posted December 23, 2010 03:48 AM            

First of all, thank you for all the knowledge I've found on this Forum. I'm really into astrology, it started 6 yrs ago and I'm thrilled that I've found such a great community!

I hope you can give me some advice on my
so called love life, which is non exist for 5 yrs I always have someone I'm in love with but it never works out.

English is not my first language, I may make mistakes while I'm writing but I understand everything you say.

Here's my chart
(it's not an easy one):
http://img87.imageshack.us/i/birthchart.gif/

posted December 23, 2010 05:15 AM            

ARIES,
Adventurous and energetic
Pioneering and courageous
Enthusiastic and confident
Dynamic and quick-witted

posted December 23, 2010 12:37 PM            

First, what exactly is your problem concerning relationships? You say you're always in love with someone but it never works out, why so?

Looking at your chart, what stands out to me is the Sun/Moon square, denoting some internal conflict which may prevent you from making the right decisions. Also, your Venus is opposed by Saturn, and semi-square your Sun, which makes me think of a basic lack of self-love/acceptance. You may feel unworthy of love, and lack confidence in that area. Also, Neptune opposes your Sun (and widely Mars) and squares your Moon, so I'd think there are some desillusions going on because of idealization and a tendency to daydream instead of actually taking action.
Your Sag ascendant conjunct Uranus certainly makes you appear outgoing, outspoken and original, but inside you are all about emotions and feelings (Cancer Sun, Mercury, Mars), and you feel you need a mate to share your life with (Sun, Mercury in the 7th, Libra Moon, Venus in Taurus).
Does that sound accurate at all? I might be mistaken lol

posted December 23, 2010 01:06 PM            

the ego/self expression/vitality,masculine/yang in the areas of relationships,partnerships are at odds with dissolution/idealism/imagination/inspiration in the areas of self, and that conflicts with the emotional nature/feelings/instincts/nurturing/feminine/yin in the areas of expansion,beliefs.

I get the impression that you're having problems with relationships because you have problems having a relationship with yourself which is connected to the possibility of a difficult relationship between your mother and father at the time that you were born.

T-square is a very challenging configuration which indicates great external and internal stress. Because of that, it can be very productive and motivating. Most successful people have t-squares in their charts.
The opposition correlates with Libra and the square correlate with Cancer and Capricorn. The Cardinal signs.
Action and initiation.
Your Moon is in Libra,Sun in Cancer,and Neptune in Cancer.....so you're t-square is in cardinal signs.

There is a strong theme of action and initiation.

That's not your only t-square.
Your Venus is Taurus in 5th oppose Saturn in Scorpio in 11th , and that squares Jupiter in 2nd

from the looks of it, this configuration looks like a major challenge involving love,security,self worth,intimacy,judgment,and friendship.
There can be issues of finding who are your friends and who are your romantic partners. There is the possibility of falling in love with people that only want to be your friend and vice versa. There is the possibility of what's called unrequited love in connection to that. It could be hard for you to be friends with the opposite gender if end up falling in love with them.

It's a fixed t-square, and so there could be challenges of being too stubborn. The t-square is also in succeedent houses which corresponds with the fixed signs too. That adds to that.

Your Venus conjunct the North Lunar Node in 5th in Taurus does point that you are here to learn about love,self worth,romance,and dealing with children. I believe that those things will come to you, but you have to learn about loving yourself and being secure in yourself first before you can love others and they love you.
A big romantic,love opportunity could come to you when transiting Jupiter conjuncts your Venus-North Lunar Node conjunction in 5th in April 2012.
There is also a time for passionate,love in June 2011 when transiting Mars conjunct your Venus-North Lunar Node conjunction in 5th.

Any issues that you might have with parents have to be resolved. Neptune in t-square to your Sun and Moon indicates that there could been some escapism,idealism, and possible lack of availability involving both your parents. You might not even have a clue about them in some way ,and so there can be confusion. This in turn, would create escapism,idealism,lack of availability,and confusion in relationships that you have with others.

You have Uranus conjunct/oppose Ascendant/Descendant axis. This indicates that you're unpredictable and independent in how you approach life and relate to others. Some people might find you too weird and peculiar with that aspect as well as the Moon,Sun,Neptune t-square.
You might consider yourself abnormal. Maybe you even relate to being an Indigo,Starseed,lightworker and that you need to have a relationship with those types.

It is important for you to have a spiritual orientation and be involved with spiritual oriented people. The Moon,Sun,Neptune t-square is ultrasensitive and impressionable that you can be easily affected by your surroundings. This can lead you to be seduced and taken advantage by the wrong people if you're not being careful and not exercising good judgment.

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted December 23, 2010 03:27 PM            

Glaucus, I just wanted to say that you are so amazing. You have a wealth of knowledge that you freely share, but you also take the time to welcome the Newflakes and explain things in a way that anyone can understand. That is the makings of a true Teacher.

posted December 23, 2010 04:29 PM            

Between the ages of 42-43 you go through transiting Uranus opposite Natal Uranus and you know what Uranus does it shakes things up. Some woman start their midlife crisis during this transit.

posted December 23, 2010 05:35 PM            

I enjoy Reading what you post on here. I'm not into flattery, but your one of the few that keeps me floating about. You display great integrity and knowledge.

Glad you back.

posted December 23, 2010 07:00 PM            

I just wanted to add that when dealing with your T-Square you can see that the Energies are Cardinal..
Your Sun is in Cancer opposing the Neptune in Capricorn..with the point of focus being your Moon, in Libra squaring both.

Glaucus pointed out that a square to the Sun and Moon indicate issues with the Mother and father.

But also consider the Neptune Square to your Moon...Neptune works its delusional Energy here....because it causes you to not be able to see situations clearly because of ideas of love that you project on to your partner.

Your Moon is the point of focus here, so Lixxy your childhood is what you need to explore here as Glaucus has said because these Emotions are coming from your past and this life that your projected is only a manifestation of all the incarnations that your Spirit has ever had and the knowledge of every Soul it has ever been is carried within you in your DNA.
All of your experiences have caused you to have this T-Square, indicating you have not handled these situations well in past lives... but to fix it we must go deeper otherwise whats the point in knowing it if you cant fix it?

The Moon is in the 9th house so if we draw in the empty leg of the cross it takes us to your 3rd house....the house of Communications...so then you must look at how you are communicating in intimate relationships. Perhaps you should be more honest and forthright with how you are feeling asking yourself has this person shown by what they are saying and doing and by way of thinking as well..that they reciprocate and have the same intense feelings for me I am having for them. A simple yes or no from them can stop this wandering in the land of the unknown only to get crushed by the big monster type scenario your relationships are.

Are you so wrapped up in what you feel and what that person is doing for you that you are forgetting that there is another person there...consider this about
Neptune Square Moon from Cafe Astrology:
Because of their dreamy natures and big hopes, it is too easy for those with Moon in hard aspect to Neptune to become disenchanted. In turn, it is easy for them to be inspired once again. The result is an emotional rollercoaster ride. These people hunger for emotional inspiration and nourishment, but they can be like a bottomless pit in this regard. Or, their hopes can be too lofty and unrealistic, so the undefined prize they are searching for is forever elusive. At times, they feel very much at mercy of their emotions, yet they have a hard time truly understanding or defining their emotional worlds. There is much yearning of the soul with this position, yet the emptiness they tend to feel so overwhelmingly at times is hard to define. In all likelihood, they are searching for unconditional love--both to give it and to receive it. Yet, their own faith and trust in others is subject to huge swings. They want more than anything to trust their loved ones, yet when they do, part of them is suspicious of their own trusting hearts, and they worry that they trust too much. Often, these issues stem from a childhood in which the nurturing was inconsistent.

I thought that a very thought provoking take on that Energy.

But first you must understand that aside from this chart Lixxy, you must learn to love yourself. That man is only a reflection honey...and many times I am finding that in fact we are crueler to ourselves than the Universe seemingly is.

Now there...no more bad relationships for you! POOF!..*waving magic wand* .lol dont you wish it worked that way?

posted December 23, 2010 08:28 PM            

I'll take one of those magic wands.

posted December 24, 2010 04:57 AM            

Why never works out?
- I had one unrequited love
- I'm attracted to about 10 yrs older men and they're usually married
- I'm very shy with men I love a lot and too scared to ask them out so I talk with men I only 'like' (I'm not shy in social situations). I'm in this situation right now. I'm shy, he's shy (or he's not that much into me), nothing happens only eye
contact flirting. I know his exact birth date, if I post his chart can you tell me if he likes me, what his girl type, how to
approach him? Should I post his natal chart, synastry or composite?

Thank you for your help.

posted December 24, 2010 05:21 AM            

Synastry (I'm outside, he's inside)
http://img98.imageshack.us/f/synastry.gif/

Synastry with some love asteroids:
http://img442.imageshack.us/i/synastyloveasteroids.gif/

posted December 24, 2010 09:22 AM            

Why would you just settle for someone you like?
Do you love yourself Lixxy or do you like yoursef?

We will look into whether or not he likes you in a bit. Although I seriously feels if he did you would know...
But I dont know I would go up and have a conversation..."I mean hi...I dont think Ive met you Im such and such"...this is that form of direct communication I mentioned from that T-Square communication is the way out.
You can tell then if they like you usually...but I havent been that way for a while.
I let the Universe find me.
I really feel like your trying to be a doer here...you know like your trying to force something.
All of your Energy in your Aura moves outward...as though you need to be recharged by others...when really you need to be able to recharge yourself.
If the Universe means for this man to be the one..it will let you know.
Hey its worked for me and my Soul group.

The Universe does not give you that which you ask for...it gives you just the opposite until you say enough and decide to give it to yourself. Then resonance can be raised because you begin to pull from your own Source. And you will attract a like charge...right now you are attracting a like charge.

Ive given you alot to think about...sorry if its a bit intense.