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Topic: A realization on intense and Plutonian relationships + synastry
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plutonianmenace Knowflake Posts: 747 From: Iowa Registered: Feb 2021
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posted April 21, 2022 01:50 AM
So one of the most intense relationships in my life involved having a lot of Pluto aspects at a very close angle and I have had quite a few synastry situations where the woman I got with had her Pluto either touch a lot of my chart, mines hers, and the reverse. I just realized something given a Plutonian relationship I was in for a while that just ended. When you are in it, you don't ever want it to end. It's like you cannot imagine living without the person no matter how miserable it is. It's painful, depressing, makes you a worse version of yourself, and everything but you cannot imagine life without that person for some reason. It's like a horrible horrible drug addiction. Then it ends through circumstances and after a couple of months, once you start to actually move on because you have to, it's like you go back and think what the heck were you doing associating with that person? You think how did you remain in them for as long as you did? You wonder just what it was that kept you trapped and after fate saved you and you moved on the way you have, wonder what kept stopped you from doing it sooner. Yet it is so binding that in the moment you are so overwhelmed by it at all that you remain trapped, it takes forever to break free and you had an external force to do it. It's like in the moment, you just cannot stop until some external force separates you two. IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 21, 2022 01:59 AM
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 24502 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2022 02:02 AM
Yeah, I know that feeling. I don’t like it. Someone on social media, pointed out that love isn’t that feeling of butterflies, it’s a feeling of safety with the other person. She’s a Capricorn married to a Gemini. IP: Logged |
Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 1761 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted April 21, 2022 03:13 AM
If you feel trapped, try to look better... You are only standing on the surface of Pluto. Dive. To the deep. Where the abyss of darkness is blinding your eyes. There, where Death will look at you straight in your eyes and you will have to let go. Of you...IP: Logged |
Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 1761 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted April 21, 2022 03:19 AM
And suddenly there is no trap. Nothing can trap you. No one. You are free. Free to fly high up in the eternal blue sky...IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 7107 From: 𝓗𝓪𝓹𝓹𝓲𝓵𝔂 𝓔𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓪𝓯𝓽𝓮𝓻 Registered: Nov 2016
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posted April 21, 2022 03:24 AM
You really summarized in a part what my twin feels. I'm trying to identify certain parts as to if they are more him, more me or a transit effect. He does admit his obsession and in fact says I have it too with him. It is intense. His 5th Pluto(Libra) is more personal for him there, my Virgo Pluto in my9th. IP: Logged |
Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 1761 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted April 21, 2022 03:28 AM
What do you have in your 12th House? This is your portal to take you high up in the sky. To the blissful Light...IP: Logged |
Eternal Energy Knowflake Posts: 1761 From: Registered: May 2020
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posted April 21, 2022 03:33 AM
A transit effect?... Nothing is transient for Pluto. His mark stays with you forever.IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 21, 2022 04:04 AM
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plutonianmenace Knowflake Posts: 747 From: Iowa Registered: Feb 2021
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posted April 21, 2022 01:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by married11years: OP, did you do a Composite chart with you and your partner? A Composite chart tell what in the long run.
Really? How so? IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 21, 2022 03:47 PM
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