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posted December 13, 2010 04:01 PM            

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Is there anything to be said about my relationship with my parents or maybe even siblings in my natal chart?? Like how I relate to them or how they perceive me or anything? My parents don't really know their true birthdays, &definitely not birth times so this is all I really have to work with! thanks!

my chart: http://i56.tinypic.com/e8mnol.gif

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posted December 13, 2010 04:08 PM            

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It actually shows ... like, no relationship with them.

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posted December 13, 2010 05:03 PM            

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I actually see that your father is a central focus in your life (is he a libra?), even though he may of been absent when you were growing up, you love him a great deal. Your mom seems isolated, perhaps erratic in her dealings with you. Fiery siblings?

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posted December 13, 2010 05:33 PM            

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I have to agree with rasp. If we go by the two sigs for parents they are unaspected.

The mom may have acted more like a friend. Both may have been too caught up in career or illness to be totally 'there' as parents.

Were you adopted?

The ruler for siblings is also unaspected so something intense is going on with family.

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posted December 13, 2010 06:25 PM            

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wait...are you saying I(in my natal chart) have no relationship with them or it can't be seen in natal charts??

my dad was away a lot for work in my early life!! my mom...yea, erratic she either hates/spoils me with love. my sibling were more like parents growing bc my mom worked a lot too! so i look more to them as role models? but I do adore my dad!

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posted December 13, 2010 06:28 PM            

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my dad's a leo!! i think lol my parents say they don't really know their bdays but just picked one for documents when they came to america?? but maybe just my mom...i'm not really sure what the deal is lol

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posted December 13, 2010 06:35 PM            

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My Sun shows my relationship with my Father.It was good,overall.
I have trines to Neptune and sextiles to Pluto.
I have an 8th house sun but not hard aspects to it.

I have an almost unaspected moon(8 degree conjunction with Mars)
My mother was VERY jealous of me from sibling jealousy with a sister.
She confused me for her sister and would even call me her sister'r name

So the moon/mars conjunction shows "warlike "behavior from her lol

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posted December 14, 2010 12:58 AM            

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It shows that you had a very arm's length relationship. Your chart does. A lot of times people with the parental figures aspected like yours are either completely absent or are so in a psychological way. For you, it was due to work and that showed up in the chart.

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posted December 14, 2010 12:22 PM            

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So, are you saying that an unaspected Sun and /or moon was an absent parent ,in some way??

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posted December 14, 2010 12:42 PM            

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No aspects, no relationship.

I have Sun in Cancer trine Pluto in Scorpio
Sun opposition Moon/Neptune in Capricorn

My dad was nice, a little intense, but nice and a good person. My mother had her nice moments, but overall I remember her in a bad light. She is still alive, I just don't talk to her that often. I talk to my dad all the time though.

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posted December 14, 2010 12:45 PM            

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That is fascinating,Raspberri.
My Sun aspects are excellent ,too, as I said
My father was a positive influence in my life.

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posted December 14, 2010 01:35 PM            

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That's why I said that Melon has a loving relationship with her father, Sun is conjunct Venus, even if it's 6 degrees orb.

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posted December 23, 2010 05:03 AM            

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My chart looks very similar to yours. My dad was abusive and my mom was absent a lot. I mean she was there, but she wasn't there. She finally decided to leave my dad when I was 19. Two years after she found out what happened to me. I had to go through hell during that time. So looking at your chart I'd say that your relationship with your parents isn't that strong.

And when I say similar to mine. I mean the connection of Jupiter in Cancer to Uranus, Neptune, Ect. in Capricorn.

My dad was a Libra though.

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posted December 23, 2010 09:57 AM            

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Sun&moon aspect also can show the relationship between ur parents around the time when u were concieved. If u have it,try,it is really accurate!
Classical aspect that shows bad(awkard,stressful) relationship with dad is venus square mars. It never fails.

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posted December 23, 2010 11:55 AM            

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