posted June 24, 2012 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Saraintheski:
I'm a pisces rising , hm maybe that's why i'm attracted he does have some addiction problems as well..

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posted June 24, 2012 08:10 PM            

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again he's kind of hyper critical , he seem's to have settled down and is staying at his mothers out of the city , I don't feel a soulmate connection with him ..I don't know if I ever will but i'm pretty lonely and he offered me a day out to go downtown and right now I really need it . I was in a relationship for 2 years with another older man I tried to help but he was actually insane so I burnt myself out on that.

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Oh god this is crazy he has the same placements as my ex.My ex is a virgo sun and aqua moon.He is very critical he could burn you with his words.Your situation sounds so much like mine I constantly tried to help him with his addiction problems burnt myself out.Plus he was very controlling.

posted June 24, 2012 08:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Saraintheski:
again he's kind of hyper critical , he seem's to have settled down and is staying at his mothers out of the city , I don't feel a soulmate connection with him ..I don't know if I ever will but i'm pretty lonely and he offered me a day out to go downtown and right now I really need it . I was in a relationship for 2 years with another older man I tried to help but he was actually insane so I burnt myself out on that.

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Oh god this is crazy he has the same placements as my ex.My ex is a virgo sun and aqua moon.He is very critical he could burn you with his words.Your situation sounds so much like mine I constantly tried to help him with his addiction problems burnt myself out.Plus he was very controlling.

posted June 24, 2012 08:22 PM            

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yes and the last relationship was with a guy that I truly loved and had some beautiful times with, this guy I had fun talking too and I wouldn't mind smoking some pot with him and just letting lose on the town and we both just know it as that. Because of his bi polar disorder I wouldn't take it too heart if he wasn't serious . Gosh I sound stupid ! eek I actually want to feel loved and secure but right now since i'm so young I wouldn't mind just this kind of casual dating thing for now .

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Well we all want too be loved and have that deep connection.But sometimes its not available at that particular time.Causal dating is okay sometimes especially when your getting out of a long term relationship.

Just make sure your truly are okay with it being only casual,so you don't get too emotionally invested in him.

posted June 24, 2012 08:46 PM            

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I will , I told him it took me only two days to get over him 2 years ago and he said GOOD! lol so idk . I usually would never be this shallow , I don't feel like being used the last man I was with was so much more brutal with words , physical abuse and I had much more emotional vulnerability with him, I was so devoted to this person totally isolating myself from the world so that he would stop picking fights " long story short he's in jail now "

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Yes after what you've been threw you deserve something light fun and simple.I'm very sorry too hear about your physical abuse.Luckily he's in jail and he can't hurt you anymore.I don't think this guy will use you.You're much wiser now after you last relationship,so he wont be able too take advantage of you.

posted June 24, 2012 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Saraintheski:
I will , I told him it took me only two days to get over him 2 years ago and he said GOOD! lol so idk . I usually would never be this shallow , I don't feel like being used the last man I was with was so much more brutal with words , physical abuse and I had much more emotional vulnerability with him, I was so devoted to this person totally isolating myself from the world so that he would stop picking fights " long story short he's in jail now "

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Yes after what you've been threw you deserve something light fun and simple.I'm very sorry too hear about your physical abuse.Luckily he's in jail and he can't hurt you anymore.I don't think this guy will use you.You're much wiser now after you last relationship,so he wont be able too take advantage of you.