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swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 09:53 AM ..That he had Hepatitis B I may be lucky because I had a blood test done and nothing showed but I also started the vaccination process which reaches its full effect in 3-6 months, and I could still have it, I will only know for sure after 6 months.. I don't know why he didn't want to use condoms or tell me to get vaccinated. We were in a relationship which wasn't very serious and it was based on sex but he is a kind and educated person and he was good to me so I don't know WHY he did this !?! It's my mistake as well but he KNEW he could harm me. And I don't know whether to break up with him or suggest that we use condoms until I'm immune. Do you think he won't be able to confront, as he is a Cancer IP: Logged
belgz Knowflake Posts: 967 From: Sydney, Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 10:54 AM What are you thinking! Omg there is nothing and i mean absolutely NOTHING MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR HEALTH! How can you even consider talking to him again. That is pure evil. How do you know he doesnt have HIV TOO? Wake up now!! ------------------ "If a theory is evidently or probably untrue, or pernicious, or at all harmful, it is to be rejected and condemned" IP: Logged
belgz Knowflake Posts: 967 From: Sydney, Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 10:59 AM This thread has traumatised me. He only cares about enjoying sex with u without a condom, he doesnt care about you. If he did noone would do that. Would you do that to someone you care about? IP: Logged
DiandraReborn25 Knowflake Posts: 1319 From: Portugal Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 11:01 AM it seems that he was really selfish. you let him have power over you and your health by not wearing condom. if it was just sex...one more reason to be carefull...when we´re not in a committed relationship,with someone who cares and loves us,we never know if the other is sick or has some problem.... you should never give that kind of power over the other person,,it is your health the most important thing.and it is your right to defend yourself. im glad that you arent sick .... IP: Logged
DiandraReborn25 Knowflake Posts: 1319 From: Portugal Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 11:03 AM i agree Belgz but these type of behaviour is more common than you think of...unfortunately.! Swirl if i were you i would slap him.he is not educated or nice...if he was he would have been responsible and used a condom and told you his problem...that was a very selfish behaviour of him. IP: Logged
belgz Knowflake Posts: 967 From: Sydney, Australia Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 11:07 AM what a liar! Exact opposition of neptune and mercury! A sadistic capricorn moon, how typical. IP: Logged
mir Knowflake Posts: 162 From: Registered: May 2009	posted March 07, 2010 11:08 AM Exactly what Belgz said! As prevention is better than cure.. Kind and/or educated and/or the most pretty face in the world; MY RULE ---> I don't **** with anyone before they've checked themselves for STD's! (doctors evidence included) Even with a condom I feel VERY unsafe. I admit; a few times I got a STD and at first it was hell on earth because of the pain I went through - got a oviduct inflammation which made me possible/y infertile. So, experience speaks! I wouldn't trust ANY man with a lack of willingness to test himself for STD's! IP: Logged
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 211 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 11:13 AM S-K: In my neck of the woods, some people sue over this kind of person-to-person negligence. And you'd win, too, if you could prove that the HepB was transmitted to you knowingly. Because, heaven forbid, you could be one in the % of people who develop chronic hepB and go on to having cirrhosis. My dear, I am in agreement with the other posters so far. I'm not suggesting you sue (although I would), I'm suggesting you cut off that relationship right away, because this "kind" man has committed a battery and an assault upon your person, if what you're saying is true (that he knew he had it and continued to have relations with you). I am sending you healthy vibes. Praying you're OK. IP: Logged
DD Knowflake Posts: 3487 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 12:05 PM I absolutely agree with what Belgz wrote. He endangered your health! You are not really considering staying together with him, are you? IP: Logged
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3407 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 12:10 PM Jeez... well for one, why did you have unprotected sex when you weren't 'serious'. YIKES on the rest of it. ! IP: Logged
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 12:30 PM Makes sense for him not to care about you when you showed you don't even care about yourself. Why would you go back with him. Love yourself first. IP: Logged
Duality2 Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Registered: Jul 2009	posted March 07, 2010 12:36 PM He's a selfish pig, swirl-kitt. Move on. If he lied about something like that, you can't trust him. THE END. Just looked at the chart. Mercury-Nep opp (exact). Nep in the 8th. Pretty descriptive. Guy is a liar. He will lie about sex, cheating, money and God knows what else. Forget the whole thing and FAST. IP: Logged
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 161 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 12:47 PM Thanks guys .. I know I guess I was trying to empathize with him or defend him in my brain because I was trying to protect my ego- 'I can't be this stupid'.. etc I accept that I've been extremely foolish. I hope I don't get sick. This has been a huge lesson for me. In fact, I always use condoms, but he kept telling me he only had 2 long term relationships and ,well I thought I could trust him How incredibly silly of me.. He really has issues. I won't see him again. IP: Logged
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 389 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 01:02 PM I'm in agreement. Ditch him because if he lied about this for 4 months than I'm sure he would lie about just anything else. Cut him off completely. Get tested asap.... and If im not mistaken you can get a HepB and C from just kissing someone, or using their toothbrush....who knows how many people he's infected. That is EXTREME negligence and he can be arrested for that. I would press charges. IP: Logged
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 549 From: US Registered: Dec 2009	posted March 07, 2010 02:27 PM Oh My God I am so sorry! I can empathize for doing dumb things cuz you trusted someone and wanted to believe the best. Ami IP: Logged
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2683 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 02:36 PM Kick his ass to the curb! Lying to you about a disease like that. Having sexual intercourse with you unprotected,knowing that he has it. well...I'd say that is a perfect reason to break up with him and never speak to him again. cut the cord in every way possible Raymond ------------------ "Nothing matters absolutely; the truth is it only matters relatively" - Eckhart Tolle IP: Logged
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009	posted March 07, 2010 02:37 PM Neptune in the 8th...deceptive about sexual health..it is the house of sex, death & regeneration..but finding the natal placement for that isn't important. What is important is YOUR health and YOUR life..not him so how about we forget about him and eff him off, along with every other scumbag. Honey you gotta learn to love yourself so so much that the thought of lowering your standards for ANYONE is just INCONCEIVABLE cos at the end of the day, men are after sex and just that and will fake a connection or a relationship to get it. Unfortunately it seems like the majority fall in this category, i used to wear my heart on my sleeve and my main problem was (and still is, in some ways) that I would always see the person's MAXIMUM POTENTIAL and not for what they really are. Sweet, smooth talkers are the most dangerous cos you just want to believe that they're good people with nothing but good, honest intentions for you with your best interests in heart. Skepticism and maybe a little bit of cynicism go far in cases like these. Wishing positive healing energy your way so that those tests keep coming back clear..never gamble on something as precious as your health..your body IS a temple and in that situation its like letting someone trash your temple and desecrate it. Mwa x IP: Logged
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009	posted March 07, 2010 02:43 PM By the way, its illegal to have unprotected sex without telling your partner first of any STD's or STI's that you have. Majorly punishable with a simple criminal charge, i mean, its endangering life and spreading diseases in society that could wipe us out if we dont take steps to track and contain it. Also, if he lied to you..think about how many other ppl he's infected? I hope you and every person he's slept is safe, seriously i do. If the legal courts view it as this, then so should we..a punishable crime. If not for ourselves as individuals, then as an act of human concern for all the other ppl that could get infected. IP: Logged
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 549 From: US Registered: Dec 2009	posted March 07, 2010 02:43 PM I just looked up Moon Square Pluto. Wouldn't this go with a guy who would do something like this? It is in a cardinal sign. Doesn' that make it stronger? Ami IP: Logged
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2683 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 02:49 PM On a hunch, I checked to see if he has any strong,challenging Hygeia aspects. Hygiea is one of the largest asteroids in the main belt, and it's named after the Greek Goddess of Health. The word,hygiene stems from that name. His Hygeia is in 19'05 Leo square his Ascendant/Descendant in 19'33 Taurus/Scorpio That can indicate health problems can affect him and his relationships I also checked the geocentric Hygeia Nodes his North Geocentric Hygeia Node is in 13'08 Capricorn oppose/sextile his Stationary Lunar Nodes in 13'20 Cancer/Capricorn - strong - health contacts,associations his South Geocentric Hygeia Node is in 13'50 Cancer conjunct his Sun in 14'32 Cancer conjunct/oppose his Stationary Lunar Nodes in 13'20 Cancer - overall a strong emphasis on health matters, strong health connections,associations do you have any planets,points aspecting his Hygeia within 1 degree? do you have any planets,point aspect his Hygeia Nodes within 1/2 degree? Raymond ------------------ "Nothing matters absolutely; the truth is it only matters relatively" - Eckhart Tolle IP: Logged
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 03:08 PM Ami, the Fixed signs make aspects stronger. What gave you the idea it was cardinals? IP: Logged
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 549 From: US Registered: Dec 2009	posted March 07, 2010 03:10 PM Dear Lonake No one--me LOL. Thanks Ami IP: Logged
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 861 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 03:19 PM The Moon sq Pluto means he's got deep currents operating below the surface. Deeper than you'd want to experience, that's for sure. I agree with the others here regarding the Mercury opposed Neptune in a very tight orb, Neptune being in H8. Speaks for itself unfortunately. Venus chart ruler H1 square Mars conj Saturn in H6, of health, so his relationships will be hindered by his low self esteem and possibly various health issues which relate back to his identity. This shows he lied for a reason but he needs to get clear with himself otherwise he's gonna keep making traps both for him and others (swirl-kitt). IP: Logged
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 430 From: Registered: May 2009	posted March 07, 2010 05:14 PM Who cares about the aspects: anyone who would lie about that deserves to get their ass kicked to the curb. He didn't even have the decency to use condoms? Wow. IP: Logged
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1320 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 07, 2010 05:32 PM The T-Square with the tight Mars/Saturn, Pluto, Sun/Nodes and Moon ~~~ something of lack of self-preservation as an undercurrent. IP: Logged

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