posted June 22, 2011 08:38 PM            

I ask this at the point where I believe that I suffer from lack of integrity due to my personal Jupiter-ruled 7th house. It consents too fast, it doesn't anticipate the bigger picture, it's kind of naive and compulsively giving, especially with Sun and Mercury in 7th. It's so non-confrontational at any price, until issues pile up and are hard to be traced and fixed.

Do you have any of these issues with your 7th:

7th house Aries – decisions made too quickly

7th Taurus – rigidity about values

7th Gemini – overly negotiating, lose scope of a big picture, "superficial", whatever that means

7th Cancer – emotionally unstable, fragile sense of security, too much focus on responsibility

7th Leo – too much “ego” centered-ness

7th Virgo – absence of emotional flow, overly critical

7th Libra – indecisiveness,

7th Scorpio – fear of change, or fear of imposed change

7th Sagittarius – too giving without a plan

7th Cap – overly controlling

7th Aqua – lack of predictability

7th Pisces – lack of clarity

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

posted June 22, 2011 08:42 PM            

7th Sagittarius – too giving without a plan

posted June 22, 2011 10:50 PM            

I have 7th in Sagittarius too. With Saturn and Uranus conjunct the DSC. As well as Neptune in the 7th.

posted June 23, 2011 03:40 AM            

My first serious relationship went through crisis – due to lies, dishonesty, manipulative behaviour, nosy people getting involved and causing more lies and dishonesty to come into the picture, gossip, inability to have a normal/reasonable conversation about ANY of our problems, impatience on his part (huge problem)

My second serious relationship didn’t really go through crisis but it ended because I was a bit disinterested overall and he got tired of waiting for me to be more involved. There was a lot of friendship, but not enough sexual chemistry.

I won’t count the rest because they’d fall under the 5th house.

posted June 23, 2011 10:26 AM            

I have 7th house Gemini, but none of what is mentioned really applies to me. Perhaps superficial in a way, and I overanalyze relationships, love and everything about it. Also emotions, but hey... I do have Gemini moon too

Interestingly, I do have a thing about freedom and the ability to maintain my own identity which often leads to a crisis in a relationship. Well... I've only really had two relationships which lasted long enough to have crises... The first one ended because the man in question wanted to keep me locked up in a golden cage and I resisted heavily. In the second relationship that lasted long enough, it was slowly heading the same way. I couldn't do anything without him questioning my actions, whereabouts etc, and whenever I practiced my hobbies, he criticized them heavily and constantly (books were for crazy people who lived in a dream world, for example... ), with every male friend I had he wondered if we were getting it on and in the end I just felt miserable because I couldn't go out, do any of my hobbies or meet any of my friends (which are predominantly male) without meeting his criticism - and being the conflict-avoidant girl that I am (I know, hard to believe, but I really do try to avoid conflict as much as I can) I just avoided doing anything that could get a rise out of him. It was more subtle and passive-agressive than my first long relationship, though. the first one was clearer about where he thought I should stand with him...

posted June 23, 2011 04:10 PM            

Marriage for love, based on confidence, honesty, sincerity."