration. So we had this amazing attraction and chemistry, but we couldn't communicate and co-ordinate to save our lives and it would always erupt in annoyance and irritation from the both of us. But then there was this extraordinary chemistry and attraction, and the great sex which made things compulsive and confused things. I felt extremely frustrated with him, and I finally wrote it all off, stopped responsing to is text messages and it appears he's stopped sending them. Oh, I forgot... his Moon is also sextile/trine my Sun/Mars/Jupiter... so we'd have a great time when we actually did get together, but our wires would just get crossed so badly through the week and any attempt to get together seemed seriously jinxed. Then I would accuse him of not being into me and passive aggressively avoiding me and then, he yelled at me for accusing him of being a fake and a liar and player... oh my god, it was ugly. I am still rather fond of him, because he has some extraordinary qualities, he's so intelligent and articulate, but I don't think it's a good idea to stay in touch because the whole thing is so dysfunctional, yet I'm sooooo intensely attracted to him that I could never just be his friend. To answer your question specifically, I think the position of his Saturn opposed my Mars incited my fury and made me seem pushy and demanding of him (also his Uranus square my Mars/Sun)... also, his Saturn opposed my Sun made me feel a coldness from him, like he really wasn't that into me, no matter what he did or said. I've experienced that aspect before with me as the Sun and i felt much the same way, like I was way more into him than he was into me, and in the end, when it was too late anyway, i discovered that wasn't true. But you get this unshakable feeling that it is the case. IP: Logged |
neptuneinfirst
Knowflake Posts: 39
From:
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 07, 2009 10:50 AM
Oh my goodness, Venus, I re-read your story twice. I was in the exact same place almost. My Saturn on his Mars and my Sun Opposed his Saturn. It was very uncomfortable at first, I didn't like the way he came across, somewhat overly confident etc. Add to this My Venus Square his Mars. The coldness (and meanness) from him was just downright horrible at times, very hurtful and mean. This relationship has impacted me more than anything in my life. But like you say, there's something so karmic about it too, despite how he was towards me and to this day, my feelings still run way too deep. Like you, I've had to cut contact as I couldn't just be friends. It hurts - I can only say I completely empathize with you. I cannot even understand the attraction to this day. It's carnal. Do you dream about him frequently too? The heavy Saturn links must be karmic.
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mir
Knowflake Posts: 105
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 08, 2009 05:57 AM
My sister's Mars is almost exact conj. her b-f's Saturn and square his Pluto.They're together for 8 years now, very intense - they both have a Venus/Pluto opp. in their natal and the same DW in synastry - but not an easy relationship.
They're not living together. I think, if they do, it'll be the beginning of their downfall... I've only experienced an exact Mars/Mars square and it was the best kiss ever - have to admit; Mars/Moon conj. was involved.
I think Mars/Mars on itself gives an immediate attraction. I shared this with the last four guys I met; 1) Square, 2) conj., 3) sextile, 4) Quincunx.
All within 1 degree.
EDIT; I'm a liar, I DID experience a Mars/Saturn conj. (his Saturn,my Mars) in my first and longest relationship.
No strong Pluto-aspects.
It was tooo much!! It reminds me in someway of my Sis and b-f, brrrr.
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