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Topic: Finally got time of birth on Libra!!!
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glamgem25
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posted July 18, 2010 08:27 PM
 
I posted our charts together a while back on a thread but didn't have time of birth. I put midnight but actual time is 11:51pm so it may not make a huge difference. We talk everyday and seems to be good. I would appreciate any comments on the synastry or just him alone. Thanks!!
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glamgem25
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posted July 19, 2010 12:24 AM
If I need to post additional charts, please let me know! thanks!! IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
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posted July 19, 2010 07:43 AM
9 minutes is a huge deal, especially in synastry! That's about 3-4 degrees change for the angles, and will be critical where orbs have to be kept tight, but depending on how close ones ASC is to the beginning or end of a sign it could even modify the whole chart. My ASC is at 0 Pisces, it used to be at 3 Pisces before I got the correct birth time of 7 minutes earlier, so a mere 7 minutes almost changed my ASC entirely. Can you link to a synastry chart? As far as him, I have experience with both Cancer rising men and Capricorn Moon guys. I have a fondness for the Cancer rising in a male, it adds an intuitiveness and sensitivity that made me really feel like he "got" me. Men aren't really raised to be in touch with their feelings though, so they overcompensate sometimes by acting hypermasculine and trying to hide their feelings. That would be even more emphasized in a Capricorn Moon, I would think, since they don't have to pretend to hide their feelings, it's their nature to do so. The one Capricorn Moon guy I dated was teased by his friends for being a robot, but it's not that he didn't feel, he felt deeply; it was just extremely hard for him to show it. I used to think of him as a dormant volcano...the emotions were there, just very deep below the surface and quite a sight if aroused suddenly. He could probably charm/flirt the white off a skunk with that Libra stellium. IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 19, 2010 09:06 AM
Your descriptions sound a lot like him...very hard to get any feelings to come out. Never thought of them as volcanos lolHere is the synastry chart:  IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 19, 2010 06:19 PM
Please...I need more feedback!! :/IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 20, 2010 02:33 PM
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iQ
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posted July 21, 2010 01:48 AM
The Ascendant now conjuncts Fixed Star Sirius exactly, this indicates a sophisticated hi tech "trekkie" type intelligence in your man.The composite has a packed first house which is good but Saturn in 2nd hits cash flow quite a bit, and will drive you both to work harder or smarter as a couple. Savings could be big on the team agenda. IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 21, 2010 09:17 AM
What does "trekkie" mean? Lol sorry I read it several times...not understanding!!  IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
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posted July 21, 2010 10:27 AM
Glamgem25,"Trekkie" is a reference to Star Trek, a space adventurer/explorer/researcher. If you meant something else, iQ, feel free to correct and clarify. IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 21, 2010 10:43 AM
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glamgem25
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posted July 21, 2010 11:03 PM
He makes me smile a lot!!  There's such a toughness there and then I get a peek of sensitivity and then it goes back to being tough but thats ok. He does call or text every single day so I'm happy! IP: Logged |
seeleah
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posted July 22, 2010 12:28 AM
wow...a jupiter/saturn conjuncting your venus and it appears in tight orb...now how does that work???? big expansive love and restricted love? wow..
hopefully the saturn conjunct venus will translate more to duty to your love instead it sounds like you might need to help him open up with some time and consistancy..my ex of 12 years was a cap moon/venus and rising...and consistancy and time will help them open up IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 02:32 AM
Dear GlamGem
I just looked up Venus conjunct Saturn. It says the Venus person could give much affection and the Saturn person(you) might not be able to handle it.
That sounds backwards--doesn't it?
He has Mercury combust the Sun, I think.
My mother has Sun combust Mercury in Aqua.
The Sun is so close to Mercury that the person does not have objectivity.
Their thoughts are SO close to their identity/ sense of self/ego/Sun that they are very hard to be around.
It is the opposite of a detached person. Everything sets their emotions off cuz their Mercury(thinking) cannot pull back and get some reason.
This is how I picture it. You have Gemini in your chart, GlamGem. Gemini allows you to pull back from a situation/emotions and observe. You can say,"WHAT is going on here?"
You don't have to jump in with both feet.
I see Sun combust Mercury as the opposite of this. They jump first and ask questions later.
I could not take this one aspect in a relationship--personally.
Your Pluto is near this. His Pluto is ,too.
This would add to the intensity of it in a strong way, I would think.
What are the exact degrees of the Mercury/Sun aspect in his chart?
Also, what are the exact degrees of the Pluto's?
Maybe, I am not seeing it right.Anyone--feel free to correct me.
I will be back tomorrow , Glam Gem,and look some more.
x o x Ami
PS --Is that small chart up there his natal?Does it have the correct ASC on it?Got confused with all the charts  ------------------
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Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 02:58 AM
Dear Glam Gem,
You have Saturn and Jupiter in the first house. I have never seen that.
How would you say it works to have both of them there--if you can say?
It seems like they would be two opposite energies.
His Venus conjuncts this. I am not sure how that would work cuz his Venus conjuncts both Saturn and Jupiter.
I will look up some more things ,tomorrow, on this .
Ami
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iQ
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posted July 22, 2010 04:43 AM
I meant Star Trek fan only IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 08:24 AM
Glam
I am gonna assume that small chart is his natal with the correct ASC.
I will be back later.
 Ami
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Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 08:48 AM
Dear Glam
If that little chart is his natal, his Merc combust Sun is exact.
Do you notice that he is very quick to react to things, comments, slights, hurts?
Does it feel like his reactivity is almost painful for him like a burn on skin?
He has it in Libra. My mother has the combust in Aqua but hers is 5 degrees and his is exact so his could be stronger.
Libra may help it cuz Libra thinks before it acts so perhaps it is the best sign in which to have a combust lol
He has 4 planets in the 4th house including Pluto. Did he have a hard childhood including skeletons in the closet?
Saturn in the 2nd house may make material area of life hard for him.
Is that the case? Does he struggle trying to acquire the necessary possessions for life. This could include self esteem which I read was a 2nd house issue?
Chiron in the 10th may make career or public image an issue.
Is that the case?
IF he is a Cancer ASC, I see why he is so irrestible. I sense that he is a tough, hard shelled type with a tender vulnerability peeking out.
I love the Cancer ASC.
The Cancer ASC gives a warmth, a tenderness, a sweetness, and a sense of comfort .
Cancer, to me, is the warm fuzzy sign.
It just feels like home and all the warm and tender things associated with home.
I see a Cancer ASC guy watching Bambi with you and you both crying 
Ami
PS His Saturn is in your 12th house. It says that he could help you look at and unearth deep ,unconscious patterns. This would be hard but very beneficial.
It is interesting that it is a good placement of Saturn according to one description.
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Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 09:11 AM
I will be back later after I look up some things on the composite lol.
Ami
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glamgem25
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posted July 22, 2010 10:42 AM
Ami- Yes all the charts are correct, finally was able to get all the correct info. Let me reread all your comments to understand what you are asking.... IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 22, 2010 10:49 AM
[Do you notice that he is very quick to react to things, comments, slights, hurts?] Yes, he is quick to react but isn't irrational ever. He does seem to think about things before he speaks. [He has 4 planets in the 4th house including Pluto. Did he have a hard childhood including skeletons in the closet?] I know he was pretty bad when he was young, got into a lot of trouble. He doesn't comment on it much but he reminds me of an old soul stuck in a young body now. He's an old man...going to bed early, etc lol
[Saturn in the 2nd house may make material area of life hard for him.
Is that the case?] I know he starts to feel insecure talking about possessions and such cause I come from a wealthy family and he doesn't but I always make sure to tell him that material things don't do anything for me compared to real relationships/feelings. [Does he struggle trying to acquire the necessary possessions for life. This could include self esteem which I read was a 2nd house issue?] Could be the case... [Chiron in the 10th may make career or public image an issue.
Is that the case?] what do you mean by this?? Not wanting to be in public, a negative thing???
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Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 10:57 AM
Glam,
I mean has he had a hard time in his career,not able to find the right one, feels unstimulated by his career, underachiever etc
Also, has he had issues with not feeling able to fit in to "society" the way he wants?
Ami
PS He may not have shown his Sun/Mercury combust yet cuz you don't know him that well ------------------
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glamgem25
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posted July 22, 2010 11:00 AM
Seeleah: [wow...a jupiter/saturn conjuncting your venus and it appears in tight orb...now how does that work???? big expansive love and restricted love? wow..]
Not really sure how it works so far lol it's too new to put say just yet but is the WOW a bad or good thing?? I'm confused lolAmi: [I just looked up Venus conjunct Saturn. It says the Venus person could give much affection and the Saturn person(you) might not be able to handle it.
That sounds backwards--doesn't it?] Umm it sounds a little backwards right now but I'm soo not used to "much affection" from previous relationships so I could see how later when he's fallen and giving a lot of affection how I could be uncomfortable with it. [You have Gemini in your chart, GlamGem. Gemini allows you to pull back from a situation/emotions and observe. You can say,"WHAT is going on here?"
You don't have to jump in with both feet.]
I normally jump in with both feet anyway. I'm totally led by my emotions/heart instead of my head. I don't like logic when it comes to love...I go on feelings. Can be a very bad thing sometimes!! lol IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 22, 2010 11:02 AM
Ami- you could be correct on the career thing. I know he has mentioned he isn't doing what he wanted to because of bad knees! The society thing could be correct too...he just works and goes home. Thought it was the cancer ASC that makes him such a homebody! IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 22, 2010 11:04 AM
So....is our synastry not good for each other???IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted July 22, 2010 11:05 AM
Dear Glam
Put your natal chart up, please. I am interested in how close YOUR Pluto is to his combust lol.
Also, I would like to check other degrees more closely.
Ami
PS Maybe your Venus in Cancer makes you go by feelings in relationships.
Mine is in Gemini so i can pull back and get a clear head--that is if I wrestle my Cancer moon to the ground lol
PPS Glam
*I* am new--as you know-but if it were I and I saw this synastry--*I* would not get involved.
Other people may feel differently.
Glam, do you have a pattern of trying to get uemotionally shut down guys to "change" in to emotionally available ones?
In a word--that is the synastry *I* see but I could be wrong! ------------------
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