posted December 22, 2011 06:41 AM            

Neptune aspects:
Saturn trine Neptune
Neptune sextile pluto

Family and friends have noticed over the years that she breaks up all her serious relationships with men who appear to be great BUT she is convinced that there is something wrong with them that would be a deal breaker but when she says what it is and she usually keeps this things to herself others don’t think her suspicions are true. These men eventually get married and have children of their own.

She also has mercury square Pluto, mercury trine Uranus, mercury sextile mars, and mercury trine northnode. She has stellium between sun, mercury and Venus. She also has moon in Scorpio.

Part of me thinks she perhaps those attract guys with things that are deal breakers and perhaps she is very intuitive and others don’t pick up things she does since she is very intimate with them.

So based on information given would you say there is a good chance that she is intuitive and right about her suspicions about these men.

Since her rising is in the first house which is in Virgo perhaps mercury, the ruler of the first, could represent the kind of guys that gravitate towards her. Could mercury square Pluto, mercury trine Uranus, moon in Scorpio and 7th cusp in Pisces result in her attracting guys who are bisexual and/or into drugs and hide it from her and don’t tell her??.

Or is 7th cusp in Pisces and Neptune in the 3rd retrograde make her not see clearly men who she is committed with, letting her imagine run wild. Would her moon in Scorpio be turning the Neptune influence into Paranoia??

posted December 22, 2011 06:45 AM            

Are you saying that she immediately assumes the worst when there's nothing wrong? That type of thing is a garden-variety moon scorp trait. They suspect the least/worst of everyone lol.

posted December 22, 2011 07:44 AM            

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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
I'm not sure what you're saying.

Are you saying that she immediately assumes the worst when there's nothing wrong? That type of thing is a garden-variety moon scorp trait. They suspect the least/worst of everyone lol.

Does she has venus in aspect to uranus or is her uranus prominent in any way? If so on some level she might be doing this stuff because she wants to keep her freedom or something? Or has fear of commitments or intimacy or something.

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What you are saying is also a big possibility that my dad and I have entertained as well.

Her Uranas squares saturn, trines mercury and sextiles mars. Her uranus is exalted.

posted December 22, 2011 10:21 PM            

1. Virgo is natural ruler of 6th house - which is the natural place for break ups of relationships. This could be a reason why she seems to break up with people, because that's what her ascendant is about.

2. Virgo risers can be very critical, looking for perfection always. They never really find perfection but keep looking. Maybe she's looking for too much.

posted December 24, 2011 01:45 AM            

Mercury square or opposition Pluto
You are so perceptive and you dig so deep for answers that you can be your own worst enemy. As a result, you might find ulterior motives or dark intent where there is none, and your suspicious, provocative attitude can cause some problems in your personal life, particularly if it reaches the level of paranoia. Not many people enjoy being second-guessed all the time, yet that is something that you are inclined to do, and a tendency that should be kept in check in your dealings with others. However, your determination to get to the bottom of any matter, to rip away falsehoods and expose true motives, can be used for good if you employ it in your work, for example, which can involve investigation and research, psychology, or revealing and perhaps dark creative arts. You can be insatiably curious about all that is hidden, taboo, repressed, or secret. You have a great love of debate, but should be careful that you don't overpower others with your strong opinions, attempting to "convert" them to your frame of mind, or treat regular debate or exchanges of opinion as battlegrounds. Many of you do learn to harness your intense mental energy and apply it productively. You are capable of very hard work and effort.

Interpretation sample from the In-Depth Profile report -- You are bright and insightful but the very strength and depth of your vision can mislead you. In consequence, you get in your own way a lot. The magnitude of a project can intimidate you so that you don't even embark on it. You are a perfectionist and compulsive. You fear being judged by others as inadequate and this quality has you afraid to act. Of course, you do overcome this many times in your day to day life, but it goes smoother for you when you stop attributing negative motives to those around you. You are able to do this when you feel better about yourself. Periods of meditation and contemplation are necessary to get to know yourself.